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Ladies: SEX – Five Things You Didn’t Know About Sex With Men

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1. You can have a stronger bond with your man by having sex facing each other and not using a condom (use another form of birth control). Sexual organism is one of the strongest natural-highs known to humankind. Your man seeing your face while having a sexual orgasm will overtime cause a natural association of this feeling with you, making the man only want to be with you. Having to remove a condom immediately after orgasm interrupts this mental conditioning process. You really want your man enjoy the feeling of closeness with you after an orgasm. This is a spin on the Pavlov’s dog experiment, where Pavlov would ring a bell while feeding the dog. Over time, the dog associated the ringing of the bell to food, so that Pavlov could ring the bell and the dog would salivate without food being present. The same principle applies to sex, as it has for thousands of years. To safely have unprotected sex, your two top criteria in a sexual partner should be monogamy and honesty.

Ladies: SEX – Five Things You Didn’t Know About Sex With Men

2. You know there is an unequal standard of sexual promiscuity between men and women. But you don’t know WHY. As a woman, if you give birth to a child, you know the identity of the mother. When a woman gives birth to a child, we don’t know with 100% certainty the identity of the father. For thousands of years a woman’s sexual purity was the best indicator of paternity of a child. The lineage of a child determined the succession of kingdoms and vast amounts of wealth. Now we have DNA tests to prove paternity, but find a man who says, “I want a wife who is so promiscuous, so that I need a DNA test to verify paternity of each of our children.” My advice is to keep your number of sexual partners to a low enough number that you can be honest to a prospective spouse, if he asks about your sexual history.

3. Reliable birth control has sexually liberated women, but also enabled many women to pursue dead-end sexual relationships. The problem occurs when one of these dead-end relationships result in a pregnancy. Thirty is not the new twenty. My advice, only have sex with men who you believe have the strong potential to be a good husband / father of your children. In other words, avoid having sex with a man who does not have his own place to live and a means to financially support a child. This will help to keep your number of sexual partners to a reasonable level.

4. If a man could only eat at one restaurant for the rest of his life, the restaurant must have good hours. If you want a monogamous relationship, you need to have good hours for your partner.

Ladies: SEX – Five Things You Didn’t Know About Sex With Men

5. Any advice about men or women will follow the 80/20 rule – the rule will apply to about 80% of the population; 20% will be unpredictable. If any of the five things above seemed useful to you, please share #6 from your experience with the rest of the community.

Ladies: SEX – Five Things You Didn’t Know About Sex With Men
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  • little_rose
    You're right about the 'facing each other part' and the 'good hours'

    If there's one thing I learnt with my current partner is WHAT THE HELL TOOK ME SO LONG TO BE WITH HIM? We have the hottest sex. It's the best sex we've ever had. We've both confirmed it.

    The first time I gave him head, he stopped for a sec and said "omg what's that? Do that again please." It's the best thing anyone had ever told me in bed.

    I really love being with him, even if it's not for sex haha
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  • Anonymous
    You sound as though you’re an Incel/sex starved.

    What obligation do women have towards men to have a low body count so that HE may feel special? 😂 fuck off with your garbage

    And NO means fkn NO. Women so NOT need to open legs everytime he is horny. Some men so have high sex drives and women do not and should not do it because he can’t respect NO. And some women in their thirties look 20. So yes 30 is the new 30.
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    • Anonymous

      Do**

    • Naydyonov

      No obligation, but most men will think less of you. In fact, most women will also think less of you.

    • The premise of the "My Take" is if you want to have a HAPPY, MONOGAMOUS relationship with your man, you should have "good hours." It is your body; you have the absolute right to say "NO." But good men will get rid of women who are unresponsive to sex. If you want to be HAPPLY MARRIED, you may consider your "body count." When you are divorced in your forties with 2 kids with different fathers, you may wish you took my advice.

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  • Smegskull
    I am a bit of a freek in this regard in that I don't enjoy sex enough to expend the energy to do it.
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    • Your choice, will save you a lot of heart-ache, but will also deny you perhaps the ultimate pleasure - a live long loving relationship and a family with children.

    • Smegskull

      I don't think enjoying sex or not is a choice.

    • @Smegskull I agree, what is enjoyable is not a choice. I took it to mean that sex was not worth the effort to court women, compared to the effort sleeping with a woman who you have an ongoing relationship with. But whatever, you do you; I respect that.

  • zagor
    I think 2 is pretty much common knowledge for everyone.
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    • In the US, I believe most women don't think of it from a man's perspective; they view it from an equality perspective.

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  • loves2learn
    Really good mytake! I just mentioned pavlov in one of my recent questions too!
  • Anonymous
    I would love to read the post for the men. Something that gives them insight to the lady's mind or at least what you/ public seems to believe.
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