I don't think it was too soon for having sex. It seems to me that the both of you didn't know how to handle your situation after sex though. And by both of you thinking your relationship would become awkward, you've made it awkward.
I don't know what his deal is with canceling the dates, but that's his problem. You shouldn't blame yourself for deciding to have sex with a guy after three dates. Most guys would not screw over a girl after just having sex with her, especially if they'd already been out with her three times. I'm not concluding that this guy is screwing you over either, I'm saying how three dates until sex usually doesn't cause any problems.
I recommend finding a way to go back to how things were before sex. It was only two people getting physically intimate. If anything, the experience should be bring you two closer together, not create this chasm in your relationship.0 1 0 0i think your just paranoid and expecting bad things to happen. if u keep pushing him away he's eventually gonna give up. just be yourself. try to forget u ever slept with him. you're making things more complicated than they are. i kno ur young but this is the age where u learn about yourself. you're supposed to make mistakes now while ur young so u stop making them as u get older. but let it go. just be safe and let life happen. u don't have to tell anyone when things go wrong. just keep a mental note for next time =)
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Too soon, but don't beat yourself up, that doesn't help. Honestly, it sounds like he's still deciding if he wants this or not. I'd say distance yourself, give him time while you thinkthink about if you want this guy/this relationship, and notice the other guys around you. Seriously that whole delaying the date thing (for a full week) would just piss me off and make me think he isn't excited/interested. If sex hadn't have happened, would that be OK?
0 0 0 0good point.. thats exactly what i think. because the only reason why i still bother to see him is because i think it would still work... he said he hates seeing girls because he thinks it would only hurt them because of how busy he is, but then why is he still texting me and liking me you know? ahh im so confused and upset I don't know what im gonna do
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0 5It's too soon.
0 1 0 0yea i know now :( i wanted someone to explain it better but thanks for your opinion! x
Explain why you do it? Why he does it? Why it's too soon?
the general rule is the third date, however, never do something you're not sure of. if you have to ask when to have sex, you're probably not ready
0 0 0 0Yeah if you don't even like the guy yet why try to act so slutty i mean seriously. If he wants a girlfriend who's slutty let him go find some one else.
0 0 0 0Personally I think it's too soon.
0 0 0 0no that's too late. you should've done it on the first date.
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