How to spot a woman that is not visual when it comes to physical attraction

[ADFSDF1996]

If you've been on this website for a while, you probably know that I refuse to date women that aren’t visual enough when it comes to physical attraction. To me these women are boring when it comes to sexual activity and don’t even care about how you look. You can dress like a millionaire and spend hours working out but it doesn’t matter because these type of women don’t even care about your looks. Instead I prefer dating women who are very visual in the sense that they get wet just by my physical appearance. Here is a guide to help you avoid dating women that aren’t visual when it comes to physical attraction unless of course you like those types of women.

1.) Doesn’t react strongly to your body: When it comes to sex, she doesn’t have any kind of reaction to your body. Instead she wants you talk dirty and even worse she wants the lights off.

2.) Prefers to receive sexual acts but doesn’t give any in return: This is another red flag. A woman that doesn’t show any lust towards you but only wants you to lust after her is another sign that she isn’t visual when it comes to physical attraction.

3.) Never compliments you on your looks: Men will always compliment their women on their looks but a non visual women will never compliment you on your looks.

4.) Says some sketchy things:If she says things like

• “You are so nice that’s why I dated you”
• ”I wasn’t attracted to you at first but eventually you grew on me.”
• ”Your nice car is why I am with you”
• ”I don’t care about looks, it’s all about personality”

Yeah she probably doesn’t think you’re handsome or lusts after you.

5.) Doesn’t have any unique fetishes: If she’s into the same old boring stuff like “BDSM”, wanting to be spanked, latex, etc. She is not attracted to your physical appearance because she isn’t stimulated by visuals.

6.) Doesn’t want sex as often or treats it as a reward: If she doesn’t want sex as often or only offers sex as a reward then she is obviously not a visual woman and also has a low sex drive. Double whammy.

7.) Didn’t show interest until you made the first move on her: She didn’t show interest until you made the first move. This is perhaps the main reason many men are single, it’s because the great majority of women prefer men to make the first move or only give some “subtle hints” that they are interested.

8.) Only lusts after you until she gets to know you: A lot of women don’t lust after men until after they get to know a specific man, it’s only then that these type of women develop sexual attraction towards the man’s body. These women are known as “demisexuals”.

9.) Thinks the male genitalia is ugly: You’d be surprised to know that many women are grossed out by men's genitals. There are even straight women that think female genitalia looks better than male genitalia. Another red flag.

10.) Thinks women are more aesthetically appealing than men: You could say that these women are closeted lesbians or bisexuals but many of them still identify as straight and insist that they only like men but still prefer the female form. Since these women call themselves "straight", they aren't stimulated by visuals

Usually women who are in their 20s tend to be non visual, while women who are in their 30s tend to be more stimulated by male visuals. Women in their 30s are usually at their prime of estrogen production while women in their 20s have lower estrogen than women in their 30s. That’s why women in their 30s are very horny and very visual. That’s why I’m more interested in women that are in their 30s than women of my current age of 26. This is why I probably won’t start dating until I’m in my 30s.

[KlinkyCoder]

If a girl likes giving handjobs, can this be taken as a sign that she is visual?

[flirtatiousgirl]

Good mytake.

[ADFSDF1996]

Why thank you.

[Truthbewithyou]

My reaction:
#3, #4, #8, and #10 I agree with.

The rest could be true but there's other reasons for those outcomes. Some women like the lights off because they're insecure in their body. Some women don't like giving because it makes them feel slutty. Some women don't notice you until you make the first move. Doesn't mean you weren't attractive, it just means they weren't looking.

In defense of women, we're always told to go after who treats us nice not who we are attracted to. The attractive guys are usually getting around and the not so attractive guys are the ones offering a relationship. Most of us are stuck choosing between who we are attracted to but they're not good for us vs who we're not attracted to but they're good for us.

[Markm3212]

interesting opinion, not sure that i agree with them all but each to their own.

i also assume that you are one of those guys that works out in the gym a lot and like the look of their own body?

"When it comes to sex, she doesn’t have any kind of reaction to your body. Instead she wants you talk dirty and even worse she wants the lights off" this can sometimes come down to their own self confidence, that they dont want you to see their body as they are ashamed, doesn't necessary mean your body

"Doesn’t have any unique fetishes: If she’s into the same old boring stuff like “BDSM”, wanting to be spanked, latex" surly if they like wearing latex then they like visuals, other wise why wear it?

"Didn’t show interest until you made the first move on her" is this not normal that ladies expect men to make the first move? this is why a lot of men are single as they are not confident enough to talk to a good looking lady and just sit there drinking themselves stupid lusting and wishing that a woman would come and talk to them, all the time making themselves more and more unattractive by getting more and more drunk.

"Thinks the male genitalia is ugly" this one i will agree with lol but do have to agree personally that ladies parts look better 🤣

"Thinks women are more aesthetically appealing than men" again same as above 🤣🤣🤣

[Emerald55346]

There are women like this!!! Lol I don’t understand why it takes so much fun and passion out of the relationship.

[ADFSDF1996]

Women like who, the visual ones or the non visual ones?

[Emerald55346]

I don’t agree with very thing about the non visual women I feel like it’s a mix of both but when it comes down to men genitalia being ugly, acts like sex is a reward, doesn’t compliment, says sketchy things, doesn’t like to please her partner. I think that’s crazy that some women are like that.

[19magic]

Some of these I can agree with but others not so much, with the looks I don't know whether to say the things that I find hot as I wouldn't want to weird the guy out. Like physical things about men that turns me on are ass, thighs, facial hair, hairy chest, either muscly or dad bod look, arms, pecs and large hands. Then it's his voice after that.

As for sexual acts I enjoy most things both kinky and otherwise but my favourite thing to do is to tease him and get him horny, but according to your list that would mean I don't like looking at guys.

[19magic]

I also disagree with 7, I've shown interest in guys before, sometimes before they've even spotted me. But don't really approach as I just assume no guy would ever want me so why bother. But it's good to dream and fantasize, there's this IT guy in work and he must be around mid 40s and I was feeling quite horny anyway but I certainly fantasized about him while in the office but know that more than likely he was a wife and kids probably. And as such he's safe and wouldn't want me anyway so why not enjoy the dream

[Squaresquirrel]

Good luck!

[ADFSDF1996]

What’s wrong with wanting a woman that is actually attracted to me?

[spiralshape]

A younger woman will actually always be attracted to a man in his 30s especially if he's well prepared mentally and physically. As a matter of fact, the majority of college girls prefer a man in his 30s+ over a fellow college guy... He (assuming he isn't a social reject or a boring person) can easily help a college girl with homework...

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@spiralshape this myth again. The average age difference of couples is 2.5 years. 93% of all married couples have a less than 10 year difference. Don't go to your 30's thinking these college girls will want you. Most of them date within their own age.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 some men aspire to average... for those men i agree you are correct. Some men are better and can do better. Do you also agree most men end up with an average woman? I mean thats the truth. So should a man not try to date someone hot? Your logic is flawed.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 note that those stats are not specific if a particular group. They refer to everyone. That includes all kind of men and women. Believe as you wish. Regardless of who you are your relationship works, chances are very high that the age difference is small.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "note that those stats are not specific if a particular group" uhhh thats my point entirely. 👏 half of all men are below average. And many more are around average. Id be shocked at the mathmatical impossibility if most men experienced excellent outcomes.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 you seem to be confused. While half of men are average, that doesn't mean they don't fit into the stat. Just because you are a celebrity doesn't mean you will get with someone way younger than you. Among professional players, politicians and so on there are plenty that have women close to their age.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 most celebrity men aren't with women i think you said 2.5 years apart. Get real.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 2.5 on average. And yes they are. Look at Pique the football player for example. He is with Shakira and she is actually older than him.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 really thats what you think is typical of celebrities? *facepalm*

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 celebrities and successful people regardless if they are celebrities or not.

[Squaresquirrel]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 it's so funny that men think they will get a woman when they are 35-45 when they were not successful until then. Most girls I know just laugh at them and repulsed at the same time. You might get some who like your money but then again, a man who buys his way like this is pathetic. Then spend your money on prostitutes, that's more authentic as nobody pretends.

[Squaresquirrel]

Nothing wrong with wanting a woman who is attracted to you but your list is full contradictions and judging by your take, maybe your looks are the only positive thing about you.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@squaresquirrel This... "You might get some who like your money but then again, a man who buys his way like this is pathetic." And this... "it's so funny that men think they will get a woman when they are 35-45 when they were not successful until then." Are the truths they will never accept. Sadly only when reality hits them they will realize that money and status don't get you qualify relationships. Assuming they get that money and status to begin with.

[bamesjond0069]

I dont remember the movie or show something my girlfriend was watching but the girl was being set up or something and she seemed ugh that the men were older and then said something like "ill choose the 40 year old warrior over the younger banker because he will be "soft" like thats the last thing she wanted. In my experience especially today its true. Would a young woman prefer a typical pudgy or scrawny pimple faced mcdonalds worker who is 2.5 years older than her... or The Rock or Brad Pitt or a much much older established and physically fit than average man? I think we know the answer. Even if they didn't have a ton of money and just had a normal amount for their age, we still know the answer its obvious.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 getting your information from movies is the worst thing you can do. As someone that went to university and has a brother and sisters currently in university, people that age tend to date each other. Not much older or younger.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "people that age tend to date each other" agree! AVERAGE PEOPLE DO THE AVERAGE THING. YES 👍 we dont disagree at all. However to assume exceptional people do the average thing is nonsensical. And it also assumes people aspire to average. Im not average dont wanna be average never was average never going to be average. So being concerned about whats typical is irrelevant. Your experience of average normal people you know im sure is spot on. My experience is not average and it makes zero sense. Im far more physically fit than young men often are, im far more successful, and im far more experienced in life. From my perspective women go gaga for that stuff its the core of attraction and any man in my position would see age (within reason) is a positive for dating. All my exs except my HS sweetheart were 10+ years younger than me. Not per se on purpose but i just go for the hottest woman in the room. Not makeup slut hot but true beauty femininity. Personally id never give advice like "son the average is this so just sit in your seat and dont take what you don't deserve" ill have the best or be the best and only make compromises when i fall a little short, not start off in defeat.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 first things first. You want to make a certain kind of population the rule and not the exception. Second, you really think the top girls on their early twenties want an over 30 year old? Get real! They can chose to be with models of her age, that's what they want. Same things with the top guys that age, they want girls their age. As they get older, yes both want to date older. You can say that men still want to date younger girls as they get older, only a very specific kind of girl wants them. Aka gold diggers. Nothing more.

[Squaresquirrel]

@bamesjond0069 I believe you think you deserve the best, nothing wrong with that, you get what you want. Great Are you happy though? With all your 10 years younger exs?

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "Second, you really think the top girls on their early twenties want an over 30 year old?" Actually yes. When you say top girls do you mean slut clown makeup types or like virgin church girls? Lets define top girls. Id consider the latter th3 top girls. The former it doesn't matter what they prefer since they sleep around with anyone. Lol. Also if you think its based off looks, usually when im with young girls they can't stop touching me, i look like the cover of a fitness magazine. Guys their age dont look like that. They are skinny by comparison if they are even in shape since its very popular for men in young generation to not even play sports or anything. So im not sure they are so much "hotter". The young girls also comment a lot on my graying hair and say it looks sexy asf.

[bamesjond0069]

@squaresquirrel yes i am. I occasionally date older women and it never works out. I just dont tolerate their dumb shit. I've noticed women dont age well outside of a serious relationship. By now i wouldn't bother for a serious relationship with an older woman. Casual sure but no chance for serious. My girlfriend is everything i wanted, she's not going anywhere. So yeah id say im very happy. Only thing is people ask if she's my daughter but i say no and then they congratulate me lol. She thinks its funny.

[Squaresquirrel]

@bamesjond0069 That's great. You are still the exception. Majority of the older men look so run down and ruined, it is laughable to think that when they were 25 they thought "women will want me when I'm 40" On Tinder, out of curiousity, I set the age range to 32-55 once. somewhere around 36-37 there was a really sharp divide how men looked. Anyway, I'm glad you guys are having a discussion here but it doesn't change the fact that the take about how women are visual is absolute garbage. Even the way it is worded...

[bamesjond0069]

@squaresquirrel i agree it is crap. And i think for tinder and such it forces any woman to be visual since thats how it works and men as well and the results are terrible. Its literally a hookup app. Visual is the wrong thing to look for. I want a girl who is so into me and my personality that the hottest man in the world wouldn't do it for her anymore. My girlfriend says im hot but also the way i act is way more attractive than any other man she's ever met. Thats what im looking for.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 actually yes they do prefer guys their age. For top girls I mean girls who are hot, have a strong character and intelligence. Do you remember the phenomenon that Justin Bieber was? Was he ever buffed? You world view is far to narrow. And this is coming from a guy that also has a gym body. It does help to be fit. But if you have a six pack or not, most girls don't give a fuck.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "Do you remember the phenomenon that Justin Bieber was? Was he ever buffed?" So you think the biebs can get hotter younger women than The Rock, Brad Pitt, or other apple to apple comparisons? I think Brad Pitt could easily find some young women to date or bang just fine. Jason Statham, is with a woman 20 years younger than him. No guy in the same league as the biebs aka rich celebs seems to have any issue getting a young woman if they so choose. Clearly age is not that big of a deal, certainly not compared to money and fame lol. Back to the OP, women are not very visual at all, thus why i find the post stupid. Women have passed "male models" plenty for men who make them "feel" good safe loved sexy etc. Thats what women usually go for, not looks not age. My best friend is an actual male model and a few years younger than me. He gets little action. I am not nearly as like looks attractive or as tall but i get way more attention from girls. In fact i have to throw girls his way half the time. Smh.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 weren't we talking about what young girls want? Also if we go that way Harry Styles can get more girls than any of the ones you just listed. Still not buffed. Yes there are men who date younger, doesn't make them the rule. By the way Jason's wife is taller than him. That's not the rule either.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 and yes there are studies on this. They made men and women rate each other. Then they let them talk for a while. Turns out women's ratings change a lot after knowing someone. Men's don't. Women care more compared to us about who you are and not how you look.

[Squaresquirrel]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 I think MrJond just can't comprehend that just because most women would find celebrities the most attractive looking, it means nothing or because most women find him attractive, if it is true, majority of the men will struggle to find a normal girlfriend, let alone a hot one. I for example have a soft spot for Robert De Niro. I find him attractive and very masculine. Would I want to date him? No. I would not want to date my grandfather. I fancy James Franco on the screen. Would he come up to me in a pub? I would just laugh, creepy old man, can't handle women his age. Talking about famous men and how they can get young hot girlfriends is incredibly useless and I would say damaging too. Most men will never get those hot women and basically everybody is unhappy.

[bamesjond0069]

"majority of the men will struggle to find a normal girlfriend, let alone a hot one" as someone who has many male friends i think this is exactly what is going on. But they make the mistake to think women are visual and just want a pretty boy like the poster above. As someone who feels like they do fine with women, thats not my strategy at all. I attempt to make women feel safe secure sexy desired... some is appearance but its only to get a foot in the door in my opinion not a driving factor at all. With age comes wisdom, financial security, social connections. in my opinion those three things are highly important and can be realized through solid masculine gender roles. I dont "poof" my hair or dye my grays or wear fashion or any nonsense like that to appear "pretty". Yet i can get more girls than my friend who is a legit male model and younger than me. So i just dont buy thats what women want or thats what men should want in a woman. I've just personally never seen it except for hookup culture and thats not something im into or believe is ideal.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 again. I agree. Women care a lot about actual personality. So they may SAY or even choose to date or consider older men, however they will readily accept an older man they talk to just fine.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@squaresquirrel he is not going to get it, ever. @bamesjond0069 have you ever been around a 19 year old girl recently? I have both my sister and sister in law. Trust me, they had older guys making a move, they didn't gave them the time of day. And I bet the same can be said for @squaresquirrel. But honestly we all gave our arguments this will never end at this rate. You believe whatever you want.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "have you ever been around a 19 year old girl recently?" Yes. My girlfriend of a little over a year who lives with me is 19. Smh.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 And you enjoy talking with her as a romantic partner? As mature as they can be it's painfully obvious that there is a difference in their coversation and ours. I literally feel talking to a child. But you do you.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 it went from oh no it doesn't happen to questions of why i would do such a thing. If you really dont know why a man would be thrilled to be with a young woman, i dont got a medicine for the issues you're having. she's a brilliant cook and very pleasant likes trying new things w me all the time. Oh and the sex is awesome. Not much to complain about. Id recommend it.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 I didn't said it doesn't happen. I said it's not often and not even common for the people supposed at the top. Like I said, other than sex and a cook, nothing more.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 you forgot very pleasant and likes to try new things. You say sex and cooking like its nothing. If you dont have sex with a fertile woman there is basically no point in a relationship.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 sex is the most basic thing there is. And everyone knows the basis if cooking. If I am not with someone that I both respect and admire for her strong character and personality than there is no point to the relationship.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 well whatever floats your boat. I prefer strong morals over strong character. she's not the first young woman I've been with. So back to your point its completely reasonable as far as everything i ever saw.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 you mean you prefer weakness. And vulnerability.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 if thats what you think and i assume you like girls that are like a mommy for you to pick up after your personal failings. Circling back. Maybe the idea of getting a younger woman is very foreign to you because one benefits greatly from a conservative character with attracting young women. Young women and women as a whole are desperate these days for ultra masculine conservative men. My girlfriend was 18 and thought she was a lesbian never wanted kids and hated church and all her friends were transgenders and gays. Now she reads the Bible daily and wants at least 6 kids and is very against lgbt crap and knows its wrong and misleading. She greatly desired a man to show her what was right. She already knew in her heart but desperately needed a man to lead her.

[Squaresquirrel]

@bamesjond0069 Are you going to marry her, or fuck her until she's 22 so too old?

[bamesjond0069]

Why is that relevant and why do you assume i know if ill marry her? How many men do you think know who they will marry long before they are married? Seems like a silly question.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 you couldn't be more wrong. Women today don't want a father and to bossed around. That's why you see so many red pill guys saying there are no good girls anymore. As if... What I like? My wife is my partner. What I bring to the table so does she. Sometimes I am the rock others she is. She cooks I cook. We both clean. That's what I like. Not a weak minded child.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "Women today don't want a father and to bossed around." Here you are speaking for women now this time. Do you have a vagina? No? You treat women like second class citizens so ofc you find it surprising an older man can get a younger woman easily. Its not about age its about attitude. And men these days have terrible attitudes its very popular. And im glad you're happy with your relationship. Its sounds laughable to me but good on you. I personally have never met a couple with a functioning long term relationship like yours but maybe you're the real 1 in a million. Personally id prefer to be single. Thankfully i dont have to. A 19 yo is thrilled to cook and clean and be dolled up for me all the time. I want to try and walk a mile in your shoes but i just can't comprehend a man who would prefer to scrub a toilet than to be the head of their household. So i truly am unable to understand you in the slightest.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 I am the one treating women like second class citizens? That's a new one. I am the one looking at the as equals. Same to you. Glad you are happy, but I can't understand you at all.

[Squaresquirrel]

@bamesjond0069 You sound like you don't want her, you want her youth and "submissive skills" (see the quotes, don't take it literally) and you sound exactly like one of my bosses. 35 as you. He said he "likes them young because they will not object, they will do what he wants as they don't know better yet" = I have a "small dick", so I need to be with someone who will not complain, as they don't know what a man is. How can I unsubscribe from this thread, I keep getting the notification. Could you please carry on in pms?

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@squaresquirrel sure. I believe we are are done anyway.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 if you thought of women as equals you wouldn't speak for one. I dont need to speak for women. They can do as they please. The fact i have a 19 yo girlfriend to your shock is all that needs to be said. Although you master of women guru please tell me more about what women want.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 I am not speaking for them I spoke for myself and about what I want. Also dating a 19 year old is not a shock. In fact is easy, they are easy to decieve and manipulate. Anyway I am done here.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 "... you really think the top girls on their early twenties want an over 30 year old? Get real! They can chose to be with models of her age, that's what they want." "Also dating a 19 year old is not a shock. In fact is easy, they are easy to decieve and manipulate."

[bamesjond0069]

Lmao. Clearly irrational and triggered.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 Just because 19 year old girls prefer guys their age, doesn't mean they are not easier to manipulate than older women are. Logic.

[bamesjond0069]

@This_Is_My_Opinion8 in fact all women seem quite easy to manipulate... seeing as how many men convince their wives to pay the bills for them. Its no different than pimping a woman out. Trading womens feminine gifts for money is the core of what pimping is, not the sexual component. Either to cover up the mans failing for not being a capable man or to satisfy materialistic desires of a weak individual who has a taste for more than they have earned.

[Snsl153]

Is this a joke?

[ADFSDF1996]

Nope. I’m just giving tips on how to spot and avoid women who aren’t visually attracted to men.

[shaysh87]

actually one of the best ways you can tell is : check out all their ex boyfriends. if 7 out of 10 of them are unattractive, you know she doesn't have high standards

[strateguy632]

good mytake

[anon1903]

#1 - #8 are all true!

[Redstang88]

So it’s sketchy for someone to like for your personality and not just looks? What’s your game plan for when you and your hypothetical girl get old? Seriously you are one strange individual

[ADFSDF1996]

I never said personality isn’t important only that it must accompany physical attraction

[spiralshape]

Wow, that is some very interesting info and I too can relate to most, if not all, of this :)

[cookiecrusher]

Some of the points are reaching a bit, but the general idea is good enaugh.

Visual or not.

I never approach a woman and no guy should, because i want a woman who is crazy about me. Too many like to play games, and i'm not into that.

Unfortunately it will mean i can miss a good shy woman. But that is worth it.

Plus i have approached more by shy women than by extroverts. Didn't really expect that.

[bamesjond0069]

This is the stupidest thing I've ever read. Can i please have 1 minute of my life back?

[ADFSDF1996]

Only an idiot will continue to read something he or she perceives as “stupid”.

[bamesjond0069]

This is basically your justification for being a simp and a cuckold.

[ADFSDF1996]

Complete opposite. I’m not the one white knighting due to a lack of reading comprehension.

[ADFSDF1996]

A Beta cuck doesn’t care if a woman is attracted to him or not, he is happy as long as a woman is in a relationship with him. Even if she’s treating him like an ATM machine and giving him little to no sex. Not me, I have strict standards that women must meet in order to date me.

[bamesjond0069]

So the town gangbang slut who has a weird fetish for clowns and has a masterbation and sex addiction would generally meet your requirements at least moreso than a woman who thinks even a tiny bit of self control is a good thing (often so that they desire to only have sex with one man which is YOU in the example) who thinks you have an attractive personality (doesn't preclude you from also being physically attractive) and only has boring typical fetishes like... ya know... obeying you and allowing you to objectify her which she allows no other man to do. I really dont see how what you're saying is not feminist simping for a pro cuckoldry relationship. You equate things that make no sense, ie "offers sex as a reward then she is obviously not a visual woman" i dont follow how their is any relation nor why the conclusion a visual woman is a good thing.

[ADFSDF1996]

I never said anything about a freaky woman.

[bamesjond0069]

"Doesn’t have any unique fetishes" so you consider unique fetishes... not freaky? Dont play stupid. If you dont know what i mean you are a brick.

[ADFSDF1996]

The only idiot here is you spouting off drivel.

[Yourservicemam]

As A Man…
I will say this …
Women want some form of Security
I get that -to let them know your are interested in them
As my myself I strive to have the Physical
As well She /Her the connection…
I don’t want to roll in the sheets
Unless there is more to a connection
Living Life as Human -is to interact with each other…that is so vitally important…
I don’t want a Women upset with me
Because I am not doing something Right
I want please her all I can …
After all she comes first..🥰❤️‍🩹😇😍

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

@bamesjond0069 really? Pimping is all about sex. Go ask a pimp if the is selling women to not have sex. That made no sense. If that is the case than any girl you are with is pimping you. By that logic. But to me that is not logic at all. If both pay the bills, they are partners. Not one pimping the other. On the other hand, if one pays all and the others just gives sex... now that is prostitution.

[bamesjond0069]

I was a pimp and worked in porn for years. Whether i have 4 girls working jobs or being an escort... bitch better have my money. Its just thats usually the best way they can make money.

[Jltakk]

"its about personality" can also be said by women who are clearly visual lol

[dolemite89]

if a girl doesn’t want sex often it’s cuz she doesn’t want to have sex with YOU often, that’s a lie if she’s treating it like a reward

[ADFSDF1996]

That’s what the pinkos say. Since they are so adamant on believing that there are no biological differences between males and females. Specifically when it comes to sex.

[UpdateGloomyNights_]

Good take.