What does it mean if you don't sweat during sex?

I noticed that with my last boyfriend, I never sweat during sex or even when we are touching or making out. However, another ex I had would just have to kiss me on the mouth and neck a couple times and I would get all sweaty with him...but not with the other? What does this mean? I have had intense sex with my most current ex boyfriend but I just never sweat, not even a little bit o:
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  • offhand, all i can think of are:
    -your current ex possibly had a lower surface temperature on his body
    -the mechanics of sex with our current ex required less exertion on your part - be it because you didn't have to keep your legs spread as wide or didn't need to be on your toes durring doggy..
    -his bed may be more breathable
    -winter just came and went. perhaps the lower temperature/humidity was a factor

    that's all i can think of..

    • nope, I never been on his bed. Always on my bed and the season factor was both during fall and winter. Even when I am on top, I don't seem to sweat, maybe just a little but nothing significant. With my other ex, we didn't even have sex and when we start making out, we both would get super sweaty, even in the winter time.

  • it can have to do with hydration, but i think i agree with most the people on here and say it has to do with how comfortable you are, maybe you were just too nervous or tense with the other guy and that is why you sweated a lot. or the ventilation is different. i personally almost always sweat but thats cuz i am putting some serious work in lol.

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  • I'm going to go with either the room you're in when things start to go down is well ventilated OR you aren't nervous as hell with your current boyfriend. I know I sweat like crazy when I'm nervous. I wouldn't look too much into this, sweating doesn't measure how much pleasure you're going to feel during sex, that's all up to clitoral stimulation.

    • Sorry ex boyfriend not current

    • I am really comfortable with him. We have been best friends for 3 years before I started going out with him. I usually am self conscious when a guy sees my lady parts but I never was with him when he first saw me naked.

    • Yeah that's probably it then. When I first dated my fiancé I sweated with just him touching my hand because I was so nervous but now I only sweat if we're having sex in a hot room lol. So that's probably all it was, your nerves.

  • It could just be you aren't drinking enough water, or he is doing most of the work, cool weather

    • We do equal work! in fact we rarely did missionary position.

    • ok, well those are my guesses

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  • It means very little. Have you lost weight? Thinner people sweat less.

    • I was the same weight back then, 110 pounds.

    • Do you enjoy sex with your current boyfriend?

    • I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago but we are still best friends. Sometimes I did and sometimes I didn't. It used to be really good at the start of our relationship but when I was getting down to those last two months before I ended it, the sex wasn't that great.

  • Could it be because you're more comfortable, less nervous or uncertain?
    People generally get sweaty hands in uncertain situations as well...

    • I think it's that

    • Waw, this means you've met "the one". Take care of him and enjoy :-)

  • Your hormones raging from sexual intercourse and love making
    it doesn't have to happen with all sex partners

  • That means you are having fun and that is sexy :)

    • If I'm not sweating, that means I'm having fun? hmmm

    • Nah...but it is indeed strange i agree. May be you must switch off your AC while having sex?

  • It means that you aren't doing it right, lol well, unless you have a medical condition or are incredibly dehydrated.

    • no medical condition, maybe dehydrated. I have problems with dehydration every now and then.

    • I am constantly dehydrated too, but I still get fairly sweaty during sex. Is the sex just not that vigorous? This is interesting to me. Not trying to be a perv. But do you get and stay wet? Next time you might check your capillary refill before sex ny squeezing your fingertip on top of the nail and below the pad and see how quick the color returns. It could also mean other things but it is a good indicator as to your fluid state.

    • It could be more vigorous? eh sometimes my fingernails turn blue but not during sex.

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  • the only thing i want wet when i am with a woman is her lady parts.

  • More important to me would be if your lady parts got wet!

    • yes they did, no problem in that section!

    • Maybe you just were not that active physically. I don't know I sweat or I don't it depends with me while being with the same gal

  • Honestly saving myself till marriage but I don't generally sweat much in general it's more of a glistening sweat not so much the beady sweat.

  • It means the sex isn't intense enough.

  • Maybe your just in really good shape.

  • Take a cold shower

    • why?