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Would u compliment a gf on her oral sex abilities because you like what she's does or just to encourage her to give you more oral sex in general?

My bf compliments me on my oral sex abilities.. but i'm a little confused... he's the only guy i have ever been with in any way.. so i'm not really sure what it means. He's been with other women before, but i never dated in my younger days.. I'm wondering if he just says it to encourage me to continue giving him oral sex in the future, or if he actually like it with me? I was always under the impression the a blow job was good as long as he could finish, or become more aroused. Since i haven't had other partners, i'm a little lost and confused.. i don't really know if he's just hinting at wanting more oral sex in general or if he's just simply saying i like what you do when we do fool around.. keep it up lol He doesn't give me compliments about sex in general though, but i'm still getting use to all of that - even with lube it hurts initially so we have to take it slow. Sex is still very new to me. So maybe he doesn't really care to have more sex, instead go back to just having oral sex longer and more frequently? Help me out guys!
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  • This is an interesting concern but i will try to answer it as best as possible. I assume your till pretty fresh to sex or you wouldn't ask your question. So why is oral appealing to him well that's simple because you can do things with your tung that you can't do with your vagina. Now he is complementing you on your oral for one of 3 reasons. Reason one could be because from what he has had in the past either from you or someone else. So your either better at oral than any one else he has had do it, or you have gotten better at doing it from the past to now. both are huge complements either way so be happy that he enjoys you. The second reason is that he dose want more oral because he really likes it that one is strait forward. The third reason is both the first and second reason combined witch is the more likely what it is than anything else. So here is some advice involve more oral in the whole sexual experience. In other words give him oral till a certain point then have vaginal sex that will give him the whole sexual experience, and you'll probably enjoy yourself to. Now i have a question dose he do anything special for you like oral or finger or anything or is it just strait sex on your part?

    • Also yes i would complement my girl if she gave me really good oral.

    • to be honest he's been very helpful to me. He has given me oral on occasion, but i just get too nervous to enjoy it (but i'm getting more comfortable with that as time is passing). He'll finger me while we are fooling around and i enjoy that a lot more because i don't feel like he's watching me, i'm distract kissing him etc. even when we have sex, he's told me that when i'm on top it may feel better for me if i start by just rocking back and forth or in circles while sitting on his penis rather than jumping straight into up and down. and it definitely does feel better for me, i enjoy that part more than the straight up and down.

    • good i'm happy that your being taken care of as well in such a positive way. okay now that i know more yeah he is definitely giving you a complement for getting so much better at oral than what you started off at.

  • I would say both. He's really enjoying and wants more of it! As far as sex, try introducing some toys like a vibrator (WeVibe Sync is a good couple one!). It will help loosen you up and turn you on and relax you. He should know to be easy with you until you get more comfortable and used to it. He should want to take his time with you and share your experience with you, but it sounds like he just wants to get off as fast as possible what you're describing? I would take some some nice smelling massage oils and relax you body and work down and massage your thighs and inner thighs and then your vagina and then you'll be ready for sex. Take sex slow and sensual so you both would enjoy it. But that's what I'd do if I were him. Not sure where his mind is?

Most Helpful Girls

  • if he likes your blowjobs and he's cumming when you give him blowjobs... id say he generally likes them... give them to him often as you can and see he continues to really like them... but i think he likes your blowjobs... i always got compliemented and after so many guys they all seemed to like my blowjobs the best or better than anything else... so your doing good in that respect.

  • A lot of men expect "intercourse" but believe that BJs are only something they get if "they've been a good boy." That could be the case here; he just wants you to know that he appreciates the favor. For serious questions about oral sex, I would suggest reading Jack's Blowjob Lessons - you'll learn a lot and enjoy it ever so much more!

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  • a blowjob is good if the guy finishes yes, but it can viewed as better based on other things done prior to completion

    as for your bf. it's really pretty hard to know whether or not it's just encouragement or actually saying your are great but I certainly wouldn't encourage a person not performing well so I think it's safe to say that you are good and he is complimenting your skills

  • You're probably good at it you naughty little girl. Most of the girls I have been with weren't that good and no I could not finish in their mouth. But this one girl could get me off no more than 5 minutes flat. The reason is I think think she really liked doing it.

    • he doesn't finish in my mouth.. not while i'm giving him a blow job.. thats why i don't get think he's giving me a real compliment. In porn, the men finish in their mouth.. he can only pre-cum in my mouth during.. but usual pulls out of my mouth and finishes with his hand... i don't see this being anything so great for him

    • but at the point that he's finishing with his hand.. it takes him just less than a minute.. usually within a few seconds he finishes... i'm just incredibly confused.

    • Well maybe he thinks you'll be mad if he cums in your mouth. It would be real sexy if you asked him.."will you cum in my mouth?" Also sometimes a guy needs a little more friction to get off. You could ask him to fuck your face which is hot and should make him cum in your mouth. Also are you using your hand at the same time. Is he's big enough for you to use your hand and mouth at the same time?

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  • its both cause he enjoys how you please him in bed and not to worry about it

    • i hope so lol

    • if he didn't he would not say nothing after me and my wife get done making love I tell her how great she is in bed and we been married 13 years this October

  • Thats the thing you don't have any experience just enjoy

  • I always compliment

  • I just shut up and enjoy the moment. I was never asked about their abilities and I never said nothing about it. Even some girls doesn't know how to do it...

  • It seems like you are a bit insecure about him. You know him better than we do, if he just goes after you because sex, well there's a problem. But if you actually have a nice relationship with him, then he's just flattering you, and therefore enjoying it.

    It seems to me at least, that is the second case, or a mix between he two, since he appears to be considerate when it comes to sex. No all of us are like that. Or maybe he just enjoy orals.

    Whatever the case is, talk to him about it, and try enjoying sex in general, is part of your life lol

    • I'm just a little insecure with sex because i don't have any experience and he does. The rest of our relationship i know he's happy with. We've been together for a almost 4 years now, but we only started having sex recently, before that it was just foreplay.

    • Yeah I know how that feels. But you need to free yourself a bit. Four years is long enough to now a person. He waited for having sex (because it doesn't seems like he doesn't like it lol). He's thinking about you. Don't restrain yourself, if you're happy as well. You'll get used to it tho. So basically, yeah, they sound like compliments

  • Both reasons actually. He likes what you can do, and he wants more, basically.

  • Generally, you compliment her because women are so desperately insecure about everything, you have to compliment her when she does something.

    • lol this is sexist

    • It's true though.

    • Maybe just women you've met. Everybody is different.

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