Guys: do you prefer virgin or non-virgin?

Guys. When it comes to having sex... VIRGIN or NON-VIRGIN?
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  • Compassionate Virgin Woman > Compassionate and Non-Promiscuous Non-Virgin Woman > Compassionate Promiscuous Woman > Uncompassionate Virgin Woman > Uncompassionate and Non-Promiscuous Non-Virgin Woman > Uncompassionate Promiscuous Woman.

    A few notes on how to interpret that:

    (1) The ">" should be read as "greater than".

    (2) By compassionate, I mean that the person does not try to shame others based on how much or how little sex that other person has had.

    For example, I wrote "Compassionate Promiscuous Woman > Uncompassionate Virgin Woman". I am here comparing (A) a woman who is promiscuous but does not try to shame others based on their sexual experience, and (B) a woman who is a virgin but runs around calling people whores, sluts, and otherwise being a snooty bitch, and I find that (A) is more appealing than (B).

    • My head hurts.

    • Let me put it in simpler terms. Presented with two women who are the same in every way except for the number of sexual partners they have had, I would prefer the one with fewer sexual partners. Presented with two women who are the same in every way except for how compassionate they are to people with different numbers of sexual partners, I would prefer the one with more compassion. Presented with two women who are not the same in how many sexual partners they have had or how compassionate they are, then I would always prefer the compassionate one, even if she has had more sexual partners.

    • Okay I Understand Now. Good Man. I prefer Guys who are the same. I don't want to loose my virginity to some HORNY dude, and then he leaves the next day acting as if nothing happened. It would break my heart knowing that a guy just took something precious from me, and he doesn't even care. Ya know?

  • Non virgin. I'd rather focus on having sex then deal with the emotional baggage that comes from a girl losing her virginity. I've had sex with two virgins and both of them cried afterwards because they were overwhelmed by the emotions in that moment. (No, I was not being a jerk)

    For a guy, nothing is worse than making a girl cry, no matter the reason.

    Plus, you never know how long a virgin will make you wait. Or how many times she's going to flip flop on if she wants to or not. I prefer a girl who knows what she wants and goes after it, especially when it's me.

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  • Regardless of status, I wouldn't judge nor would I have a preference, because as long as she pulled at the heart strings, she would have my attention, x

  • I don't fucking care whether the girl is a virgin or not. If she is a virgin, great. If she isn't a virgin, great, she had a life before I came into her life.

    • Pow!!

    • LOL PREACH

  • I prefer someone who knows what she's doing in bed. A younger, more insecure guy might prefer someone less experienced, as I did when I was younger.

    There's a mild attraction for me now, to the idea of taking a woman's virginity, but only in that I'm hitting uncharted territory, and I doubt the sex would be good enough for that alone to carry me through.

    That being said, NO guy is ever going to tell you "Wait, you're a WHAT? Oh, HELL no. Go have sex with a half a dozen or so other guys, then maybe we'll talk".

    • In regards to your last comment, I'd disagree. I was turned down once because I was a virgin. Although sometimes I think it was just a stupid excuse.

  • Guys tend to have some preference for virgins to actually date, and non-virgins to hook up with casually.

    • This.

    • Conversely, the status of a woman's vagina has never been a factor where I've chosen to date one.

  • Never been with a virgin so I can't comment on the virgin, but non-virgin is perfectly fine by me. From what I can guess I think I would prefer a non-virgin because she would have experience and hopefully know what she likes and doesn't like and can help you to get herself off.

  • My wife and me were both virgins, so easy call for me :D

  • I flipped a coin. Non-virgin this time.

    • lol. Okay?

    • He lied, there is no coin.

    • I'll have you know I have plenty of coins!

  • I would prefer to date and marry a virgin. If she'd slept with one or two guys before, but later on had a change of heart, I would give her a chance. However, I would prefer a virgin.

  • Nice girl, and a click. Than friendship, than love, than sex.
    Virgin or non virgin is really not relevant. The sex will come when we both feel ready :-)

  • Virgin. They are tighter and more of a snugg fit.

  • virgin unless she wants to get married first lol

  • You know, I would always answer this question when I was a virgin and respond with 'virgin'. But now that I'm not a virgin, and I've had sex with a virgin, I would say it doesn't matter. It was important that I wanted a virgin when I was a virgin because I wanted the moment to be memorable for both of us, but now that I'm not a virgin, it doesn't matter to me. I would have sex with either.

  • I dont get why girls ask these types of questions.. I like girls in general. Whether your a virgin or not will not change my opinion on you if i already like you. Well i mean there is an exception where if they have sex with a lot of guys but you get my point

    • I'm just curious on what guys prefer.. Thats All.

    • I know (:

  • Most are going to say virgins

  • I PREFER VIRGIN.

  • Virgin.

    You can always train her in.

    But once the early bird's got the worm, you'll always have the dirt.

  • Virgin, for obvious reasons.

  • Whether virgin or non as long as her heart is with you when she is with you it should all that matters.

  • Both have pros and cons.

    My opinion has shifted back and forth over time but At the moment I would pick virgin.

  • Non virgin

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