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Boyfriend hates his own sperm?

My boyfriend wanted me to give him a blowjob last night when were "loving on each other", so being the girlfriend that I am and the fact that I love pleasuring him, I happily complied. Afterwards though, he did not want to kiss me and seemed quite revolted by the thought of it. He then said he wanted to finish while sitting on my stomach, so i stopped giving him a bj and switched to a hand job as he maneuvered on top of me. He finished quickly (he was quite worked up) and ejaculated onto my chest, where I thought he would like the look of his stuff all over my chest (as I've heard on here that some guys really like that). He was completely disgusted and hurried to get a towel with a "ew ew ew thats so gross i'm going to throw up" scrunched up look on his face. I was totally fine with it. His ejaculate and pre-cum do not gross me out at all so I know he was not just worried about me feeling uncomfortable. He really hates the stuff. Do any other guys (or girls) have this problem? Is there something I can do to make him not hate the stuff? I know you can't really change what he does and doesn't like, but at least enough to get him to kiss me afterwards? Thanks for you help!
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  • well clearly this is an issue on his part and not yours, he gets horny and needs to cum, be it with you or on his own. Then gets grossed out by what he has done. He can either get over this himself or stop any sexual activity/ejaculating. (Which he won't by the way since all guys jizz) So what im saying is he will have to get over it.

    • What mainly bothers me is that he doesn't want to kiss me after i give him a blowjob... I told him i washed my mouth out and my lips when we took a break and he still didn't want to kiss me. I barely got a goodnight kiss and I had to sneak up on him to get it!

  • While most guys don't want to be snowballed, they also aren't nearly as freaked out about their own semen as your guy seems to be. I'd say he's definitely the exception rather than the rule.

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  • It sounds like your boyfriend might either have a phobia induced by trauma (related to the semen/sexual content) in his life or might actually be suffering from OCD. This is not abnormal with Obsessive Compulsives.

  • guys dont like their own sperm in their own mouth.. that is gross... but i do like to see my sperms all over her boobs... i think he is reacting more. :O

  • I fucking hate sperm, both my own and that of other guys, so much that when I see a picture of a girl with sperm on her face or chest I gag, the thought of blowjobs makes me uncomfortable (having somebody else have that in their mouth, wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy) and I have to immediately clean up after masturbating or I dry heave a lot

  • Yep. I can relate. My bf is the same exact way

    • is there a reasoning behind is hate? or does he just not like it?

    • He just thinks it's gross. He's make such a big deal if a little lands on him but he thinks it's hot when it's on me. Go figure

    • Wow lol. That's just wrong. At least my boyfriend tries to clean me up quickly haha.

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