My boyfriend hates it when I squirt!!! So I've been holding back so I don't squirt any more... do all guys hate girls who squirt?

Is it weird that I squirt? Is it bad? I hate holdding back when he fingers me. I have to fake an orgasim cause I'm afraid if I actually cum that I'll squirt all over again :(
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  • Does he expect you to enjoy his cum?

    If he expects you to enjoy his glue but can't handle a clear, tasteless liquid, he might need a kick in the ass.

    I find that guys who understand sex enough to know that ejaculate isn't pee, are usually turned on by it.
    Most of the time it is the sexually stunted that think it's gross. Which would be fine, if he doesn't expect you to like his salty nut sauce. Which I doubt.

    I would tell him to stop being ignorant and if he insists on making you feel gross about your cum, you don't want to have anything to do with his.

  • You should be proud that you can do that, because a lot of girls can't and a lot of guys love it. Don't hold back, whatever happens, happens and if he has a problem with it he'll probably say something. If he DOES say something then I'd tell him either accept it or move on, because that's just the way you are and you should have to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it.

  • No, I was dating a dude (basically we were just fucking) and he had a total fetish for it, unfortunately, it's not a talent I possess. He was bummed lol

Most Helpful Guys

  • Tell him that squirting is something you cannot control and that if he does not let that happen then he is making it impossible for you to enjoy the things you do together. When you have had that conversation with him, give him two weeks to come around. If he still won't let you, then you should upgrade to a better man. Trust me, there are plenty of men who want to have a woman that squirts.

    The short (and crude) version of what I just said: girl, you've got gold in them panties; don't let it be fool's gold.

    • Thank you :$

  • You are a dream for millions let's make that billions :D of guys like me :D you guys just got the wrong combination with each other :D :(

    I really think if his choice is curtailing your basics, you guys really need a think over :) I'm sorry but a fact :)

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  • I would love it if my girlfriend squirted. It's not right that you should feel like you have to hold back during sex.It shouldn't be all about him. Tell him to put down a towel and man up.

    • It's not all about him... he wants me to cum. And he doesn't care about the mess. When I asked him he just said he didn't like it. We haven't had sex yet because of this... we've done pretty much everything else, but I'm afraid if we have sex I might squirting and he'll be unhappy with me again...

  • Most guys love it.

  • It's a natural thing and it's wrong of him to make you feel ashamed for doing so. You squirting is the same as him cumming so he should man up. And holding back/ faking orgasms is never good.

  • Your bf is defective.

    Squirting is awesome.

  • It is natural and most guys like it. Honestly, this is the way you are. If he does not like it then perhaps you two are not made for each other. You should NEVER have to feel bad about your orgasms and you should not have to hold back or fake them. If this bothers him, it is time to get a man who appreciates you and your sexuality.

  • Fuck him. Tell him to hold his cum in then. Let your juices flow, don't let him hold you back from your own pleasure.

  • This letter gotta be a fake. I don't think there is a guy on the planet who isn't turned on by a woman's squirting. Sometimes there is a tiny amount of urine in the squirt but I don't care if it's 50% urine, you can squirt in my face anytime.

  • You're under 18 TT-TT
    Your boyfriend won't be in your life in a few months. Don't do things you'll regret later.

  • haha that is so weird. i thought every guy loved it when a girl squirted! especially since it is rare to find girls who do it.

  • You need another guy in your life.

  • To tell you the truth, I don't really know what that means. XD Is it just an orgasm?

  • Hell no! I'd LOVE it!! You can squirt for me ANY TIME, darllin'!!

  • I love a girl that cums and squirts I will swallow it all up or lick it up

  • It's not good to have unhappy/unfulfilling sex (for either of you). You shouldn't have to hold back when orgasming. If he can't deal with it, then you should literally find someone else because that relationship will eventually die for you anyway.
    Not everyone is into squirting (I mean, you're basically peeing on them), but lots of people are at the same time. You can definitely find people who won't have a problem with it.

  • No. I would love to be with a girl who squirts on me during sex.

  • Tell him to stop cumming into your mouth =P
    That's the same thing

  • That is terrible! There guys out there... such as a myself who really would love to experience a squirter!

    I would have a talk with him about how your feeling.

  • Could u message me

  • no its not weird and some if not most guys like it when a girl squirts. some guys would be glad if they can make a girl orgasm like that, and u shouldn't be fake ur orgasm because its unfair to u

  • I love it when a girl squirts but that's just me and you need to talk to him about it. it sucks that you have to take an orgasm you should be able to let loose and feel amazing!

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