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Venting! Why can't i send sexy pics once in a while?

*I love my boyfriend very much, he's a great guy. But this pisses me off*

WHY DO YOU NOT WANT A SEXY PHOTO OF ME FROM TIME TO TIME??

You don't think a long distance relationship is hard for me to? It's less hard on you if I don't send those pics bc you can't get as horny.

But guess what?? I'm the opposite. It relieves some of my horniess to send them to you!!

So why can't we both get what we want and I only send them once a month or something.

But noooo we have to do what you want and I never get to send them or you get angry.

Jerk.

Venting! Why cant i send sexy pics once in a while?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • ?
    You 2 are doing long distance? Well, to me, that is mistake number 1.
    People shouldn't do long distance relationships.
    When does it end? When is one of you moving back to the hometown of the other? Is this for a month or two... or years?

    Now, what are you upset about? He doesn't want you to send him sexy pictures?
    You send him one and he gets mad or tells you to stop?
    That is odd.
    Maybe there is something wrong with the pics. Send me one or two and I'll point out any mistakes in them if there are any.

    • Woah fox

  • Weirdly enough. Most of us appreciate nudes. Its really better to ask him why. Solution for you, make a PRIVATE whatsapp group or discord server and send those pics there. You can fill that database reliving your horniness and he can come there to get pleased by you! You can send them whenever you want and he can see them whenever he wants! Sounds good? If you aren't cool with that, say why maybe I could come up with something else. Just dont forget asking him why he is like that

Most Helpful Girls

  • Oops. That's pretty sketchy.. Maybe he doesn't want someone to see these pictures on his phone. Are you sure he isn't married or dating someone else in the side?

    • Lmao yes I'm positive. I'm moving in with him in June

  • That seems off to me. A guy not wanting those pics being sent, makes no sense.

    • @rebeccabi2000 It doesn't make sense to you. You're a woman. You wouldn't understand. Just drop the subject and be happy he chose you @strawberryshake

    • @YesIWouldLikeFries be happy he chose me?

    • @YesIWouldLikeFries to be honest you're acting kind of condescending to the both of us, so fuck off

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  • I am sorry your boyfriend doesn’t appreciate your feelings and be thankful that you are thinking of him. If you need to relieve some tensions I would be willing to help.. We could exchange a few pictures and relationship advice. If you are not interested I understand and don’t mean to be disrespectful

  • Maybe he thinks that you doing that would be slutty and he wants to think of you as a girl who is better than that. Maybe he thinks that if you will send him slutty pictres, that you have done that with other guys in the past and he does not want to comtemplate that possibility.

  • That makes no sense and rings alarm bells. I have never heard of a man who does not want to see sexy pics of his girlfriend. It sounds like somebody else can see his phone and he is worried that it will cause problems. It could be parents, in which case he should just tell them and if they understand they will give him his privacy. But it could be another woman. Be careful.

  • So, if he uses a company’s wifi while he’s at work, he might not want them having your sexy pics on record on their servers.

    • He's at home.

    • Oh. That’s not the problem then. Maybe he doesn’t want to get turned on without you there.

  • Maybe he is not that kind of guy. 🤔

    Venting! Why can't i send sexy pics once in a while?

    Such a cute cat. 😍

  • I'm sure there are dozens- if not hundreds- of guys in GaG that would gladly relieve you of your excesses. :- )

    • Dude stop being an ass

    • YOU are the one who said "It relieves some of my horniess to send them to you!!", not me!

    • Yeah I did say that, I said nothing about cheating and showing those photos to other people cunt

  • wait. isn't "being horny" a thing you wanna relieve? so doesn't sending them help you too then?

  • That does sound really frustrating, especially if it's a relief valve. So why doesn't he want them?

    • According to him seeing those photos makes him 10 times more horny (understandable) and it's unbearable. I thought we could meet in the middle and I only send them every once in awhile.

    • But he's not open to that idea?

    • Nope. 😢😠

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  • It makes sense to me to what to wait until you’ve met face-to-face. I’m sure he wants it for both of you.

  • Lol. Sometimes you have to respect a man’s wishes.

  • Maybe he just isn't feeling that sexually active right now. It's fluid thing, guys aren't horny 100% of the time a lot of things can affect our desire for sexy things, like stress for example

  • But the internet is forever

    • So is my sexy lingerie

    • Well actually no

    • Well actually yes

  • Right! If you guys are doing along distance relationship why wouldn't you want a picture of you. Even if I see my girlfriend everyday I still get very happy when she sends me a picture of her. It could be any picture not necessarily even sexual. He doesn't get it.

  • Send to me if you want

  • It seems odd, I would love that from my Girlfriend (if I had one)... but he obviously doesn't feel the same as I do. I won't suggest that you send them to me (I would enjoy them) because I don't think that's anything you would do anyway. Possibly it makes his Heart hurt when he sees them and he realizes what he is missing... I can see how they could intensify his pain and increase his longing for your touch...

  • *shrugs my shoulders*

  • Confusing to me. I always love getting random nudes.

  • You feel better now

  • Is he married

    • No what the hell? I'm not the type of person to engage in a relationship with a married person, I'm moving in with him next month 🙄

    • Then he is care you

  • Lol what

    • Lol can you not read

    • I mean if you want you can do it but it's not good for me

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