Girls, this question is for you regarding blowjobs and deep-throating. Please help!!

[Anonymous]

So, my girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years and and we have sex on a regular basis and she enjoys giving me blowjobs often. She wants to be able to deep-throat me though. Last time she tried (yesterday) she only made it a little further than halfway down my shaft and started gagging. I am asking the girls her because she asked me for tips, as I am the first guy she ever gave blowjobs to and she asked what she is doing wrong. I said nothing and that she was doing a great job. It does not matter to me whether or not she can deep-throat me, she always gives me amazing blowjobs and makes me cum. I feel like it is a pride thing though for her and she wants to impress me. Girls, women, ladies, do you have any tips for a girl who is trying to improve her deep-throating skill with her boyfriend/spouse. I cannot really give her first-hand advise on this. I am also not sure if penis size is a factor as well. I am 7.5 inches and good girth I guess. Please help and provide some detailed feedback and in a polite manor as I may have her read your answers to better understand any wisdom or guidance on the subject. Here is a little poll question as well, just out of my own curiosity...Thanks a lot girls!!! =) Girls, do you like or enjoy deep-throating your boyfriend, spouse, or significant other?

[Mikeyboyb]

I am about 7 inches and yes most girls take a little more then 1/2 of it and it feels great I prefer only about 3 inches just a little bit below the head that's were I am most sensitive throwing the hole cock down her throat is really just saying I can take it all you have a great girl enjoy the blow jobs how fast dose she make u cum is she a five minute and under girl lol

[GreatnessPersonified]

Tell her to breathe through her nose, and close her eyes. A dentist taught me that while doing x-rays. No wonder she was married.

[Anonymous]

This might be way TMI but I really wanted to learn how, but was too embarrassed to practice on a guy so i bought a dildo that was way bigger than anything I would ever stick in me, and practiced on that. I figured, if I could learn to deepthroat that monster, I could do it to any dude to whom it would be a concern. It was no pressure, and I finally figured it out. lol.

[Asker]

OK, so what helped you accomplish that? Any tips or strategies?

[Opinion Owner]

Why, are you trying to learn how to deepthroat?

[Asker]

Ummm, no.

[Opinion Owner]

I already gave my tip and strategy lol

[Mikeyboyb]

That's a good girl as u should when u have a stiff one the best thing to do is to show your Man U can swallow it no problem but just rember it's all in the head of the penis most sensitive

[Nobody770]

Hiw big was the dildo? 😳

[mrs-turner97]

When I do it I kinda get it real wet ease in to it then hold my breath and just shove it fast to get it past my reflex I don't know holding my breath helps and contracting my muscles in my throat to be as wide as it can get I can’t do it slow into it sometimes or I gag but if I do it fast and get down to the base I can do it.

[bradbradley]

wow ;)

[Rcjh1987]

Sex stores sell sprays or mints that numb the mouth I suggest spray don't think mints works as well... But always remember she just needs to breathe and relax and if it's too much then have her go further up or kinda recoup her breathing etc. and yes it's a huge pride thing I'm the same exact way

[johnmsk]

so hv u used spray and deepthroated?

[Rcjh1987]

Yes I have I actually bought mint spray from a passion parties consultant

[FulMetlJakit]

There are throat numbing sprays and mints available. Like Chloraseptic but usually utilizing benzocaine instead of phenol as the active ingredient. Also a wider variety of (better) flavors.

[FulMetlJakit]

Postscript: "...in a polite manor..." means "a well-mannered large house." Gramma' Nazi!

[Brittanymaexoxo]

Sex stores sell a numbing spray, you spray it in your throat so you won't gag! Just relax and take it slow until she is comfortable with it, but for you, don't thrust in her mouth because that will make her almost gag more!

[throwit]

I hear if you squeeze your left thumb in your left hand it stops the gag reflex. I've seen multiple people do it, but I'm way to nervous to try it myself, I have an extreme hatred/fear of puking.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

the 69 position is best and what ever you do , don't try the upsidedown trick its like worst view ever with high chances of throw up

[plain_table]

I gag/choke a lot, whenever I try to deep-throat on my boyfriend. He wants it.

So last time I tried to take deep breaths, and then calm myself down... relax and then try it... it's been working, but I can keep him there only for a few seconds and then I take it out of my mouth to swallow my own saliva.

I need practice. Still a beginner.

But I wanna try my best, and get better at it, for him.

[plain_table]

Oh, and I have ended up liking it, and want to try it more on him. Waiting for the next opportunity. :D In the beginning, I was scared... I was getting choked a lot... Could take in only a mouthful. I always used to imagine this metal rod thingy the doctor tried to put inside my throat, when I was younger.

[RebeccaSJ]

VEry much! And I'm very good at it.

[JennieF]

Yeah!

[Khulie]

she should relax and take it slow.
she should laying flat on the bed with you on your knees over her face. she should be the one incontrol. it takes practice though

[Anonymous]

I love it. I love when he moans and grabs my head. But it takes practice and a lot of saliva I mean a lot and I don’t think about what I’m doing I think about how it makes him feel and me feel. She’ll get there she just needs to get comfortable.

[Anonymous]

Guys have orgasms fine without is ramming their dicks down our throats. Why is it so necessary to do so?

[Asker]

No one is ramming anything down anyone's throat...

[Opinion Owner]

That's what deep throating is. Stick a cucumber down your throat and let me know how much you enjoy it.

[Asker]

Well, that is not the case here. Please re-read my post and try not to take it out of context. I am not ramming anything down my girlfriend's throat and I would not do anything to cause her harm or discomfort. But, thank you for posting none the less.

[Opinion Owner]

We just have to do so many things that are simply not enjoyable to keep guys happy. I get tired of it sometimes. I don't understand why guys get tired of sex so easily.

[Asker]

I think you are with the wrong guys, but at the same time it can be exciting to try or do new or different things.

[Opinion Owner]

Exciting for you, if the things you want to try hurt us!

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously, read this. We have to use numbing sprays to keep you guys happy. How much fun does they sound like to you?

[Asker]

I am not asking my girlfriend do do anything that will hurt her as I already stated and I also would not have her use anything to numb her throat. Calm down a bit, you are really taking things out of context and to the extreme.

[Opinion Owner]

You're asking this to give her tips despite her gagging while trying. You're going to "gently" encourage it and she'll do it because she will be afraid of losing you. This is how most of these painful sexual things guys love work. If you didn't want her to do it, you wouldn't have asked. You just want to be absolved of guilt for making her hurt.

[Opinion Owner]

Guys want to go things that are frankly unpleasant to us, but not feel bad about it. Having your cake and eating it too...

[Asker]

Whatever makes you feel better, you totally missed the question. LoL

[Opinion Owner]

You gagged her. She felt bad for not being able to do it. Instead of telling her it's ok that she can't, you're looking for ways to get her to keep doing it.

[Asker]

Wow, you are crazy...but nice try. lol

[Mikeyboyb]

I think it's very sexy for a girl to suck dick and look up while she is on her knees men luv girls that luv suckin dick