Things I Wish People Knew About Multisexual People. Part 1

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Bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual-You've probably heard a few of the identities under multisexuality. There's a few things that I would like you to know about us.

1. We Don't Care About Gender and Sex

Many people have the assumption that we care about a person's sex and gender. We really don't. What sex and gender our partner(s) are doesn't matter to us. What does matter to us is that we like you for who you are. And that's way more important over a person's anatomy and identity any day.

2. We Love, Date, and Have Sex Like Anybody Else

Whether you're straight, gay, or bi you've probably done at least one of these (or all of them). Multisexual people don't date, love, or have sex any differently than those who aren't. The only difference there will ever be is that we're attracted to more than one gender/sex. And that's a slight difference when you really think about it. Another thing: Even if we do have a preference towards a sex/gender, it doesn't make us love our current partner any less.

3. We Can Be Monogamous Or Polyamorous

Many people have this odd conception that we must be shared by our partner. But here comes the shocker: We can be monogamous or polyamorous. This goes for pretty much everybody else. But the reason why I point this out is because it's a common misconception that all of us are polyamorous. This isn't true. Some of us only have one partner at a time and some of us have more than one partner at a time. Not only is this generalizing a specific sexuality, but it's also making the assumption that straight and gay people who are polyamorous are also bi. If that's not being offensive to anybody's lifestyle choices then I don't know what is.

Note: Since I can't quite type everything in one post, I'm making another part for the rest.

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Rob17792 Yoda
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omg you millennials really lost your god damn minds. omnisexual multisexual christ quit seeking attention. i'm sorry but this whole lgbtquia etc is really getting out of hand at this point. also polyamorous sorry it's still fucking cheating regardless of how you like to sugar coat it. and if you're "polyamorous" aka cheating then you're a piece of shit no other way about it. christ grow the fuck up already and quit looking for attention. fucking millennials. god help everyone else when your generation takes control of this country god forbid. this country will be a bigger disaster than what it is now
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- Rob17792
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  the lgbtquia etc is really getting out of control and out of hand at this point. it's a hop on the fad bandwagon and go along with whatever is cool in the moment bullshit craze frenzy. fucking sickening. i'm sorry but get a god damn life and find a better god damn hobby instead of making shit up out of your ass with multisexual and omnisexual. and trying to validate infidelity and cheating by sugar coating it as polyamorous
- Rob17792
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  all you millennial shit for brains fucktards are doing now is making shit up out of your asses now because it's cool and hip to hop on the bandwagon of the lgbtq etc community
- Rob17792
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  all you millennial fucks are doing now is making a damn mockery out of the legit lgbtq community who actually fought hard back in the day for equal rights. all this ia whatever crap you're generation is spewing is undoing decades of hard work the real legit lgbtq community has done and worked so hard for.
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- Rob17792
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  and all your multisexual omnisexual crap is nothing more than attention seeking mocking the legit lgbtq community and all their decades of hard work.
- Rob17792
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  all the damn brainwashed hop on the bandwagon is getting sickening at this point. im a big supporter and advocate of the lgbtq community but when i see bullshit terms being thrown around and bullshit excuses for cheating and whoring yourself around and infidelity and blatantly hiding behind the lgbtq community for your bullshit behavior that's when i have to draw the fucking line in all of this idiotic nonsense you millennial shit for brains are causing. hop on a different bandwagon and make another fad up you little shits can get excited about instead of undoing decades of hard work for equal rights
- Rob17792
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  here's a newsflash the lgbtq community isn't some popculture fad like you millennial shits like to think it is. elton john has busted his ass fighting against aids and he's gay. back in the 90's and prior gays were getting blamed for passing aids and hiv because of their homosexuality and homosexual acts. they fought long hard battles and wars to be accepted wars you don't know anything about or couldn't possibly imagine and no i'm not talking about getting beaten up on a street i'm talking about dying and getting fucking killed and burned and raped and tortured because of your sexual preference. and when i see some bullshit terms like multisexual and omnisexual and using polyamorous nonsense as a validation for fucking cheating i'm sorry but that shit really pisses the fucking hell out of me knowing how hard the lgbtq community came to getting the rights they deserve
- Rob17792
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  gays and bisexuals in the holocaust died because of their sexuality, gays fought to fight in the military and transgenders still can't and i'm not even talking about teens who live out in the street because they got thrown out by mommy and daddy because they like the same sex gender no i'm talking about teens and young adults of the lgbtq community who were sex trafficked into fucking older men or older women or who were gang raped and beaten or forced to have sex to make ends meet just so they can buy fucking food for themselves a hot meal while they're living on the fucking street trying to survive. those same people who are forced to sleep in homeless shelters and carry weapons like knives on them to protect themselves from assault. and the stereotype of rape in prison and dealing with the countless and endless gay banter jokes and insults about gays especially those in prison it's sickening. and when i hear you millennials nonchalantly say moronic terms like that truly pisses me off. and yes i already know the original lgbtq terms had to come into existence from decades ago and wasn't accepting but that was an entirely different deal and an entirely different situation of people coming to terms with who they are and wanting to be accepted for who they are not for some attention seeking bullshit fad bandwagon bullshit like you millennials are making this out to be like some sort of craze
- Rob17792
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  and it's not just for idiotic asinine terms like multisexual and omnisexual, but other idiotic asinine terms like metrosexual pansexual and any other jackass sexual term you can throw in front of the word sexual. all this is showing is a sheer mockery and a blatant disrespect for the real lgbtq community and everything they stand for and worked so hard for. so get off the bandwagon and quit acting like it's a fad with the metrosexual pansexual multisexual omnisexual and whatever other bullshit sexual nonsense you want to make up out of your asses. and this doesn't go for you but for anyone else reading this wanting to be a little attention seeking bastard or prick
- Rob17792
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  I'm also well aware of how people in the lgbtq community were once thought of as mentally ill and were part of a diagnosis in the dsm-5 and prior, but with the advent and acceptance of their community that changed a great deal and were no longer diagnosising gays lesbians bisexuals transgenders queers as having a mental disorder unless it was a legit mental disorder such as depression anxiety ocd ptsd schizophrenia bipolar
- Rob17792
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  and being gay lesbian bisexual queer transgender was actually removed from the dsm-5 a while back
jgibsonian1986 Xper 6
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That's odd, because all the multisexuals guys I know are actively trying to get in my pants even while I say how uncomfortable it makes me. Sure does seem like they care about sex, considering it's the forefront of their identity.
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- PBandJ_Nerd
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  For me it's the complete opposite. Whenever I talk to someone who isn't bisexual, they always turn it into the "gender and sex" thing. They want me to date a guy but only because 1. He's a guy, 2. He has a penis, and 3. to have sex with him. Yet, I am against dating like that. That's why I like the "Hearts Not Parts" bi flag-because to me it doesn't matter what sex/parts you have. Who you are will always be important to me. But of course not everyone has the same experience.
- jgibsonian1986
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  It might be a demographic difference then, because they are hyper thirsty where I live lol. Would you consider that the differences in brain chemistry play a larger role in one's person than their sexual organs? In my studies the dichotomy between how men's and women's brains work is the true value in intimate relationships between men and women, not necessarily sex. One proving point is that plenty of older couples don't have sex anymore but the unique relationship between their male and female minds is what keeps them together.
- PBandJ_Nerd
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  I think having a deep bond with someone can keep you together with somebody for a very long time.
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- jgibsonian1986
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  I know that the relationship between men's and woman's minds were made to last for life.

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AshTheAce Xper 1
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in my opinion polyamory is cheating and can get toxic really quick. All the last relationships I've been in had the other in a relationship, they said it was fine but it wasn't and eventually led me to get hurt.
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- PBandJ_Nerd
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  That's fine. Polyamory usually is talked about before people get into a relationship. I know some dating sites even give you the option to see people who are only polyamorous or monogamous. But yeah, sometimes certain love lives do not work out as well as some were hoping it to.
loves2learn Master
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Good read. Things I already knew, but will be educational to others. :)
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- PBandJ_Nerd
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  That's what I'm hoping by making this mytake. I understand that some people on here have bad experiences with multisexual people. But not all multisexual people are like that just some.
- loves2learn
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  Yup. People can have similar bad experiences with gay and straight people too.
- PBandJ_Nerd
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  Exactly. Everyone is human. And that's the whole point of this mytake-that no matter the sexuality we don't all fit into one box. There's going to be some good people and some bad people regardless.
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- loves2learn
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  I completely agree

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OlderAndWiser Editor
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"The only difference there will ever be is that we're attracted to more than one gender/sex. And that's a slight difference when you really think about it." No, it's a hugely monumental difference that people want to minimize so they can try to normalize what are statistically aberrant lifestyles. You are different from most other people and words won't change that.
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dmyger Xper 3
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In my point of view, that all people (no matter gender) are monogamous only through our upbringing. While our real nature differs a bit, that's why we should apply a force to match expectations of social norms to be only with one partner for live. And I see that some open-minded people want to have a little more freedom in the relationship. And I don't see why is it wrong?
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Yourfriend2021 Explorer
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I think if 2 people love each other, that can make a relationship last.
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Goatmeal Xper 4
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No one cares who you want to fuck.
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stuntbrain Yoda
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You don't know shit
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- PBandJ_Nerd
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  Maybe it would be better if you told me what was wrong or if you wanted something added to the mytake instead? I will gladly add something to the next one so it's not left out.
gorydetails Yoda
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lmao.
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m33lad Xper 5
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Who’s goanna read all that garbage?
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- Curmudgeon
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  I think "word salad" would be a better choice of words than "garbage", no need to be mean, but I must concur that the lady seems a bit confused.
- m33lad
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  Don’t be such a snowflake you’re a man for God sake!
- Curmudgeon
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  meh. You can make your point to a confused young lady that she is confused in a kind way. She might even listen that way, you know?
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- PBandJ_Nerd
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  @m33lad Then go about your day/night if you don't like the mytake?
- PBandJ_Nerd
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  @Curmudgeon What do you exactly mean by "confused" here? If you're questioning my use of the word multisexuality it is simply an umbrella term for those sexualities who experience attraction to more than one gender & sex. However, multisexual can be an identity on it's own if that's what a person chooses to identify as. But I'm using it to refer to everyone under the umbrella.
- Curmudgeon
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  Once upon a time in rational world, that was called bisexuality. And that's still a fine term, by the way.
- PBandJ_Nerd
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  @Curmudgeon I know. I identify as bisexual.
- Rob17792
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  @pbandj_nerd "However, multisexual can be an identity on it's own if that's what a person chooses to identify as" now you're really making shit up out of your own ass. and right here you even flat out admitted you're making shit up out of your own ass "If you're questioning my use of the word multisexuality" Do us all a favor and quit being a god damn attention seeker.
- Rob17792
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  @Curmudgeon i completely agree
- Rob17792
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  @pbandj_nerd you really need to get your head out of your ass and do some actual hard core research on lgbtq instead of listening to a bunch of retarded idiotic attention seeking millennial shit for brains who think they know the lgbtq community instead of being brainwashed by a bunch of idiots. Do some actual real research ON YOUR OWN and learn their history and what their community is really all about and stop listening to jackass attention seeking millennials
- Rob17792
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  @pbandj_nerd the only thing you should be saying is to love everybody equally. all this metrosexual pansexual multisexual omnisexual whatever nonsense sexual crap is all horseshit. flat out bullshit. love everybody equally get your point across without sounding ignorant especially by listening to a bunch of brainwashed millennial morons
Adogdog Yoda
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Interesting!
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Nachowedgie Guru
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*yawn*
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