Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

Christian Domestic Discipline is a male led relationship where the Head of Household is in charge of the Taken in Hand partner. There are rules and consequences for the TIH and punishments for breaking rules range from spanking, corner time and lines. This differs from a BDSM relationship as the punishments are non sexual though sex often happens as a direct results of the punishment.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

Christian Domestic Discline teaches a disobedient willful wife to respect her husband, learn submission to her husband, respect herself, her family and live a happy Christian way.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

Respect and Submission are of particular importance in a marriage because the standard marriage vows for the bride always included the phrase “to love, honor and obey” her husband.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

Many women will admit, if only to themselves, that when spanked to tears they feel relief and love, knowing that their HOH is willing and strong enough to hold them accountable for their actions.When a woman admits this she is also admitting that she respects her HOH, and his decisions, that when she is punished it is never out of anger but out of love and the responsibility that her HOH is in charge.Some women will start to cry even before the spanking begins, because she realizes that she is to be punished and is sorry for her actions and the pain that is sure to follow. When a woman just starts to cry when spanked doesn’t mean to stop because you see tears, you would not stop baking a cake when it starts to rise, No this means that the spanking is starting to have the desired effect providing the disciplinary value and corrective behavior that she needs.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

All women are not the same, some women can take a lot while others will cry with hardly an effort.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

Remember that she is not in charge but the man is, and with him lies the amount of discipline that will be effected upon her bare backside, if the man allows his wife to stop the spanking he is not in charge and the respect she desires and needs will be lost, make sure to follow through giving her a painful enough spanking to bring her tears and allow them to flow freely, she will remember that you are the HOH.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

Tears allow her feminine side to come out and breaks down her resistance, shame from being in a vulnerable position, naked over her HOH’s lap, being soundly spanked. It is vital to continue the spanking when you notice her tears, and not to stop before the punishment has the desired effect.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

Remember that the spanking is part of her submission and when she submits to such an obviously painful and humbling experience she will behave better and you will see a that her attitude towards you as her HOH is greatly improved, not because she is fearful of the spanking but out of respect and the knowledge that you will protect her at all times even from herself and her actions.

Christian Domestic Discipline. The key to a happy marriage ✝️👫

What are some examples of domestic discipline rules? Well various couples have their own rules that generally centre around honor and obey as well as other Christian martial values.

Her Rules

1. Not to be late. not late for dates. not late to Work, not late to Church, not late to Dr appointments

2. Don’t cause our checking account to be overdrawn (one spank per dollar charged to us)

3. Spending limits (not more than 200.00 without discussing it with him. or 300 dollars in day (except at Christmas time)). Definitely no running up debts.

4. No cussing in front of children

5. No yelling at her husband.

6. No nagging, no bitching.

7. keeping promises to him or other people.

8. No lying. Including lies of omission (example not telling him she got a speeding ticket, to avoid a spanking)

9. If out with girl friends, be home by 10:00 or call him.

10. Don’t break traffic laws or any other law. (Including God’s laws (ten Commandments, plus))

11. Accepting her punishment without a fuss, cooperating with my spanking

12. No spanking of the children without a warning or breaking a standing rule for them. (Don’t spank while mad)

13. Never be intimate with other men including sex, flirting, sexting etc

14. Be respectful of all people, most of all her husband.

15. Go to Church every Sunday (Church and Sunday School)

16. Dress modest yet attractively everyday

17. Workout 3 times per week.

18 cook healthy meals

19. Do the housework

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  • All women dislike themselves and because we dislike ourselves, we fervently hate any man who doesn’t see through our bullshit. The more a man loves us, the more we hate him. The more he overlooks our sins, and the more he fails to see how corrupt we are, and the more he gives us the benefit of every single doubt – the more we despise him. We will escalate our bad behavior until we finally break him and he wakes up and realizes how worthless we are and what a fool he has been for believing in us. We want a man whom we can’t have. We want a man who honestly doesn’t give a fuck about us, who doesn’t care if we come or go. That’s the kind of man we will pursue. Call them bad boys or call them whatever you want, that’s the kind of man we want – period. The kind of guy who will make us orgasm, crudely, and give us a huge sexual thrill in the bedroom, and then discard us like used toilet paper, and fuck our female friends afterwards, just because he can. (Just like we would do with his male friends.). We are constantly poking, prodding and testing a man, in order to find out what his boundaries are. If he has no boundaries, we will destroy him, especially if he loves us. A man has to have boundaries, and he has to outline them precisely, and he has to force us to adhere to them with the power of his conviction and the power of his action. If he doesn’t do that, we will beat him over the head with his weaknesses (his lack of boundaries) until he breaks. Women are narcissistic masochists. We hate it when things are going well, especially if they continue to go well for long periods of time. We know down deep that we are fucked-up and not worthy of anything that is truly good. So when things are going well in a relationship, we eventually sabotage it. We just can’t help ourselves in this regard. We could have the greatest, most handsome, most well-hung husband in the world—a one-of-a-kind man who makes all of our girlfriends jealous; we could have the greatest children in the world, who are beautiful, well-behaved and ambitious; we could have the most enviable career imaginable; we could have all of the money and prestige and the truly good things in life, and we could repeatedly tell ourselves over and over, and believe, on the surface, that we would never cheat on our husbands. But down deep we know that it’s a lie. Because one day, we could walk into a grocery store, and some bad boy could whisper just the right combination of words in our ear, and the next thing you know, we’re at the Motel 6 getting it in the ass. That’s just how we are, and any woman.

    • I would love to speak with you about Grace because their is NO MAN that can fix your Depraved Nature. “The man” that sets your boundaries are equally as flawed as you are. -Even the best men, working from the Word of God and firmly grounded In and Through Christ Jesus err abundantly. -Your best bet is to pursue Christ Jesus’ Way and measure both yourself and your man by the Beatitudes (Matthew 5:1-12)

    • @Guy13 the bible is so dirty. Eziekiel 20:30 Yet she increased her whorings, remembering the days of her youth, when she played the whore in the land of Egypt and lusted after her paramours there, whose members were like those of donkeys, and whose emission was like that of stallions.

    • What’s your point? People are filthy including yourself.-Certainly from your post you acknowledge how Depraved you are towards Man…that you keep pushing and you can not stop it.. “The good I want to do, I do not. And the things I determine that I will never do, I do” That’s you as expressed in your Post. -The Ezekiel verses are a description of a filthy Israel, as well as your own, behaviors as they broke Covenant/Contract with YHWH. You are at enmity with God which means that you do not have a relationship and are against God.

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  • Yea spanking would never not be sexual in my marriage. It would just be impossible 😂 also, this would def get me to misbehave more. The more rules I get the more rebellious I get. I was that kid that loved sneaking around getting alcohol and then I hit 21 and didn’t give a flip about getting a drunk.

    • Getting drunk? That's a spanking...

    • I’d just be an alcoholic with a sore bum

    • Its because the spanking provided didn't rise to the level of punishment. If i just gently slap your bum its clearly fun. Done at full power quickly and in the same spot it can become much more severe and will certainly become punishment. I've delt with girls like you before... if thats not enough a cane like they use to punish criminals in malaysia works wonders for correction.

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  • I don't know who came up with this nonsense, but it certainly isn't Christian. Jesus never struck anyone, even when he himself was struck. We are admonished to respect the head of house arrangement, as that is how the family is divinely organized. But each head is love his wife as he does himself and as christ does the congregation. Correcting behavior is based primarily out of love for God, and a fear of displeasing him. We must love God more than we love our mate, but he or she comes next. No man or woman is without sin, and all share the hope of the reward the righteous will receive. Anyone loving violence is hated by God. This is why it is recommended to marry only those who are in the same faith, so most of the issues will not be issues for long. Rather than harsh demeaning discipline, a mate could be won over without a word if our conduct is fine.

    • Genesis 3:16 To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you.”

    • This statement was made. However it was not a command of how things should be, just a consequence of the sin that was committed. In the same chapter it also talks of how hard it would be to cultivate the earth, as it would grow thorns and thistles. In the new world the earth will have an overflow of grain and the earth will yield its full potential. The letter to Corinthians describes the heads-up arrangement and the challenge of being married whilst serving God whole souled. Women look to the HoH for spiritual guidance and direction, as well as work diligently to have a full share in the marriage, a helper and a compliment.

    • "Women look to the HoH for spiritual guidance and direction..." and when they don't? "But each head is love his wife as he does himself and as christ does the congregation." Proverbs 13:24 He who spares his rod hates his son, but he who loves him disciplines him promptly. Revelation 3:19 As many as I love, I rebuke and chasten. If you love someone that you are responsible for you ought punish them. It is good and it is biblically supported. Historically Christians who lived back then understood this as well and it was a common practice in the days of the OT and NT. It is only recently in the past 70 years become unChristian to do such a thing however thats man ascribing meaning to the Bible that is not there or else Christians (and Jews) from thousands of years past would also as plain as day read the Bible and known this.

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  • Are you just trying to besmirch Christianity with this fake post?

    • It's a real thing my friend. We are trying to cure the 50% divorce rate.

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  • Yes. My husband has spanked me for years. I usually get his belt. It’s always bare ass.

  • Hey really now… I see why you lock your Profile‼️‼️‼️ One can make all the rules they want, exercise a Narcissistic control, and be as brutal as Putin and still NOT have a woman’s respect.-This is your Issue.
    -Laws, rules, and ordinances are of the Muslim and Jewish way. Your works are not of one who is In Christ Jesus. You are attached to the Ruler of the World and gauge your success by her worldly behaviors RATHER THAN her Spiritual health.
    -You have no understanding of the character or attributional Nature of Jesus the Christ. You can go to all the Churching you want…and be on time…and burn in Hell eternally at enmity with a Holy God. YOUR WIFE’S SPIRITUAL HEALTH IS YOUR NUMBER ONE GOD ASSIGNED JOB ‼️

    If you are indeed Biblically church going Christian then I’m hoping you will study the Bible for your Guidance. Show me how the Bible, within the Marriage chapter of EPHESIANS 5, agrees with the 💩 you are spewing here.

  • Sounds more like a shitty childhood with an overbearing parent, plus sex. Nah.

  • Look, if you have a spanking fetish, fine, but why do you think you have to justify it with your religion? Spanking turns you on. Get spanked, or do the spanking (on someone that wants to get spanked) It IS sexual to you, that's clear from the pictures you posted. Embrace it.

  • You're a perv. I bet you jacked off while writing this.

  • I have no idea about christianiti or any other religion

    • But you like to be spanked, got it

    • Well, that's between me and my fiancé I think

    • Good girl.

  • I agree wholeheartedly with you, with one important distinction - I believe that the woman should administer the discipline when she deems it necessary, and that she should be the sole arbiter of such discipline.

  • Don't really care for any of the religious stuff, but I do appreciate a good dom sub partnership, personally though I think the woman should wear the trousers 😋🥰

  • Fundamentalist Christian marriages are more frequently abusive than secular marriages.

    • I heard some are, but explain to me why you think they are?

    • @CarnaGirl18 Because there is an assumption that the woman is to be subservient to the man.

  • This is just some weird ddlg/bsdm lifestyle disguised as "Christian" so that Christian couples can do it without being shamed by their more conservative peers. This is NOT the standard for Christian couples.

    The fact that you think otherwise is both scary and hilarious. It's fine to be deviant, but you don't have to push your fantasy on everyone else to do it. You just do you and find a woman who enjoys it. Wow..

  • 10/10 troll post.

    • Can you link a good post on this site please? I thought they were all trolls and real people go to Twitter to talk

    • Twitter is equally worse

    • Yeah but what Twitter has that this site doesn’t is real names. Serious this is the weirdest horniest most pathetic bunch I’ve ever seen, quite the user base

  • This is abuse pure and simple. Furthermore it is systemic abuse as both parties believe this is acceptable due to their upbringing.

    • Kind of like getting married? 😇

  • Thank goodness assaulting your wife is illegal now

  • What if I want to spank the ass because it's there.. taunting me.. 😶🤚

  • That sounds fun. Admittedly at school we use to get spanked for being naughty, after the first time it gave me pleasure it was a signal to more naughty

  • Don't believe in religion or marriage.

  • In my marriage, my wife spanks me. I do spank her, but she spanks me more

  • Um, no. Just No to all of this.

  • What you described was awful 🙁

    • Please more think about what you share in a social network

    • ... that's a spanking...

    • Who does that is a mentally ill and really need help and treatment

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  • I agree. This is absolutely the best way to have a relationship. In fact the only way I've ever seen work. Its funny all my friends say im weird and what i do doesn't work... why do i have better girlfriends and pretty much am the one who ends the relationships when they are the ones getting dumped and cheated on often? Smh.

    Its definitely biblically supported and of course Gods plan always works best for people if they would give it a chance.

    • Your girlfriends get cheated on? So are you admitting to us that you're a cheater?

    • @Jamie05rhs when my friends are cheated on smh facepalm

    • Hmm. That's not what you said, though.

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