Girls, can you remember your best bj or hj that you gave?

[PrinceSoren]

The best one I got was from a friend that I am not dating and we weren't really "interested" in each other we were just that close at the time. I was having a stupidly hard week and just physically drained and I didn't really even want to go to her house for a movie night but I made a promise so I did. Right away, she could tell that something was up. After she popped in the DVD, she asked and I told her. So she said "well don't think about that now, just watch the movie." We settled onto the couch and she put a pillow over my lap and rested her head there. About five minutes in she slipped her hand under the pillow and started rubbing me. I was wearing sweats, so she could get a pretty good feel for it. I didn't want to say anything initially because I wasn't sure if she had done that on purpose but after a little while, I knew she had. So I sat back. She tapped my hip, letting me know to sit up a little, the slid my pants and boxers down. She got me extremely hard. I slipped my hand underneath her shirt (she has smallish boobs, so she hardly wore a bra when we hung out) and felt her up while she stroked me. 45 minutes (yes 45) she made me cum the absolute hardest that I have ever. My cum was still on her chest and boobs when she turned to me and said "I hoped I helped some." To this day, I cannot tell you what that movie was about, some chick flick but that was my hottest sexual hj. Can anyone beat that?

[Anonymous]

Me and my guy friend got sexual for the last 9 months. He continuously tells me I'm the best he's ever had (bj and hj) ... I made him cum in less then 3 mins once!

[PrinceSoren]

Really? How in the world? Haha

[Opinion Owner]

He gets turned on when I moan & lets just say he made me moan pretty much that much and made me say some dirty things, so he was pretty close already when I started. What you get when you both learn what you like & how to please each other

[PrinceSoren]

How did he make you moan if you're giving him a bj? I agree that once you get to know one another and explore you learn the most. You must have skills. Hehe

[Opinion Owner]

He was fingering me before hand and then we switched so he was pretty turned on before he got his fun.

[PrinceSoren]

So you definitely had your turn and got what you needed first. This is a positive. (: Have you ever gotten close to that time again?

[Opinion Owner]

Sadly things have come to an end between us, but there has been many more times like that. Maybe suggest a friends with benefits with her if you want her sexually? Just don't be insensitive when asking! Good luck! (:

[PrinceSoren]

Well shucks...I feel like a dunce...I'm so sorry. Why did it end? Just so I can maybe avoid something like that in the future...

[Opinion Owner]

I grew attached after that ammount of time, we grew closer & our friendship went deeper. He likes me but after being cheated on in a past relationship is scared of change/commitment. So were having time apart, it's hard but it has to be done. We're still friends just not as close.

[PrinceSoren]

Do you think that there will ever be a chance for something more or will it go back to being friends with benefits ?

[Opinion Owner]

We've tried to end it many times, even after he knew my feelings were involved. We will always be sexually attracted to each other, no matter what. And I'm not sure, he seems undecided & confused on what he wants atm. So only time will tell but I can't see it being the last of it as much as i wish it was. After 9 months you grow a bond with someone & grow attached... Or is that just a girl thing?

[PrinceSoren]

Definitely not just a girl thing. As long as he isn't just using you then it can very well workout. I'm not going to put him Under the category of "guys who use girls" though because I don't think that's fair. I'm not that way, nine months would have me being extremely serious about a girl. It just looks like patience is the thing that will be your marker. Do you think you could wait not have sexual relations with him for a while and see what happens then? Or do you need it as badly as he does?

[Opinion Owner]

We were both very sexual and when we had them urges it was hard, we would fight with ourselves for half hour before giving in. He hasn't had sex with me because he could see I had feelings and he apparently didn't want to play me as he thinks I'm a 'sound girl' and respects me... I think I've ruined it though! Just be careful what you say if you get involved with this sort of relationship!

[PrinceSoren]

You think that you could've ruined it just by stating how you feel? No miss you opened it. You opened yourself, you opened his eyes, you did the right thing. You were not wrong at all. He seems like a decent guy from what you've explained. 'Nd you seem like a sound girl indeed. Adventurous...very much so. :P Sound, nonetheless. There must be something going on with him, you know?

[Opinion Owner]

I kinda told him that I think we should stop texting... He got angry & upset about it saying 'it's kinda shit as I did enjoy having banter with you.' ... He was cheated on in his last relationship & I think the age gap worries him (I'm 19 & he's 26) & thank you ahaa it means a lot, at the moment I'm just feeling not good enough for him lool!

[PrinceSoren]

The age gap can definitely be overcome. Why did you want to stop texting? Did you want to distance yourself from him? 'Nd you are very welcome. I'm here to help, you're definitely good enough for him and as objectively as I can say this, you went above and beyond what most girls do.

[Opinion Owner]

I think it just hurts me too much him being there and not being able to have him. Plus he says some stuff he shouldn't which doesn't help me moving on. Plus I want to see if he'll realise if he misses me or not... We've spoke every week for the last 9 months, it's hard on my part I know that! Ahaa well thanks again!

[PrinceSoren]

Does he say things pretty much to the effect of "I miss you." "I care about you." "I want to be with you someday." Stuff like that? 'Nd stop thenking me. Haha It's absolutely my pleasure. ^_^

[Opinion Owner]

He's called me cute, he jokingly asked me to marry him the other day & talked relationship terms, saying he'll give me massages all the time when were married, how I can have anything I want (even though he knew I had feelings) ... He did say 'I hardly ever see you as it is.' When I mentioned about not talking & he got angry. He's says he doesn't want to hurt me & how he'd feel bad if he took advantage of me. Ahaa I'm sorry it can't be helped :')

[PrinceSoren]

Shucks...that's deep. 'Nd I can definitely see how that would have an affect on you. Those sound like all of the things that a girl really wants to hear. Especially from someone that she wants to be with. Has he respected your wishes and not kept contact with you? Yes you can. Hehe Don't say thenk you this time. :P

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah & when I brought it up he couldn't understand how it made me feel. He hasn't texted me as of yet, it's been 3 days so far though I can see him drunk messaging me! That's another thing he has the choice of loads of girls who want him who he can happily have sex with, but he would phone me up & hook up with me (without sex) & he's extremely jealous!! Ahaa it's a hard one 🙊

[PrinceSoren]

So he has some decisions to make because if definitely seems as though he's made a deep connection with you. As well as I know a huge impact on your life. How long would you let him oh without messaging you or do you want to be the first one to text him? It was hard but you did it! Hip, hip! Haha

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah well I told him I think we should stop texting so I can't be mad if he doesn't, but a week. I want him to message me first, I want him to prove that he cares & misses me if that's the case! Though I am going to text him in 2 weeks as it's my birthday!

[PrinceSoren]

Hehe. So it's like a testing period? You girls and your tests. :P Oh nice! Are you gunna do anything for it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah kind of! I can say the same about guys with tests ahaa! Just going clubbing ahaa same old same old lool!

[jdunce]

Thats hot..3 mind? Wowzers..lol

[PrinceSoren]

Haha What tests do we do? Oh nice. Haha Club hopping or just getting down at one?

[Opinion Owner]

He used to test me at the begging I can't remember what he said now but he would ask questions... Then saying 'I'm only testing ya, you passed lool' ... & just at one I think ahaa!

[PrinceSoren]

Well that's...I don't like tests like that. Haha I actually don't like tests at all. I understand his heartbreak background though and if that was fine with you then that's what matters. Oh, very cool. Haha How are clubs by the way? I've never been...well performing but that's usually just in and out.

[laseredandpierced]

sure. Like it was only yesterday. O gosh, it might have been only yesterday...

[PrinceSoren]

Haha! What happened with it?

[laseredandpierced]

"it" being...

[PrinceSoren]

Your hj or bj. Haha

[Anonymous]

This annoying question keeps popping up as I search through questions. Someone make it go away please! :/

[PrinceSoren]

I'm sorry that you don't like this. I hope that it doesn't interfere too much with your searching. I would try to delete it but I know that you can't. I don't want to make anyone uncomfortable. Just wanted opinions. I do apologize sincerely.