Confessions of a Ladies Man:The Trick to Getting Nudes Pics

I am sure you are aware by now that begging a woman for nude pictures pretty much never works right? I can tell you that over the years I have gotten a lot of nude pictures and almost all of them are from women. Here is how.

Establish Rapport

Position yourself as a blunt talking guy who is goofy. It is a risk thing to do and you have to know what you are doing. The reason you do this is to find out what kind or woman you are dealing with. Find out if she is a prude woman who is weird about sex or shows lack of interest then move on to a new girl.

Tell a Sex Joke

YOu don't need to do this more than once. But admit that you are a 'boob guy" or admit that you "really like a nice butt". Whatever it is that you admit make sure it is a feature that the girl you are talking to has. Just today I said, "I have a confession to make...I am obsessed with red heads." well...she had red hair.

Ask About Her Fashion

That's right. Make sure to ask her "So what is your fashion like?" or say, "What is your style on a first date?" Stay with it by asking her, "Do you prefer to wear dresses or jeans?" You could also ask her what color looks best on her. What is going to happen is that she is going to start sending you pictures of herself. She will send pictures that show more of her body so you see her outfits.

Compliment Her

Typically when she sends you pictures she will add one with cleavage or something sexy. Compliment her. Validation is like crack cocaine for a woman. Its an addictive high. With a couple of pics and compliments she will send you a nude.

No Dick Pics!

By the time she is sending you pics she will likely already send you nudes...however..if it still is just clothes send her a shirtless picture of yourself. Send a swimsuit picture on the beach. Then she will send a nude pic. Just dont send any dick pic unless she asks.

Confessions of a Ladies Man:The Trick to Getting Nudes Pics
Confessions of a Ladies Man:The Trick to Getting Nudes Pics

IT ONLY WORKS IF SHE doesn't THINK you're CREEPY! SHE MUST BE ATTRACTED!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • I stopped sending and asking for nudes in highschool when a friend of mine had her nudes circulated through out the student body when she broke up with an ex and he was mad so he decided to embarrass her.

    Seeing that happen in real time shocked me so personally I will never do that again because there is NO WAY to know if that other person will honor your privacy or not. They could say don't worry ill delete it and then simply not delete it.

    For me nudes are basically just 2 minutes of ecstasy followed by days and weeks and months of stress wondering if they will get mad and circulate your nudes.

    And on the flip side. I've encountered very few women who are open to sending and receiving nudes and they are usually the type who are looking for sex and nothing else which is not what I want in a woman.

    • I honestly wish people that didn't respect privacy like that were purged from the world.

  • Don't take this clown's advice, brothers. Women only send nudes to those they love, trust, and feel secure around. And for fucks sake don't play with her feelings.

    • Thats not true. 1. Building rapport=building trust. 2. Most women including the chic from yesterday are not in love with me. They just were attracted and me a nude. Almost like a reward.

    • Telling sex jokes right off the bat? Straight up admitting kinks right off the bat? Lol no bud.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I won't send nudes unless I trust a person, meaning we are in a serious relationship. I don't trust people to be honorable.

    I'm sorry but you're telling men to waste their time. You're going to just make them frustrated and probably end up just being mean to women.

    The women who are willing to send nudes will probably do it regardless of what a man says or does.

    You said find out if they are a prude... I'm not and I'm very open about talking about sexual things but in no way does that mean I'm sending nudes. This is bad advice man.

    • Well said , even though i wonder why a man would ask his girlfriend/ wife for nudes when he lives with her 😅

    • I sent them to tease them while at work😊 a little foreplay..

    • Holy shit i would leave early... 👀🏃🏃🏃

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  • DONT SEND NUDES!
    It can be used against you to blackmail you. So it can be spread on the internet. I have send pics of my breast in my bra and dont show my face but i still regret it. However i am happy that i did not show my face but i am afraid i am gonna be noticed due to my body/clothes.

    • As someone who studies cyber security there are many cases of blackmailing i heard about. Don't send at all and it's better not to take pictures even. If someone hacked u then will get these pictures.

    • But who will hack you?

    • Me? No one but I meant there are bad hackers out there would hack your phone and steal your data

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  • So you establish rapport, to build trust, to build the attraction, with the intent of getting nude pics without asking?

    This is called manipulation.

    No. Anyone who follows this or any similar advice is in for a rude awakening.

  • LMAO

    I'm shocked at how many women think you're wrong, yet you still have the pics.

    The absolute dumbest thing you can do to get pics, is ask for them.

    There's an old proverb...

    The best way to get a bank loan is to prove you don't need it.

    I do believe you've cracked the secret code.

    • @Giselleselfish Coming from you I'll take it as a compliment. I LOVE that the asker is pissing you morons off. You are in control of whether or not you send pics, and yet he knows how to get pics from idiots like you.

    • He's pissing them off for attention and its working @daisyjones

    • @WowwGirl You're `100% correct.

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  • Just what we need, another expert telling guys how to extort women to accept nude pics of some hairy pogo stick. You seem to exhort it. Frankly I think you are a horny ass whose only mission in life is to get dumb women, who probably have low self esteem, to send pics of their genitals. But I knew you were a fuck tard early on by your posts.

  • So you're saying... You're getting on women's nerves? They send you nudes to shut you up. If you sent me a nude, I'll laugh.

    You're forcing women into something very illegal and you think this is ok? What is wrong with you?

    • Huh? What are you talking about? This is basically flirting with a girl and her sending nudes without a guy having to ask. Establishing rapport is back and forth connection.

    • Don't bother listening to @apope16 . All he "dates" are gutter tramps and whores looking for easy sex. It's why he's always bitching about women been low quality (like fat and single mothers) cause any decent women men really want won't have anything to do with him

  • I've been sent nudes out of nowhere by girls I don't know. Usually, boob pics. An ass or pussy is very rare. It's almost always boobs. If I have no idea why she's sending them, and I clearly didn't ask for it, I usually assume she's a gold digger or a bot, and delete the nudes immediately.

    Way I see it, if I really want to see a woman naked, I'd much prefer to have a flesh and blood girlfriend. One who will take off her clothes with little hesitation if we're alone together and I either ask to see her naked or she's really in the mood to be seen naked. One who won't just flash her boobs to a man that knows her, but is real enough that I can touch her boobs as well.

    And if she really wants more, we can then shower together. I love visuals, but would really like to be able to touch as well, and be touched.

  • Man. You're pathetic @apope16 . Most women don't send nudes to men they don't know. Gutter tramps, whores, sluts, etc sure because they're so cheap any dirtbag would do for an easy fuck.

  • This guy doesn't know his ass from a hole in the ground. I get nudes without any of his stupid unfounded advice and I don't ask. I get nudes at random from girls that I have never slept with saying Good Morning and a pic of big tits. I get them on holidays. I will never share them because I respect them and their faith in me to not expose them to anyone. Some girls send nudes because the guy is annoying by begging, telling stupid corny jokes, and spamming them with dick pics thinking they are God's gift to women. Guys are all stupidly happy when they get the pic because now they got a pic to pound their pudd to for the next two minutes from a girl that only sent the pic to get the guy to shut the fuck up. Some guys feel entitled to get pics if they send pics which is just pure stupidity. Guys if you really want nudes then don't listen to this jack wagon's advice and don't be a spaz dick jerking creeper. Women don't like that. All you pathetic sperm sprinklers are giving the good decent guys bad names.

    Ladies be careful who you send nudes to because more than likely you are on a porn site advertisement some where. I have seen it happen to people I have known. Wanna know if your pics made it on a hyperlink to a porn site, bring up Google, click on images at the top, drag and drop a pic into the search bar and any sites found with that pic will be displayed. More than likely some random guy on Tinder or other site just collects and then uses them or sells them. They pretend to be a girl talking to a guy and offers to sell pics and videos for money and normally this shouldn't happen but guys are dumb and horny. They pay to watch girls on streaming services of whom they will never meet and buy them digital icons with real money to pamper them. Girls be careful and stay safe.

    • MHO!!

    • @Giselleselfish What is MHO?

    • @HamburgerFries Most Helpful Opinion!!

  • So low class to ever ask in the first place.

  • Yeah, good points.
    Can confirm works

  • Sure, thats the trick isn't it? All it is is just a trick. Not like interactions ever need to amount to anything more than just getting nudes.

  • What I will say is that it depends on the woman's attraction towards you. I have gotten a few and the biggest thing all of them shared was that outside of being comfortable with their sexuality, they did it without my asking.

  • ... This is embarrassing. I'm not sure if you're getting nudes from present, mentally-soubd, legal women or if this is well-crafted fiction, but... no, mate, just no. Stop it, get some help.

    • Sound* sorry the mistake, mate.

  • I don't have difficulty getting nude picks sent my way, but the problem I'd like a solution to, is how to get those pics to stop comming, once the Sexting FloodGates have been opened🙈.

  • And don't save/send nudes without their consent.

    • Personally this fear is why I NEVER send nudes and NEVER ask for them.

  • Yes, must be attracted.

    I think of it as foreplay if you're only interested in having a sexual relationship. I see nothing wrong with just being blunt and not being manipulative. Just use it... be flirty. I'm saying if you both are open to having a casual sexual relationship "Why do you have to be manipulative?" I prefer to make my intentions known so we don't play around the obvious. No one has to joke or ask questions for pics... You will get them if we're on the same page without doing so. It's part of what we do while we're doing each other.

  • But I don't understand, why do you want to help the men who only want nudes from a woman to get those nudes by means of tricking women into thinking they have any other interest in her?

    • Unethical and I’m sure karma will get to business at some point.

    • 🤔🤔

  • Nah... bs

    • If someone sends nudes it's not because they were convinced in any way... its because they are mind-numbingly stupid

  • Why don't you share to me some pic? 😎

  • No way!!! Sending a shirtless pic is the creepiest fucking thing! You send a nice face pic with a smile and simply just ask for what kind of pic you want. Simple as that

    • How this guy gets guaranteed featured is beyond me. Pathological liar at its best

  • There is no trick to getting nudes. If she sends nudes then she's either a tease or she wants you to knock her ankles loose. Most importantly, it depends on if the woman wants to do that or not.

    • Its not a trick. More like a process. And you are correct.

    • No dude... Just no

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