A very common question in the Sexual Behavior category is how to have anal sex. Men want it and women are terrified of it based on what they hear and read from other women who've had a bad experience. This guide describes a technique I have used successfully with many women to introduce them to anal sex or convince them that despite earlier bad experiences, it can be a fun and rewarding way to connect.
This guide is written from the perspective of the ladies. You need to be in control initially so you're the focus.
Anal sex can be tricky but it just takes a little thought and consideration to make it more fun than you can imagine for both of you. The critical success factor is your control of the initial penetration. I strongly recommend the spoon position. Use a good lube like Astroglide Gel. You don't need a lot of it, just enough to make everything good and slippery. Spoon up in front of him. He has to stay completely still until you tell him he can move. This is critical. Reach back and place him against your anus and press back with firm, constant pressure. Breathe and relax. Don't be in a hurry. You have all the time in the world. Push back internally like you're going to the bathroom. Before long, your sphincter will start to relax and he'll start to slip in. Just keep up the firm, constant pressure. If at any point the pain gets to be too much, just pause right where you are and wait for things to relax. If you need more lube, have him apply a little and you move him out and back to work it in. Once you're fully impaled, pause and focus on how it feels so you can replicate that feeling. Then slide him out and do it again. It'll be much easier the second time. Once you're fully impaled again and are ready, he can take very slow, short strokes to get you used to it. As you acclimate, he can increase the intensity. He'll likely not last long and so be prepared for the spasms of him cumming up your ass. As you get better at it, position won't matter and it'll be similar to vaginal sex except that he'll possibly need to slow down on the initial entry. Since he's into anal sex, he's more than likely a booty man so doggy will be a popular position over time.
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