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My first threesome!

My first threesome!

Okay, okay. I've been planning this for more than a week, and it finally happened. I've had a lot of people asking about my thoughts and feelings on it, so here it is.

After getting ready and some intermediary stuff, they arrived to pick me up (about 4:30ish). Now, I had been thinking that this was some homebrew experiment that we were trying out, but that idea fell apart fast when they showed up IN A LIMO.

On the ride there, it was kind of awkward, especially since I hadn't been expecting something quite so... extravagant? Anyway, I found out he's a business financer of some sort, working independently. And pretty well off. Which doesn't make me feel better about this whole thing.

We chatted politely for the ride, until we arrived at the hotel, by which point I was seriously regretting my decision. I felt (frankly) more like some escort than a date, and I was worried. Fortunately, the Chinese food arrived quickly.

We broke the ice while I tried to teach Isabelle how to use chop sticks. Apparently she'd never used them before, while I'm quite experienced at it. Spencer just stuck to eating with his bare hands, which kind of (happily) ruined his new "rich boy" stature in my mind.

We eventually got it going by using a Truth or Dare app - None of us declined anything. We alternated (at Spencer's insistence) between Truth rounds and Dare rounds, so we got some interesting conversations in and further got to know each other.

Now mind you, it was technically couples truth or dare, but with one extra player, so we agreed that I would just play as if he were also my boyfriend.

Anyway, they got dared to remake their first kiss, then I got dared to let her draw something on my butt (turns out she just drew a heart with arrow).

I don't remember all of them, but at some point my Dare was to go rock paper scissors with her and winner would kiss Spencer. I won, and we kissed for the first time. Now normally I wouldn't really think this was worth mentioning, but I got my first taste of what he could do. I have NEVER met a better kisser!

We skipped over some exclusive dares (they got dared to shower together, but there's no way we were fitting three people) and Isabelle finally proposed that we move to the bed and begin.

I was more comfortable now, and I agreed. I'm not sure how much detail I want to put here, but it started with kissing - a lot of it. Neither me nor Isabelle could get enough of him. We took turns, mostly, before we moved on.

All I want to say past that point is that I was incredibly surprised by how much energy was present. I've never seen anything like it, especially since when someone got tired or needed to recover, the other two could just go on without them.

The next morning wasn't awkward at all! We laughed and joked, and we got breakfast ordered from the hotel and brought up to the room (which I didn't know you could even do). It only got awkward again when they finally dropped me off. I got shy again, and we said goodbye. I think they are waiting for me to make the next move, or not (if this really was only a one time thing).

If I missed anything, don't be afraid to ask if you want. This isn't one of my usual posts, so I'm not sure if I did this right :/

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  • It's good that you seemed to be able to enjoy the vending tho I'n sure it could have had a nicer start.

    Do you think you are going to be incontact with them again?

    And well the other question is do you see the appeal of threesomes? Cause I'm gonna be honest I don't sk I am kinda curious.

    I hope my wording is okay and also please don't feel any pressure to answer the questions if you'd prefer not to.

    • Thanks for your caution! I want to be in contact, and I do have their number, but they are looking for a more permanent addition to their relationship, and I'm not sure if I could do that... As for the appeal? I'm an emotional person, and emotion ties DEEPLY into my sexual experience. Over the course of this night, I was able to share special moments (and see special moments shared) with multiple people, which is (I suppose) part of the appeal for me.

    • Thank you, I always am as cautious, respectful and kind as I can be. Thank you for taking the time to answer. Im a lot like you with that it's why a threesome has no appeal to me it's about the emotional attachment and I'm a one partner kinda guy.

    • See, that's what's weird to me... I did form those emotional attachments, though they were different, with both of them. Maybe it's possible?

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  • I want some more details. I'll follow and DM you if that's okay please answer :)

    • hmmm I followed but wouldn't let me DM

  • Yeah your experience kind of sounded like my experience LOL well like I said in one of your other questions I realized that I was a one woman at a time guy and that my fantasy is 5000 times better than my three sum I think next time I have that fantasy I want to have it but I want to have sex twice I'm going to ask the girl to pretend to be two different people LOL I want her to pretend that she is very open about it and she wants it and then I want her to pretend that she is an innocent girl and the sea witch was in better sex to better lover

  • So you are polyamorous?

    "The Threesome"
    "The Threesome"

  • I've never done a threesome. I can see where the purely physical aspects might be extremely arousing but I would be concerned about the emotional consequences of doing this. Did you do this because you felt a need for thrill, excirement, adventure? Do you think that doing this might make it more difficult for you to settle into a monogamous relationship in the future?

    • The emotional consequences (for me, at least) were equivalent of any given hookup, albeit stronger due to high running emotions particular to the situation, not due to the threesome. I was invited, I felt like trying something new. It... I hope it doesn't, but I could see how it might.

  • Really good MyTake and nice about the T&D always a decent ice breaker.

    Now the million dollar question….

    what did you order?

    I’ve Just had Singapore Noodles which were sublime.

    • I got my usual Orange Chicken with the fried rice :)

  • So, you're gay?

  • Very interesting story. Thanks for sharing your experience.

  • that is awesome. glad it was a fun time.
    so they are the couple, married?
    any action with her, or did u both fight for his attention?

  • Congratulations. I am glad you enjoyed it. FMF threesomes have always been fun for me, it is only the MFM ones that seem to cause problems.

    • Sounds like what I would expect and have mostly heard

  • a few inquisitive questions:
    Sounds like this is a rich chinese man, I've heard of that...

    What would your father and mother think of you, or if you shared this in your family?

    On a scale of 1 - 10 (highest), where do you see your self worth/self esteem?

    What is it you want out of life and how does this help you get there?

    Am I wrong to interpret this as... you are an unpaid prostitute? in other words, what of value did you get out of this?

    • I told my parents about it on Sunday lol. They made sure I felt good about it, but had a bit of conflicted interest lol Presently? Maybe... I don't know, it fluctuates. 4 overall? I'm more confident in people, less confident in the universe. That's a question I've been pondering (and have pondered) a good deal. If nothing else, it is an experience to reflect on. I seek knowledge and experience, and this gave me both. And yes, you are. This was perfectly consensual and a wonderful experience. I got the same experience as any hookup.

    • ok all good, except that self worth is kinda low, that was my point... someone who feels low will do things like that.. e. g. a high value woman/person wouldn't, I tink. You are where you are, keep navigating your life. What this reminds me of is the "Ming Dynasty" and such, where concubines would spend their lives, once brought in, waiting for their moment with the Emperor. But they had a shot at becoming the Empress... if they had a male child. The other thought was how you could be scammed and the risks if not well informed.. e. g. somehow trust was established such that you did this. Lucky didn't end up a slave, some girls do. Get whisked away to Dubai... you're toast. Is it true you agreed because of perception he was wealthy, or just that he wanted some experience you wanted? how did you find such people... club? gets back to my point of trust, kinda important.

    • Absolutely not! I had no idea they were anything but a normal couple beforehand - he dressed in ripped jeans and had fishing pictures! I was very careful at first meeting (I used an app with my friends, met in a public place, scoped it out a bit) and I still had the app on me during the date. My friends knew the hotel we were staying at, all of that. We even got tested before this experience.

  • Congrats! I'm glad it was fun for you.

    • Inbox me please

  • Sounds like you feel empty inside and the only way that you can get satisfaction and get off is to make people read your absolute garbage.

    I am so sick and tired of the degenerate low lives on here. Please repent to Jesus Christ.

    Or go live your sadsack life somewhere else. You have to be a bisexual to have a threesome.

    • I thought Jesus spent his life speaking to and with "degenerate low lives," and helping them to improve. I'm always open to learn more, but I confess, dealing with individuals such as yourself doesn't really improve my opinion of religion in general. But I'll try not to hold that against them :)

    • You're right he did. I do like helping people to improve but most people don't listen to me anyways. What you are doing is causing others to stumble. You can repent and turn to Jesus. Go live your life.

    • Well... Sitting on here bragging about a threesome is really kind of nasty to be honest and it's degenerate. You obviously as happy and proud of what you done. That or you feel disgusted by it and just want people to make you feel good about it. I think that is disgusting

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  • I have done MFM and MFM. Both are fun with the right people but I enjoyed MFM the most.

  • I wouldn’t like sharing so I’d never do something like this.
    Each to their own I suppose!

  • If I Ever had a threesome I want to be my boyfriend and another man

  • Did you have sex with Isabel or only with Spencer?
    How much older than you were they?
    How did you first meet them and whose idea was the threesome?

    • She's two years older than me, and he is six. We all mingled together, but admittedly Spencer took up most of the attention (one of the main reasons Isabelle wanted a threesome was to take some of the pressure off - he's intense) As for that... Check out my previous questions. They hold the answers in brief.

    • Thanks for replying. I'll read your previous questions.

  • Would you also want to try a threesome with 2 guys and you?

    • Not really, no. I'd feel like a piece of meat between two lions lol

    • 😂😂🙌🏾

    • 😂😂

  • Nice follow-up. Good that it ended up being a pleasant experience.

  • I would have picked you up in a helicopter, personally.

  • Was it weird doing this with two people that you did not really know? Did it make you feel like the odd man out since they were already in a relationship. ?

    • I thought I would, but not really. If anything, it felt like me and Isabelle vs Spencer lol And it was... kind of weird, especially at the beginning, but we warmed up to each other quickly

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