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The 1 prerequisite... BEFORE SEX

The Problem

    • You hear about a lot of people being ghosted these days.
      Girls meet a guy they like and maybe after a date or 2 they sleep with him.
      Suddenly in a rather short period of time, after this, the guy is nowhere to be found. He is a ghost...
The 1 prerequisite... BEFORE SEX
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Sunset Alone

    • 2 Solutions

    • No.1 - Wait 3 months before sleeping with him. Let him know and tell him why. If he waits this long it will lessen your chance of being ghosted because only the truthful ones will stay.
    • No.2 - Capture his intent. Ask him his dominate motive for getting to know you, BEFORE you have ever have sex with him. If he doesn't say he is looking for something serious and you are, then don't expect him to change his mind. If he seems unsure of what his dominate motive is then he has multiple dominate motives; meaning he does not know what he wants from you yet. That is also dangerous because even though he may be looking for something serious, he may just use you for sex because he doesn't want to be serious with you.
The 1 prerequisite... BEFORE SEX
The 1 prerequisite... BEFORE SEX
The 1 prerequisite... BEFORE SEX

    • Summary

Lastly, yes all guys want to have sex; but if that is all he wants then don't be surprised if he suddenly is no where to be found. If you are looking for something serious then capture his intent. You don't want to start a relationship on 2 different pages; trust me it is a nightmare. Communication is the game. You cannot know if you don't ask and if all the signs point to he doesn't want anything serious then listen to the signs. It's not just about wasting time; it's about avoiding trauma and things that will haunt you for years... Some men will use you to get what they want because they are ignorant that there are girls looking for the same thing. They think they have to lie and ghost people. The world is not the friendliest place and that is no mistake. The people in this world are not all good every moment of their lives. Make sure you know what you are getting into. Don't just hope...

#CaptureHisIntent

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'll start by saying that I've only had sex with 4 guys in my whole life, including my now husband.

    For me, the sex started with a guy when I had a strong connection to the guy and I saw him as a potential future husband. In general, if that connection wasn't developing in our relationship, I generally cut things off early because I didn't want to waste my time being with a guy just for the sake of having a guy friend.

    I'd also say that once the feeling was right, I was in no way reserved about sex. I love having sex with someone that I have a strong connection with. I'm married now for almost 8 years, have one child and sex is still a frequent and important part of our lives.

    • Be honest first very happy for you and hope your life stays the way you have it Are you saying that you 100 % that you would not fuck another man if everything was right no way any one find out may I ask how much you like and enjoy oral sex all your pleasure

Most Helpful Guys

  • You need to read the questions on her about girls with high body count. They don't want relationships, they just want to have "fun" and then want to settle down when they are older, which isn't easy. If you just want to get laid, guys will do that but don't respect you and no wonder why you can't find someone to be in a relationship with.

  • For me the two major things is knowing her a bit, i coupd never do oje night stands because its felt like a dirty waste of lust. I would much rather have a friend with benefits than multiple one night stands.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Girls do this to men as well. I hate it. I also hate the “sex only” crap. Women are the new frat boys.

  • Good advice for women.

    Same advice applies to men too.

  • Should have strong feelings for the person and a committed relationship.

  • Hi
    I agree don't jump or trust him plus you may need to be more tight
    with your pussy..

  • I'm ghosted for being too boring 28 no one ever wants to meet up. Or at least hasn't asked.

  • Lol good fucking luck with expecting a guy to hang around for 3 months without sex.

  • Eh the second some chick gives me an arbitrary timeline for when she will "grace" me with sex I'm out. Too many fish in the sea no time for a girl playing games

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