The Importance of Performing Oral Sex On A Woman

The Importance of Performing Oral Sex On A Woman

The more guys I meet and talk to, the more surprised I am to find out how many of them really don’t like eating pussy. For years I thought this was an urban legend and that all men wanted to do it on a woman and enjoyed it, but to my surprise quite a few men really are squeamish about it. So I want to encourage guys here to get past this aversion to the wonderful experience of making love to a woman’s vagina with your tongue and lips. Ahhhh yes, enjoy it.

It’s not as gross as you might think

So I might understand some guys who are freaked out about eating pussy because maybe they had a bad experience - she smelled bad down there or was really sweaty there, and so you just were repulsed by it. But don’t let one bad experience deter you from having a great dinner.

More often than not vaginas are going to have some kind of smell, even when she’s super clean. That’s just how it is. It can be a mild fish like smell, this will always be due to the fact that the vagina is closed up with no air or light. Much like your own mouth. This should not make you feel gross about eating it, rather you need to understand it. Vaginas by nature are also moist, and always will be moist, so you need to expect that, and honestly…accept that too. Even more so when the woman becomes aroused. She will get very wet, and may even squirt in your face if you're lucky. Accept it. Your mouth is wet and is perfect for making contact with a wet pussy.

The Importance of Performing Oral Sex On A Woman

Eating pussy is not going to be, nor does it have to be, some squeaky clean, odorless experience. Oral sex is messy, on both partners. And vaginas aren’t supposed to be beautiful. Some are, and some don’t look that great, you will have to learn to get around it. Just like not all dicks are attractive to all women. As a man you should enjoy giving oral as much as getting it.

Cunnilingus makes sex better for her

Unless she’s one of those women you might meet who are self-conscious about their pussy and really don’t want any man going down on her, I would embrace it when you’re with a woman who wants it if I were you. Go all in. Even if you need a little work figuring out where the clit is or applying the right sucking rhythm or licking, a woman appreciates that you really want to please her even if you have to work at it.

Giving her oral sex first not only better prepares her mentally and arouses her for intercourse, but it also can relax her and put her mind at some ease knowing that you want to make a good experience for her and don’t want to rush into immediate intercourse, unless she’s super horny in that moment and really wants you to put it in and pound her hips. Eating pussy allows you to have control of the situation and take the lead with confidence, and it really does make intimacy more intense. It’s also great if she’s a woman who can have multiple orgasms because you can eat her and she cums, and then you can slip inside of her and she cums some more, so you’re able to have fun doing a few sex acts in a row.

The Importance of Performing Oral Sex On A Woman

Oral sex also works well if she has a really tight pussy and maybe you are somewhat…‘big’ down there. I’ve had sex with a few tight women and they were nervous about…well…you know, lol. So I had to be very gentle with them at first. I found that giving them plenty of foreplay and oral beforehand helped their vagina to become more lubricated and open to receive a larger penis. This made me a feel a lot better as I was also nervous about the sex and scared of hurting them, but if you take it slow and prep her well first, you both can enjoy the experience. So if you meet a girl who is particularly tight, eating her first can make it better when you do slip in.

Cunnilingus can make sex better for you too!

I know for me, eating pussy makes sex so much more fun, especially if you do it first. Or even if it’s going to be the entire meal. I think I must be one of those few men who can’t really just jump into sex super fast, nor do I cum fast either. I like and need to enjoy all the corners, crevices, minutes, and seconds of a sexual experience. Cumming fast also feels a lot less bomblastic as opposed to drawn out sex, unless I’m having a moment where I’m particularly red hot horny and need to nut.

The Importance of Performing Oral Sex On A Woman

I personally have more arousal and enjoyment if I can be touchy and orally with a woman first. Foreplay is good for me just as much as it is for her. I like to put my hands and lips all over her body. Her shoulders, her neck, her breasts, her stomach…. Bringing a woman to a stimulated state intensifies my own fire. And the best part is having your face hugged between her thighs while you work your tongue on and inside that pussy, even more when she starts to tense up and her breathing gets harder, and you can look up at her and see her naked breasts heaving up and down, and her legs start shaking as she’s cumming on your mouth. Hold those hips down and make her feel good and powerless so she cums harder. Mmmmmm…

Enjoy

So for all the guys out there who have never eaten pussy, learn to change your thinking. Don’t be scared or grossed out by it. It doesn’t mean you have to enjoy her smell or actually drink up her fluids, you simply use your tongue and lips on her clit and folds with passion. Just let her juices run out of your mouth as you do it, add some fingers if she’s okay with it, and go with the flow.

Namaste, and good luck.

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  • I agree with this, as lots of us women give oral to our boyfriends, etc... but don’t receive it. Yes, obviously that isn’t the case for everyone. Personally, I gave oral countless times to my ex, and he licked me once for approximately 2 seconds. (No that’s not what caused us to break up if you were wondering) I agree with a comment from one of the guys saying that you have to “give to get”, only because fair is fair. However, you’ve got to actually learn how to do it right if you want to say that. A lot of guys think that just moving your tongue a little does the trick. Maybe for some women that works, but for others it does nothing. My suggestion is do your research, (or more research if you’ve already done some) like we do for you guys.

    • Aid the research

    • @he-takes-a-part Its news to me that there are guys that don't like going down, just knowing that she loves it makes me want to stay down there for a long time. I love doing it cause I know she loves receiving it.

    • Dicks are almost odourless or can made to be than their counterpart. Just by default you have a pussy that doesn’t mean we will lick. Then by this principle just by nature of having dick and more craving than girls we must get sex. But do we. No. Its not like that. If you like to receive other person should also like to equally provide you with that. Has to be both ways. No girls i guess are force to give BJ they do it on their own. For them too otherwise what would make it hard. Plus oral sex can have infections also its better take and command your choice. Vaginas are not pop sickles to lick. They are just vaginas. Equally i found girls challenging their guys to lick them, a final appeal in a way to challenge their ego. But that is a subtle form of enforcing things where when it comes to doing this by boys to girls then from attack molestation blackmail this can go anywhere. Its better to have interest in your interest. Coz later on its you who will have to bear it. If you like it do it.

  • mmm this take somehow aroused me & makes me wish u ate mine😌

    • Nothing a more turn on than a guy that really wants to and enjoys it

    • My favorite part of sex is eating pussy especially during menstruation. I really love the vagina

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  • Beautifully written, I agree on the importance of performing oral sex. The more often you do it the more experience you'll develop and in time you'll grow to appreciate every aspect of foreplay and eating her pussy.

    My first experience was similar to "Carrie," because she didn't know or see it coming and neither did. I'm surprised the experience didn't traumatize me for life.

  • Well I have and I would and I will again. But if she's not giving me head on the regular, or gaping out the time between BJs to the piont that I got remind her or ask for one. Then forget because honestly eating pushy is something I can go without doing.

    So oral sexy in a relationship is a huge bonus, but its got to be a 2-way street because honestly it is not a must.

    • Fair enough.

  • I mean I’ve only let one person do it. He had moments where he had me going and others where I was too busy teaching to enjoy the moment. But either way, receiving doesn’t do much for me. I can settle for gettin head once a month or a few months a year.. I noticed I prefer he do curvy and round alphabetical letters with his tongue the most. I dont really care for clit play. Its sensitive and doesn't really feel good being rubbed, pressed against, bitten, flicked, sucked on, etc because it hurts more then brings me pleasure. But I do enjoy having my entire puss suctioned as if his mouth is a vaacum hovering over all my juices (like in the gif below). Still, I just need his dick, finger, or tongue in my hole at the end of the day

    The Importance of Performing Oral Sex On A Woman
    • Sounds like you have only been with rookie pussy eaters haha

    • @Staximus well he was a virgin and we were eachothers first oral anything so yea

    • That is 5/5 gif game 🤣

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  • I approve! Cheers 🍻

  • Thank you... I was in a relationship with someone who performed it maybe 2x.
    It wasn't the best and I had to beg him to try again.
    Ugh!
    I've had one guy and omg it was the best thing I've ever experienced in my life.
    I would never ever let a guy get away with not doing it especially if he wants it too. Kmt!
    Fair is fair!

  • I've felt this. I dated a guy for nearly 3 years once and he was never keen on oral and throughout our relationship when we were together I'd try communicating with him and he would always say he wasn't in the mood to give oral but happy to receive. Tbh though I'm pretty self-conscious and don't like my body so it's tough for me. I personally have not yet dated a guy who seems to enjoy the idea. None of them seem to want to in my personal experience.

    • Very sorry to hear that.

    • That is sad. Keep up the search. Guys who love to give orally are out there.

    • I’ve had the same thing, but they’ve always wanted it done.. I feel like it’s human to have days where our PH balance is off.. Guys sometimes have this issue too, but I mainly here them complain about our vaginas. Lol

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  • Haha lol I remember we talked about this when you mentioned your Cambodian ex or friend hate men who refuse to eat pussy. I hate them from the bottom of my heart too lol. Likewise, I could never understand women who don’t suck dick. I have spoken to some of my guy friends where a few of them told me they have bad experience going down on women. I don’t blame them but I still think it is an excuse because it is way impossible for every woman to smell bad. I think it is more on a stigma of being submissive when they eat pussy. It has nothing to do with them not enjoying it, the women don’t shave or she smells bad.

  • The more often I'm willing to go down on my girlfriend the more sex she wants to have. That's probably not a coincidence. Haha
    I used to think going down on her was kind of gross and a bit of a chore. However, after working at it I've gotten to the point where I really enjoy giving my girlfriend oral. The incredible level of intimacy, the hot moaning noises she makes, and knowing just how freaking badly she wants it all make it super great to do

  • I’m thankful I haven’t been in a situation where a man didn’t want to give oral. I didn’t even know it was issue. I get the point of this post but I wouldn’t even want a man’s face in my hooha that needed convincing to do so or only did it just cause I like it and didn’t get pleasure from it. I enjoy giving oral it’s not a chore or something I do just for him and I’d want the same enthusiasm from my partner.

  • Wow, really? Glad you saw the light!

  • Yuck …can’t even read your post without barfing in my mouth a bit. Nothing skeeves me out more than dark, dank poontang…. I can’t blame the majority of guys who are startled & unprepared for such an endeavor.

    • Lol. Sure, okay🤣

    • Not kidding 🤢🤮

    • Well, it's bliss for me.

  • shit half you women are fucking starfish and you expect oral… Na gotta give to get.

  • I have always loved eating a woman out. That's probably one of my favorite things during sex and something I became very good at.

    I only refused if it was a one night stand or if they smelled very nasty. I know a smell can be there regardless if clean, but if it reeks, it makes me concerned in terms of health and possibly puking while going down. Would rather not puke into a woman while eating her out. That would be unpleasant.

  • It's not bad, but it doesn't do a lot for me. I prefer other forms of foreplay.

    • Maybe you haven't had it done right?

  • not important my gals stayed with me and i never offered lingus or whatever it is called.

  • Yeah well, I knew a guy who caught an incurable yeast infection in his mouth from giving oral sex to a woman. It spread all over his face and down his throat too.

    • One of life's little problems since you and everyone else that eats pussy or sucks dick can in fact catch a plethora of STDs I do not know if anybody can tell by look or smell that they in fact that they are eating bad dick or pussy. I think in one or two vds and std s can be identified that way, Again I might be wrong but better safe than sorry and if you can wait have tests done before dining, or like most of us trust to luck

  • Omg, I have said this before I would let everyone give me oral if I could! As for some comments about Ph levels. I was so mad when if told me about the finger test. He said he always fingered them first and checked. Now, I always check myself, Lol 😆 😂 🤣

  • I have found women that shave are very open to oral sex and always douche and perfume before a date-expecting something extra.

    • Yep, noticed that too.

  • I love eating pussy and really have no issues with going down on a girl especially a girl I am in a relationship with , if it’s just a one night stand then I might skip going down on her but it depends on how I feel about her and her hygiene as well, I usually do a secret sniff test without her knowing so I don’t kill the moment lol But my thing is getting her off is what makes me get off , cuz I want her coming back for
    More and more , so eating her out is a turn on to me , I would eat her until she came in my mouth but usually she will tell me to give her my cock to finish her off , whatever it takes to give her The O

  • Very important don’t expect it if you don’t give it ❤️

    • Lmao

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