10 reasons men turn down sex

Anonymous

1: Too tired

2: Headache

3: Depressed

4: Working late

4: Too much to drink

5: Low testosterone

6: Self-conscious

7: Stressed

8: Erectile dysfunction

9: Self pleasure

10: Big game

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This_guy_here Xper 6
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Power, you missed power.
Turning down sex gives you power as sex can't be used to control you.

Been there, done that.
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- Eiffelgirl21
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  smart lol
- Nice_Guy_Last
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  Waaaiiiit... using girls' tactics against them... My good Sir! You are brilliant!

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Dani78 Xper 5
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What about cheating or porn addiction?
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zora88 Xper 5
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This is 11 reasons with two number 4's
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- GirlScoutsRevenge
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  Ha Ha! Why has no one else noticed this?
- zora88
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  They are too busy rejecting these as possible reason guys don't want sex and so far it has only one answer, He is tired of having sex with the same female; he wants something new!! Simpler answer: mainly guys commenting!! Haha :)
- zora88
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  @GirlScoutsRevenge ^^^^^
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- GirlScoutsRevenge
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  I know, it's received some pretty angry responses. Not sure why though.
- myTake Owner
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  OMG I just now noticed it, must of happened when I was fixing the take, cause somehow during writing it every thing got messed up.
- myTake Owner
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  I made body of the take before I made the title.
- zora88
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  I think it's because everyone is focused on a "cheating" or a guy who is unhappy with his partner aspect of it, rather than some guys not performing solely because of them and not their partner. He didn't say the only reasons. @GirlScoutsRevenge by the way I was a Girl Scout and I'm pretty sure I earned badges I didn't get so, I'll help you seek your revenge!! :) Take Owner: it's all good!! :)
- GirlScoutsRevenge
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  Ah, I used to be LastGirlScout in here, hence the username when I returned, but I'll still help you get those badges!
- zora88
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  Lol!! Thanks!! @GirlsScoutsRevenge Uh oh, got a down vote someone is unhappy I have eyes and an opinion! Haha!
- myTake Owner
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  That downvote was't from me.
- zora88
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  Ha! Thanks for letting me know take owner! :-)
StateOfConfusion Xper 4
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11. (and the only real reason that a guy wouldn't want it from his girlfriend) he's getting it from somewhere else.
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- The_Eternal_Emperor
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  Bullshit. Some people don't have sex for religious reasons, personal reasons and higher morals.
- booboobear83
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  Definitely needs to be added
- StateOfConfusion
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  My understanding of this article is that the couple has already had intercourse. Don't call me out for bullshit like that lol. Take a chill pill. Personal reasons may include cheating on your girlfriend haha. Have a good one. And yes we should add this one to the list. It's a sad truth.
MyloXyloto Xper 3
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Picture #8 is somehow funny
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GirlScoutsRevenge Yoda
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Number 4 is usually a case of not turning it down, just physically not able. I always find it funny when a guy is all drunk and horny and desperate to have sex, you get him all naked and into bed and he just falls asleep with his dick in his hand.

Pull the blankets over him, take the bottle of Jack Daniels out of the other hand and leave him to sleep... so cute :)
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- therussianconcussion
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  hahahahah. img.memerial.net/.../welcome-to-the-internet.jpg
abzence Yoda
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You missed #11 - Simply don't feel like it.

This list paints the picture that if a male for some reason doesn't always feel like having sex then there must be something wrong with him.

Men are allowed to not always crave sex. Just like they are allowed to not always crave ice cream, watching movies, playing computer games, drinking beer, watch sports or talk about boobs.
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BaileyisDarcy Editor
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Sex is actually a good cure for most of these...
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YourFutureEx Master
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I agree :
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OlderAndWiser Editor
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Maybe the bitch has bugs so big they can jump!
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- OlderAndWiser
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  Okay, no one appreciated the humor in that comment. I turned down sex once when I was physically ill. That is the only time I have ever turned down sex.
BiffWebster Xper 7
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i would say trauma is one of the reasons too. I mean some guys even when they are depressed can have sex no problem. It brings on a relief, and might be doing it with someone that kinda likes them.

Guys, or anybody sexual traumatized as a kid will have problems of intimacy.. i mean they Really Gotta Trust you. a lot of men will turn down sex because of what happened to them. And yes its depression too.
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shessoheavy Explorer
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11. Because he is asexual and would rather do anything else :)
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Janett21 Editor
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It is completely normal that men might not be in a mood for sex too. Many people think that men are always in a mood for sex whereas I know it isn't true.
My boyfriend is sometimes too tired after work and he just wants to relax. Although I usually want to have sex I understamd him and just relax with him.
Also you forgot reason 11: He might be cheating on you. Many guys turm down sex with their partners because they have find a new girl :/
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dragracergirl Xper 5
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Guys are usually hornier than fuck when they're drinking. ED, stress and tiredness are the biggest reasons. Speaking from a 23 yr marriage.
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ObscuredBeyond Guru
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You left moral concern off the list.
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- jacquesvol
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  Indeed.
godfatherfan Guru
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another is the rebound time.
Sometimes you have sex and instead of being satisfied women want to get right back at it. Well enjoy that shit while your young ladies. As guys get older the rebound time gets a lot longer. While if she really got down to business she could probably get me hard again within 30 min... if you want my other head in the games as well I need at least 1.5 to 2 hrs. the more time the better chance it won't take me two hours to cum the 2nd time...
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- wom777
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  wht u mean rebound time gets longer? wht that means
- godfatherfan
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  After a guy cums it takes time before he can get hard and have sex again. When I was a teenager and hit puberty that can be just minutes. now it is a lot longer. But keep in mind that just because a penis is hard doesn't mean the guy is mentally ready for sex. an erection is a physical reaction. I can be hard but my mind is not on sex. if I am not "in the mood" then I would be pumping away for a very long time and I am not going to cum.
YachtDance Xper 4
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My only reason:

I'm dead.
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monicute Xper 4
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he commutes to work and that is more than 3 hours each day. When he is home, he barely has time for family and sex
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- Aus15688
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  I will be honest... I would sex you so hard for him so he doesn't have to worry 😀
- kheserthorpe
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  I spend 3 hours a day commuting, have three kids, cook a bunch of meals, etc. Would have sex daily if it was up to me.
ThisDudeHere Master
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Don't know if this counts as stressed or not but going through a lot of emotions can hamper your ability or even want to have sex.
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zombiebabe Editor
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interesting...
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KBob93 Guru
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For 1-7 is when you give him a massage, Advil, tea, etc. & leave it at that. I get aroused when I give a guy a massage, so that always suffices for me.
8-10 is when you let him be, not much else to do, lol
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- No_Drama_
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  Wise beyond your years
- Nice_Guy_Last
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  9 is when you need to confront him lol.
Antizzl Xper 6
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I wouldn't turn down any woman for sex ever.
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