1. You can have a stronger bond with your man by having sex facing each other and not using a condom (use another form of birth control). Sexual organism is one of the strongest natural-highs known to humankind. Your man seeing your face while having a sexual orgasm will overtime cause a natural association of this feeling with you, making the man only want to be with you. Having to remove a condom immediately after orgasm interrupts this mental conditioning process. You really want your man enjoy the feeling of closeness with you after an orgasm. This is a spin on the Pavlov’s dog experiment, where Pavlov would ring a bell while feeding the dog. Over time, the dog associated the ringing of the bell to food, so that Pavlov could ring the bell and the dog would salivate without food being present. The same principle applies to sex, as it has for thousands of years. To safely have unprotected sex, your two top criteria in a sexual partner should be monogamy and honesty.
2. You know there is an unequal standard of sexual promiscuity between men and women. But you don’t know WHY. As a woman, if you give birth to a child, you know the identity of the mother. When a woman gives birth to a child, we don’t know with 100% certainty the identity of the father. For thousands of years a woman’s sexual purity was the best indicator of paternity of a child. The lineage of a child determined the succession of kingdoms and vast amounts of wealth. Now we have DNA tests to prove paternity, but find a man who says, “I want a wife who is so promiscuous, so that I need a DNA test to verify paternity of each of our children.” My advice is to keep your number of sexual partners to a low enough number that you can be honest to a prospective spouse, if he asks about your sexual history.
3. Reliable birth control has sexually liberated women, but also enabled many women to pursue dead-end sexual relationships. The problem occurs when one of these dead-end relationships result in a pregnancy. Thirty is not the new twenty. My advice, only have sex with men who you believe have the strong potential to be a good husband / father of your children. In other words, avoid having sex with a man who does not have his own place to live and a means to financially support a child. This will help to keep your number of sexual partners to a reasonable level.
4. If a man could only eat at one restaurant for the rest of his life, the restaurant must have good hours. If you want a monogamous relationship, you need to have good hours for your partner.
5. Any advice about men or women will follow the 80/20 rule – the rule will apply to about 80% of the population; 20% will be unpredictable. If any of the five things above seemed useful to you, please share #6 from your experience with the rest of the community.
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