Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
A'ight. This is the continuation from
Did you know? Part 1
I don't know if i am going the write up Part 3. The topics there would be spicy, controversial and some people (mostly women) may call out for burning me alive. That's right, like a witch!
Today i will write about:
Teens, have you ever wondered why it is not working out between you and the opposite sex, your age? It happens a bit more often for boys - girls in your class, the other class next to you or simply a girl your (exact) age doesn't find you appealing/attractive?
Well, we girls tend to enter puberty earlier than boys. On average, its two year earlier. So boys, don't be surprised if/when you are actually the same size as girls or they are even bigger than you. When you get to the ages of 14-17, most girls simply don't see you as 'matured' enough and they tend to like older boys. However!
We girls complete our developing earlier, not just because we start out two years early, but boys do develop for longer period of time actually! Like, if you are a boy, 18 years old and you have stopped growing in HEIGHT, your muscles and bones keep developing, becoming stronger and harder. Everyone is different and cannot be told when she or he will stop growing. Example - few months ago, a guy i know, who is now 28 years old, had to go and renew his old ID card. It was about to expire after all those Ten years. He had to be measured in height as well, which was last done Ten years ago. It turned out, he was 179cm tall now, up from 178cm back then. So can men grow a bit more after eighteen years old? Yes, they can.
Reproductive systems, sex organs, genitals - What you know or you may not know?
Differences and yet similarities:
Our anatomy is actually not THAT different. When we are still a fetus, somewhere around the sixth or the seventh week, the gonads will either stay where they pretty much are or will start descending down the body. What does that mean and what the Gonads are? Testicles and ovaries, start out as gonads. That's right, if a boy and girl are reading this now, together, you should know that your reproductive organs have once started out as the same organs.
Male and Female chest :
Difference - Did you know, we women are the ONLY primate that is BUSTY all the time? Other primates are busty only when they breastfeed. Science tends to think its because EVOLUTIONARY it is to show males that (and when) a female has matured enough for reproduction.
Similarity - But then... why men have nipples too?
This is because the genes that code for nipple development, come to work at very early embryonic stage, even before the genes that are to decide whether you will be male or female, come into play. VERY EARLY. Why? Ask Mother Nature :D
Genitals - differences and similarities.
You all know the basic facts about them. Or do you? How about some details?
Did you know the clitoris is actually an undeveloped penis? I am not even joking, they both evolve from the SAME tissue. They both have a 'head'. They both erect! Clitoris may show itself under its hood, during arousal, whereas the penis comes out of its foreskin. There is some difference and yet similarity. So boys, when a girl 'give you a head', give her back!
Did you know about the shocking number of boys and men i meet, that do not know where girls pee from? I am serious, so many actually think, that we do pee from our vaginas and do not even suspect for the existence of another hole down there. Boys, no!
I had a case of meeting a 30 year old man, who did not know this. He wasn't virgin either. His wife was pregnant! How the...
So what does that difference mean? It means that, boys' "tool" have a canal, through which goes both pee and sperm. For us girls, menstruation blood and pee do NOT exit through the same canal.
Such lack of knowledge has lead to one of the dumbest 'advices' i have ever heard, in my life.
I remember a guy telling to a girl, much younger than him, "advising" her:
"Well, if a guy finishes in you, just go to the toilet and pee. The pee will force the sperm all out."
When i heard that i wondered if in this guy's head, 2+2 and 2x2 could give different results.
Did you know the clitoris is actually specifically designed for pleasure? No other function, really. Pleasure.
The clitoris actually has over 8000 nerve endings, with receptors which can feel just as much as pleasure, as pain. I don't know how touching exposed nerves feel like, but it is said the sensation from touching it (the clitoris) is supposed to be pretty close to that. For comparison, the head of the penis has only half the nerves a clitoris has. Does that means we can feel MORE pleasure? Yes, sorry boys, you don't even know what you are missing.
The clitoris actually is only 1500 nerves short from having just as much nerve endings as the men's WHOLE genitals. It means their two balls plus the penis. Is the clitoris as sensitive or even more sensitive than the testicles? Well, we are talking about different organs, but in my time of researching and a bit of testing with a boyfriend - yes, maybe so. But that's controversial topic that i am NOT going to talk about. Not today.
Instead, did you know the similarities between the clitoris and the penis are even more?
Both have a part of them INSIDE the body. While the penis has two parallel 'caves' that are being filled with blood, in the time of arousal....
https://sco.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris#/media/File:Clitoris_Anatomy.svg
So does the clit's PARALLEL corpus and bulb... just see the link.
When that happens, it actually pushes the vulva lips forward, making them look bigger, although they too experience increased blood flow, during times of arousal.
So what you see, the CLIT, is just the tip of the iceberg.
I would like to clear out some confusion about the word 'vagina'. People, please, for the last time, vagina is what is INSIDE. Inside the women's body. What you see OUTSIDE, is actually called the vulva, which consists of outer labia, inner labia and the clitoris.
I was asked once - Why girls can vary so much more than boys, in their genital appearance?
By that, the person meant, that vulvas can/may vary in size, shape - closed type pussy (with the outer lips covering the inside parts), some are the opposite - smaller outer labia, but bigger/exposed inner labia.
Why? Again - Ask Mother Nature! :D But to my guess, Nature sure did take it's time to work more on female aesthetics and variety in looks/appearance. :P
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Bonus: Did you know, you may NOT KNOW, that you are INFECTED with a fetish? Seriously!
It developes slowly, over the years, in your mind, without you knowing, with the cause of it bein some weird encounter, weird video or even sexual assault.!
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