Tell me about sex with a cock ring?

[Anonymous]

I really want to try a cock ring out with my boyfriend, because I already have to use a vibrator during sex to get off, so why not go hands-free? What's your experience with using one? Guys does it make it harder to keep an erection? Girls did it work well or was it uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

I noticed that you mentioned that your boyfriend keeps losing his erections and that they aren't that hard. How old is he? Is he overly nervous?
Has he mentioned this to the Dr before? Has he ever had his testosterone levels tested? Is he overweight in any way?
It's best trying to find out the cause of this before assisting things with the use of toys, and masking the underlying problem.
If he was able to maintain a harder erection, it is likely that you would be able to more easily achieve orgasm, through g-spot stimulation.
If done correctly, it is very easy for three quarters of women to achieve orgasm through penetration.
I think you need to look at his underlying cause of loss of erections before considering anything else just yet.

[Asker]

Actually when I posted this question I was just wondering if people liked the vibrating rings, and I had absolutely no idea they were made to help men with erections. So I'm not looking to rings to cover up an issue. Now I'm interested in that though because I suspect he has some level of ED, but it's not a huge issue. He's 29, and it's been happening at least since I've been with him (he was 27 when we met). He's not overweight at all and we're both pretty active.

[Opinion Owner]

I definitely think it would be a good idea to see his Dr about it, and get his hormone levels checked still. The vibrating rings would be more likely to result in a clitoral orgasm than a vaginal orgasm, and believe me, vaginal is 10 times better than clitoral. Looking into treatment for his erection problems may help lead to experiencing vaginal orgasms. But I guess it would hurt to try the rings.

[Opinion Owner]

*wouldn't hurt*

[Asker]

Yeah, I know he'll eventually have to talk to his doc about it since I'm sure it will only get worse with age, but for now we're usually fine. I guess it gets a little annoying sometimes, and I wish he was super hard more often, but I'm still satisfied. I've only ever had clitoral orgasms and have kind of given up on the idea of a g-spot orgasm. I know a lot of women can't ever reach orgasm from penetration alone, and I've been with a much bigger guy and it made no difference. He didn't last very long though, so maybe if he had been able to I could have done it. Definitely worth exploring further if my bf likes cock rings or if he eventually gets help from a pill for his erections :P Thanks for your help :)

[Opinion Owner]

Size has nothing to do with it. It's all related to angle, and level as arousal. But being super hard does help. I am actually a virgin, (I'm saving sex for marriage), but have been fingered before, and experienced g-spot orgasms from just one finger alone, all because he pressed firmly, and did it at the right angle. And if course, did it for long enough, it took about ten - fifteen minutes. He also waited until I was fully aroused, starting off with lots of foreplay, touching and kissing me all over, then rubbing my clit. But he didn't start penetration until I was FULLY aroused. I appologise if this is TMI, but it is best to not start penetration until white vaginal secretion appears at the vaginal entrance, sometimes known as "female cum", and everything is engorged and swollen, when the area between the vaginal opening and the anus is swollen and puffy, that means the g-spot would also be swollen and ready. Don't start any penetration until these signs appear.

[Opinion Owner]

And those signs I've mentioned are more than just "being wet". Anyway, all the best, I hope you can get it sorted soon. :)

[Anonymous]

It makes him last longer. I actually am not a fan of it but if you've never tried it then gve it a try.

[knotme]

Its there to keep the erection and I'm assuming you want a vibrating one?

[knotme]

I couldn't tell it was there

[Asker]

Yes, I'm talking about the ones that vibrate. Have you ever used one and did you like it?

[knotme]

I never used the one that vibrates, sorry

[Dionysos]

They make the penis harder and longer (a bit) by restricting the flow of blood exiting the thing. A soft rubber one is safest because you know you can remove it. They also make them with small vibrator modules imbedded in them. Those ones can be a lot of fun.

[Asker]

I feel kind of dumb because I didn't even know that's what cock rings were for. My bf told me he didn't think he'd be able to stay hard with one on so I haven't pushed it. Do the vibrations feel good for you or too much?

[Dionysos]

The vibration is mainly for the girl because it makes his dick sort of into a vibrator and normally you wear it with the vibrating part right where her clit will be when you're all the way inside her. That way she can grind on you and get extra clitoral stimulation at the same time.

[ironeddie]

Here you go. Different types. Prices. Customer reviews.

https://www.amazon.com/b?ie=UTF8&node=1243852011

[Asker]

Thank you! :)

[bigrook]

So the cock ring is a great device. I prefer the cock loop - it has an adjustable clasp - so you slip it on when you're hard and then tighten the clasp to the desired level of grip you want.

The awesomeness of the cock loop is that yes you maintain an erection but without losing the sensitivity. The head of your cock swells up and stays that way. And the added benefit is that you're partner will often say that it feels like its someone else's cock. This isn't only because your cock is bigger with the loop since its completely engorged but also because the veins throughout your entire shaft bulge and pop out. Its the veins popping out that makes your partner think it someone else's cock. Also stroking your own cock with the loop on with all the veins popping out throughout your shaft is super fucking erotic.

Hope this helps you out!

[SüßeJäger]

They make me extremely hard. Im extremely hard anyway and they kinda scare me cuz it looks like its going to explode lol. Never used a vibrating one though and few regular ones.

[Asker]

lol that would scare me too I think. So do you use them often during sex? Does it hurt or anything?

[SüßeJäger]

It doesn't hurt and the orgasms are huge. They also make me have multiples more often. I have multiples quite a lot but with one of those, its almost every time. The only part that hurts sometimes is getting them off. Sometimes they pull the hair lol. I've only used them a few times but I would recommend them if that is his thing.

[Asker]

Awesome, thanks for your help :)

[SüßeJäger]

yep.

[Metal189]

ur having to use a vibrator during sex? yikes..

[Asker]

Yes, most women can't have an orgasm from just sex. Doesn't mean I don't like it, I just need help getting off.

[Metal189]

if u like your bf, you should be able to get off without it

[Metal189]

try more foreplay, and try relaxing more, before sex. if that doesn't get you off, find a new bf, you shouldn't have to use a vibrator during sex. thats VERY insulting

[Asker]

Are you serious? I'm guessing that's why you're single. You don't know much about the female body. I love my bf and have sex with him often, but that doesn't change my anatomy and the fact that penetration alone isn't stimulating enough to bring me to orgasm.

[Metal189]

i know plenty of womens anatomy. im single because i choose to be. you're probably an idiot anyway

[Asker]

I'm just trying to figure out why you would make a comment like that, especially since it has nothing to do with my question? Are you trying to make me feel bad about the fact that I can't cum from sex, or is it supposed to be an insult to my bf's performance? Because I've been with a larger and a smaller guy, and it make absolutely no difference. None of my friends can cum this way either. So if you think you've made a girl cum, she was probably just a good actress ;) Nice talking with you.

[ironeddie]

@ Metal189 - You've made some REALLY ignorant comments in this conversation.

[rUinSAYAN]

I didn't cum from sex either lol. I really need long

[doctorwhofan23]

I am pretty sure those are supposed to make him last longer and maintain an erection.

[Dallsimo]

Prepare to see your bf's dick harder then ever lol

[erock13]

Cock rings keep the erection longer and will make him last longer (ejaculation)

I wear them often even through out the day..
I wear a 2" for normal activities and a 2.25" during sex although I prefer not to wear one for sex cause for me it's not that comfortable

[Asker]

My boyfriend has kind of a problem staying hard. Like every time we have sex pretty much he has to take a break and get hard again, and usually his erection isn't that strong throughout. Would this help dramatically or do you think it would make no difference?

[erock13]

Yes you have to make sure you get the right size and start with a rubber one to be safe

[Asker]

Thanks for your help :)

[Anonymous]

Love them, but only the stretchy kind. The vibrating ones are awesome! I'm a little wary of using them too often, just once in a while, but they are fun. I also like the kind you can put your balls through.

I don't know if they really make much of a size difference but they definitely change the color lol.