Do you think my boyfriend planned for his roommate to walk in on us having sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I woke up early this morning he walk into the living room and I heard him talking to his roommate. A few minutes later my boyfriend came back in the room and laid down with me he started kissing me and then we began having sex before he had to go to work. A few minutes into having sex I got on top of him facing his legs and feet leaning back with my hands on his chest riding him. Out of the corner of my eye I saw my boyfriend pick up his phone I thought maybe he was just going to take a picture of me and then he put his phone back down. About a minute later his roommate walked right in the bedroom door and saw me completely naked legs spread and everything on top of my boyfriend because I was facing the door. I was embarrassed I tried covering up but couldn't because my boyfriend was on top of the covers. His roommate said ''whoops I'm sorry'' and then shut the door. I asked my boyfriend why the hell would he just walk in the room without knocking and my boyfriend said I don't know he usually does knock. My boyfriend said when he came back in the room he forgot to lock the door. I was pretty embarrassed but still my boyfriend and I finished having sex. When my boyfriend was getting ready for work I picked up his phone to see the picture he took of me when I did I saw a text message to his roommate that just said ''ok'' and he sent that when we were having sex. There were no text before that one that's the only thing it said I started wondering if that was my boyfriend telling him to come in the room because maybe they talked about it earlier. Boyfriend has a little bit of history of trying to get me drunk and naked in front of his friend. I am a pretty busty girl and he's always trying to show my boobs off to his friends whether it be a small bikini or just me showing some major cleavage in front of them. Do you think my boyfriend had something to do with this or could it have really been just an accident? It seems very fishy to me.

[madhatters4]

"Boyfriend has a little bit of history of trying to get me drunk and naked in front of his friend. I am a pretty busty girl and he's always trying to show my boobs off to his friends whether it be a small bikini or just me showing some major cleavage in front of them."

I don't think you need much more of an answer. clearly it sounds like your bf saw a chance to let his friends check you out

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Sounds fishy...how long have you been with this boyfriend?

[Asker]

1 year

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Has he or the roommate done anything pervy up to this point? Something else that raised a flag?

[Asker]

There always picking on me in kind of a playful way I guess. There was a time about three weeks ago we were hanging out at the pool and we were all pretty drunk, I remember I was playing around trying to dunk them underwater in the pool when they both grabbed me and started tickling me. I was too drunk at the time to care or say anything but I do remember when they were tickling me their hands were continuously touching my boobs and my butt and I remember my boyfriend pulled my whole boob out of my bikini top in front of his roommate

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Well you have two choices here, as I see it. One is to confront your BF. If he was trying to let his roommate watch you have sex, do you think he'd admit it. Also, do you assume they're that 'un slick' as to have the roommate walk in knowing you'd stop him from watching immediately? It seems more logical to be sneakier so that the roommate could watch the whole thing if their goal was to see you naked together. Plus it sounds like you have no problem with your boyfriend taking digital pics of you...if they are the type they're already being shared. Or you can assume your boyfriend is being trustworthy based on your relationship with him and how well you think you know him. Assume the best but be more aware of things going forward.

[cazza3]

Its pretty obvious it was planned. No guy that has respect for you will arrange for his buddy to see you riding him nor will he try to get you drunk and naked in front of his friend.

[Betwyn]

He was def showing you off..

Who knows.. he might want it to go further then just a gander..

[LittlemissTourettes]

Why the hell are you with him? Have you asked him about it before?

[Asker]

It just happened this morning and he is at work have not had a chance to talk to him about it

[LittlemissTourettes]

Ask him about it. A man should respect a woman not show her off naked.

[ani123]

Yea I have a feeling he told his friend to come.. besides you said he has a history of showing you off to his friends so it seem kinda clear that thats what he tried to do.

[laceyylove23]

looks like he was tryna show you off. seems strange that his mate walks in after your boyfriend texted him

[ledfoot64]

this smells pretty fishy no pun intended

[Anonymous]

Yes. He wanted his roomate to see you.it sounds like he wants to show you off (which is not necessarily a good thing) maybe he wanted you to invite his roomate into the sex?