A ladies man has feelings too. Even if he's only looking to shag his loins, he is capable of falling in love. Even a ladies man wants to settle down with true love.
In my case I call myself a ladies man in the sense that I have many associations with women. Most sexual. Some romantic. Many platonic. But a ladies man simply means you can attract women in a variety of respects. It doesn't mean you are a player or fuckboy. Although some are.
I was once a dorky shy kid stuck in friendzone. Women would tell me all their secrets but never had sex with me. Then i grew muscles, got confident, become direct about sex. I've now lost most of my female friendships and I am not only seen as dating material.
I've now seen that middle ground is tough. I can't be a nice guy to date. Either im friendzoned or a woman sees me as a badboy and rips my clothes off on date one.
These days I have an 8inch dick and biceps and 6 pack abs. Im in a local rock band. Women just fuck me for awhile to say they did it. Then move on. Something I've never done. But its just assumed that is who I am.
Just because a hot guy dates you doesn't mean we are just for sex. Just because we have a lot of girls to fuck with doesn't mean we won't choose you.
I guess the point here is that men get a bad wrap. We are the ones accused of just wanting sex. The truth is that physically attractive men are used and washed up by women who play mind games and toy with hearts. Ladies CREATE bad boys. Men are treated like a piece of meet to brag to their girlfriends about on foreign trips or during the hot girl summer. Either you are a dork placed in friendzone or you are a hottie a girl wants to bang and move on.
The world is shallow. Women are always looking for the next best hottie and will dump you anytime rather than working on a relationship.
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