Why do men treat women like a piece of meat these days?

It disgust me how every man treats women like a piece of meat , why can't they respect women. Even taxi drivers pulling in alleys not first time to happen I'm actually disgusted ! Are there any men that don't think with there penis. I almost got raped 5 times in one night other night !
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  • Why do men treat women like a piece of meat these days?
    Egh I'm unsure why you're stating 'these days' as if guys treating gals like a piece of meat is something relatively new. It's not going by history it seems guys have historically regarded gals as lessers to be treated akin to meat.

    "It disgust me how every man treats women like a piece of meat , why can't they respect women."
    Possibly because it seems guys generally do not regard gals as human beings rather as 'others' that they f*ck. As well as considering it seems most civilizations were built by guys and how very few from the beginning had respect/equal/fair treatment of gals it seems that guys do not want to respect gals it may not be in their nature or their ideal of masculinity.

    "Are there any men that don't think with there penis."
    In my opinion homosexual, bisexual, and asexual guys may fit this.

    "I almost got raped 5 times in one night other night !"
    This is probably not the suited place to state this as guys will likely blame you for how guys act as it seems gals are held responsible for guys actions. Or likely guys will tell you it's the guys you're hanging out with as if gals are supposedly suppose to know which guys are rapists and which aren't and are held responsible for guys actions. There's also the guys who'll see this as guys just showing their interest and it being natural as it seems anything a guy does when he's aroused (groping, rape, etc) falls under 'natural'.

    On the almost rape bit in my opinion it may be suited to consider gun/tazer/mace carrying along with self-defense as the bs contradictory unhelpful 'rape prevention tactics' such as don't dress provocatively don't actually prevent or lessen the chance of rape as the variable for that is a rapist being present.

  • Firstly, I really hope you're ok and that you weren't hurt or anything like that. Please please stay safe, keep with friends and be vigilant. There are some nasty people about and you can't ever be sure. I myself have been raped in the past so I understand your stand on this.

    It's very easily to feel that way and I think anyone who has had bad experiences can relate to those thoughts. The one thing however that helps me is having a good few men in my life that prove me wrong, strong solid moral men in your life will help you separate the decent men from the bad ones.

    We are nowhere near close to the equality and respect that is deserved among women, especially not in many other countries round the world. But don't give any man the chance to hurt you and use you, be strong and respect the dangers that you now know there are.

    Again I'm sorry you've been badly treated and I hope it hasn't left you bitter to all men, trust me there are good ones out there :-)

  • Not every guy is like that. Just avoid being alone and try to be in public. I know there's a lot of nasty man, i even had a jerk masturbate to me in a NYC train on a crowded.train and i did not realize because so much was gong through my head until a woman told me

    • Stupid bitch told me after he got if his spot i would have embarrassed him and called the cops. He didn't violate me but everyone on that train. I don't care anymore though but that day i was pissed and had friends cheer me up saying "is that you too sexy" in a humorous tone voice lol w/e

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  • There have always been, and will always be, a percentage of guys who are real jerks. That's probably only 10-15%, but that means you'll still run into plenty of them. Whether they just had poor upbringings, or are simply just Demon Seed, the definitely exist, and even many of us guys don't like them. But we can't just go around beating them up or locking them away, so we try to teach women how to protect themselves and to learn to avoid them as much as possible.

    BUT... a lot of women today ALLOW themselves to be treated like a piece of meat. Listen to most rap songs today, which are full of misogynistic lyrics that call all women whores & bitches, and then watch how many WOMEN gleefully sing along to these songs. Is it a surprise that a lot of them simply ACCEPT that this is how they should be treated?

    So, yeah, you have guys that are jerks, and you have women who don't stand up for themselves, and that's a bad combination.

    • I don't I never sleep around , I'm just so disgusted even my friend said to me if you don't let me stay your house stay in your bed I ain't taking you home. So I was stuck out most of night

    • Yeah, you should be upset, but you also need to find a better class of guy to hang around with. If one of MY friends treated a girl like that, I'd have to take him for some "wall-to-wall counseling", and then I'd probably take her home myself. That's just not acceptable.

  • Well I hope you are ok. but did you think back and go over what happened. if something that bad truly almost happened that many times in one night then you are doing something to put yourself in bad situations. Sometimes they are unavoidable. Maybe things just worked out that way one night. but if your cautious and observant, then any person can keep themselves out of bad situations.
    I treat women like a lady. I let them lead when dating as far as how far things will go. I might press for kissing but I keep my hands and penis to myself until they are clear it is what they want.

    • I had to make my own way to where I was going , I don't usually ever go out alone. It was pretty late and in city

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  • You're WRONG. Men treat women like gold in comparison to how women were treated even 50 years ago. Imagine if we lived 500 years ago where you barely had more rights than a cow and even less rights than a horse.

    I will admit that those guys were being total pervs but, then again, coming from a girl with a fake picture of a p*rn star as her profile picture, we have no idea how you might've been acting to lead these guys on.

  • "these days"

    be glad you didn't leave 60+ years ago. until 1993 husbands could rape their wives without consequence in some states. the objectification of women is certainly at a low in the span of human existence.

    that said why do some men treat women like meat? because they objectify women and unfortunately don't respect them as equals

    as for almost getting raped 5x's in one night. I hope for your sake you are circling in areas that are well lit and safe, and if not in safe places be in the company of friends

  • Not all men. There a few bad men who fuck it all up for everyone. Let's not joke around about rape statistics, that's in poor taste.

  • You attract the life you live.

    There's no denying there are PLENTY of asshole guys out there, and I am in no way defending them (in fact, I hate guys like this), but are you sure you're also not 50% the problem?

    Your giant "pseudo-nerdy" glasses, boobs hanging out, puffy lipped selfie picture speaks volumes. Maybe not everything, but it DOES say something.

    Also, if you're looking for a librarian for a boyfriend, don't look for them in nightclubs, if that's what you've been doing.

    • Changing your profile picture won't change the truth. Neither will vote downs either.

  • 5 separate people in separate situations or was it a gang?

  • It's always a bad idea to make generalizations.

    • Believe me , I try not to but 5 times in one night I'm actually disgusted. I've had a lot of bad experience with men

    • Maybe you need to find better places to hang out.

  • There's still a long, long way to go, but it's better these days than ever before.

  • I've said this many times on this site, but I need to say it again, society's fucked!

  • Because they act like pieces of meat these days.
    With a picture like that on your profile, you have no leg to stand on.

  • Try hanging around another crowd. You seem to be in danger! I would never treat a gal this way. Ever.

  • Yea. Sucks to be a female. But that is honestly disgusting how some of these dudes think. There is no doubt If I ever see anything happening that shouldn't be happening towards a female... Lord help me. I F$$#ing hate men with that disgusting behavior.

  • Every man lol
    Suuure.
    Yeah, most men are fucked up sexist assholes, and I'm sorry for that, I really wish I could snap my fingers and either change them, or snap their necks, but I can't.
    All I can do is speak out against that kind of behavior. I already do that all the time.
    So please, don't speak as if we were all terrible, cause some of us are pretty decent people.

  • That sucks. Stop hanging out around chavs.

  • Some men, not all.

  • Because they are not men but perverted little boys , that think thats the way its suppose to be

  • Feminists, blame them go!

  • dont think you almost got raped 5 times but yea avoid the bad ones. its same as girls using guys for money

  • I seriously doubt you were almost raped 5 times in a single night. After the first time you would have either ran home, or gone to the police. So the other 4 times wouldn't have had a chance to happen. More likely you just ran into some aggressive men, that made you feel uncomfortable.

    Complaining about men treating women like a piece of meant is the same as slut shaming, except it is directed at guys instead of women. Showing interest in the opposite gender is a natural thing that we shouldn't be ashamed of.