First time without condom what should I expect?

So I am, 24 and recently decided to move in with my bf. I also am going to go on the pill for the first time. I have never had sex without a condom, so I totally clueless. Will it spill out, what do I after sex. Do we need to shower, clean up. Do people normally cleanup shower after. Does it get on bed sheets.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's the best thing ever! You can actually feel him and you don't have the latex smell either!! You might actually feel his cum start shooting out when he gets off, which to me is pretty amazing! And yeah its gonna come back out, you just wipe it up or run as fast as you can to the bathroom without making a mess! Sometimes I'll just let it run back out and not do anything about because I like it, makes me feel kinda naughty lol. You don't have to shower right away unless you wanna, that's up to you. If you don't shower you may still smell his cum, but truthfully no one else will smell it but you and him. I will tell you though you can shower and pee as much as you wanna and it may still run out a little several hours after sex, it's never just a whole lot though. I always tell my husband if it does, I think he likes the fact that it's still running out of me. Just do it once and see, but I promise you'll probably never use a condom again! It's messy, you'll have to wash your sheets a little more, but it's worth it. Granted if you ever plan to have a baby, you'll going to have to let him finish inside of you. 😕

  • It just feels warm and wet...yeah it runs out and gets on the sheets. I know some people clean up right after but that seems kind of unsexy...I think it's hotter to just lay there full of cum and make out or cuddle. Up to you.

  • Yes it will leak out and yes some will get on the sheets. Keep a small towel handy for clean up. You can always shower after if you feel you need to.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'll leave it to the girls to answer about semen coming out of them after intercourse. But I don't think you need to feel like you've got to get out of bed right after sex and go take a shower. And yeah, some semen might get on the sheets, but sex can be a little messy. There will probably be a wet spot. But try to enjoy the moment after he cums without feeling like you gotta go take a shower right away.

  • It'll leak out...but not necessarily right away. And you'll want to *clean up* to avoid potential infections.

    Sex without a condom is definitely better...but that doesn't mean he has to finish inside you. As a guy I've always been more comfortable pulling out (guys are visual so finishing on you should be a turn on for him + minimizing pregnancy risk even further), and less messy for you.

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  • Yes it comes out, have tissues ready. I advise going to the bathroom after to wash out too

  • Yes it spills out but just wipe it and have more sex! It is a million times better with no condom

  • yes it comes out, yes it gets on the sheets

  • so how was it?

  • It's a really beautiful thing. You share many bonding and happy hormones when you take his semen in your vagina. Some will be absorbed, but most of his semen will drip out after.

  • It will dribble out like a leaking tap, but I love to watch my girl friend as she stands in front of me, whilst it dribbles all the way to her inner thighs and then her ankles. so hot !!! especially when she starts laughing and shouts out I need a plumber help me I'm leaking !!!

  • Sex without a condom is just awesome! If I was u guys, I would take the pill but also keep tabs on when ur most fertile days are, that will also help prevent pregnancy. I've been with my gf for 5 years. & she just recently decided to do it without a condom but she still won't let me cum inside of her. I have came inside a woman b4, but those were exes. I hear most women on here, love the feeling of their man/guy cumming inside of them. I say they're lucky! Lol. But just b safe & have fun. :-)

  • You will love it! feels so much better without a condom. I usually shower after the fact but it's not super messy. It doesn't get all over everything.

  • it'll leak out so have a towel ready. You don't NEED to shower. But some people do