Does penis size actually matter for a girl or is it just a myth?

[CPCTHOS]

Does penis size actually matter for a girl or is it just a myth?

[Anonymous]

I have a small dick, and honestly it's mostly a physical thing that the girls are really attracted to.

I have learned through much practice how to use my fingers, my tongue, how to not be intimidated by the use of toys to give her that "filled up" feeling.

For example, your girl's in the shower, no-one else is there, grab one of her dildos and ambush her in the shower, rub her clit, make out with her, lick her out and all that (take your time while doing it, let yourself do half the work, the other half being the setting and the pacing) and by the time she's going down to suck you off, she won't care about the size and when she wants you inside her (and I mean begging!), she's already an inch from climaxing, just stick it in and the mere feeling of you being inside her will make her reach that climax.

a lot of girls don't like small dicks, that's perfectly reasonable, but I think most girls would agree that even if you don't have a small dick, you can MORE than compensate with good finger work, tongue work and use of toys without being intimidated.

[Theguyoverthere]

Size can be important, but sometimes the woman;s reasoning is good, but sometimes it's bad.

Some women aren't actually in touch with their sexuality and can judge it on the surface. I've seen comments about laughing at it, mocking the size to their friends, and so on.

As for more legitimate issues, I was texting with this one married woman and she was talking about how they "share partners" and part of the reason she told me was because he was small and she actually saying it can't hit the G spot and it was affecting their sex life. At the same time, there are women who will say that a penis that is too big will hurt the whole time and they won't enjoy it.

[Red_Dragon]

Really? I've mostly seen comments of girls lying behind guys backs by saying it's fine. The married woman may be one of those ladies.

[Theguyoverthere]

Well I don't considering "sharing partners" in a marriage to be all that common so this situation seemed a little unique to me.

[Red_Dragon]

True true.

[Stacyzee]

A lot of girls will say it doesn't matter.
But the fact of it is, to some of us it does.

There are some women that don't want anything below a certain amount of inches.

Then there are those who don't care about the inches,
they care about the motion in the ocean.

The girls that do not want anything small or average.
Are the women that can't feel anything when they do have that size,
so that is why they prefer bigger.
Makes sense.
Why would a girl want something that doesn't give her sensation?

So, to answer your initial question.
No , it is not a myth.
It is truth for some but irrelevant to others.

[Red_Dragon]

Right, he could still find a girl like the one below this that can get off to a smaller penis. It's not a majority, but they are out there.

[Mylove1988]

Yes it deffinetly matters I mean I was just a in a relationship with a guy with a small penis, he was good at eating me , but he was also a quite bit larger in weight then me and would get on top of me and I just felt like he was smooshing me and couldn't really feel the penetration in my vagina. i love getting pounded. Lol.

[sorayaelena]

In a way it matters, but even if a guy has a large penis, doesn't necessarily mean he knows what to do with it. As long as you know how to really pleasure a girl with sexual intercourse, penial size shouldn't matter.

[Red_Dragon]

Not true. Biologically the bigger guy is going to please her better unless it's too big.

[sorayaelena]

it really doesn't. i've had sexual intercourse with a guy who had an abnormally smaller penis and he managed to get me to orgasm.. and for whatever reason, it takes A LOT to get me to orgasm.. it doesn't come that easy for me. i really do believe it's based on how a guy uses his penis and how experienced he is.

[Red_Dragon]

I didn't say a smaller guy couldn't get you off. I am saying that a bigger guy is going to be able to please you better. Then what I find funny is that people always think that the smaller guy knows how to use his and the bigger guy doesn't. What if the bigger guy knows how to use it too?

[sorayaelena]

then good for the bigger guy. if i had a preference then yes i would prefer a bigger guy that knew what he was doing. but we don't get to choose which guy has what penis size.. thats why im restraining from saying that size really matters because it shouldn't, and to be frank, it's unfair to judge a book by it's cover.

[Red_Dragon]

In terms of a relationship? It depends on what you want. If your not satisfied sexually or you may feel like your not satisfied enough then it does matter to you. Should it? Well there are many things that matter to girls that shouldn't. I would think if anything penis size and how well he uses it would be at the top of the list.

[sorayaelena]

Well i guess i'm one of those few that don't feel that it's a necessity.. and shouldn't you be grateful that there's a girl defending your gender and their penis sizing rather than a girl that's super judgmental about penial sizing like most? there's no point in you arguing this with me. i'm basically siding with your gender in this manner.

[Red_Dragon]

I'm not arguing with you. I am glad you don't care about penis size. If a small penis can get you off then good. If you want a guy with a small penis that's good. However, then I think about what some girls DO value more than penis size and I think it's illogical. Such as height. Height has nothing to do with pleasure or masculinity yet some girls hold it to such value. At least if a guy has a bigger penis he has a better chance of pleasing most girls better.

[sorayaelena]

thats definitely a fair argument because i do hold height as a value sometimes.. but it's easy for me to overlook things like that because my standards are already ridiculously high and i know i won't ever get any if i'm not more open minded and take into stereotypes of guys.

[Red_Dragon]

LOL!!! Smh. It makes no sense.

[sorayaelena]

it never will haha.

[Red_Dragon]

Just gotta separate the sandy from the deep oceans.

[sorayaelena]

haha exactly.

[cavmanier]

Red I'm guessing you're a short guy with a big penis and that's great. Sexual attraction can be more than just mechanical parts though. The brain is a huge factor and unfortunately people have physical and mental preferences. I mean would would want to be in a relationship with a girl with the tighest vagina if you felt no attraction to her body or mind? What makes sex pleasurable is far beyond figuring out on this website.

[sorayaelena]

Red is a girl haha. But I appreciate the back up!

[hippycowgirl]

It does matter to a point but in my opinion it's more about how it's used then size.

[katiesmuff]

No myth here! I want it big, fat and black!

[Red_Dragon]

Yikes!

[Stacyzee]

lmao at red

[Ninanda]

I think it doesn't have a huge importance, but some people would like it to be... big or small. it's about their fetishes. For me, I wouldn't mind any size, but a big penis looks a lot more kinky to me.

[Mgoods]

Yes. I don't like big penises, I don't know many women that do. Any thing over 7cm is overkill, really.
Way passed the G spot. I think girth is the more important factor.

[Red_Dragon]

Wait you don't like women who like big penises? That's like me saying I don't like men who like girls with big breasts. That's crazy. Actually girth is NOT important to some girls. To some girls length feels better than girth. It's case by case.

[Mgoods]

I don't think you read what I wrote correctly. I said I don't KNOW many women that like big penises; lengthwise. I'm more inclined to listen to the many women I've spoken to. For the most part, they'd rather have an average sized penis, with a larger girth, than a long, thin penis. Why? Because we much prefer our Gspots to be stimulated, than to have our cervixes fucked... that hurts.

[Red_Dragon]

Well some girls like feeling full. A guy with a lot of length can fill her up, and he doesn't have to hit the cervix. That can be avoided. Even at that some like when it touches the cervix a little. That's also case by case. Well yeah you got the Gspot but that's not what's really giving you please when it comes to girth because the long but low girth guy actually could probably stimulate that just as well as a big girth but small length guy. What's giving you pleasure is the clitoris. It actually is bigger than you think. The part you can't see is lined along the vagina opening. In other words a guy with a lot of girth stretches the vulva and inside of those walls are the legs of the clitoris. That's where the girth is giving you pleasure. Even still some girls don't like that as much as feeling full from a long but small girth guy. It again depends.

[Mgoods]

I agree with you for the most part. I still feel like girth does a lot more, than length- solely because of anatomy location. Girth will inevitably 'cause more pressure on the places, with the more concentrated nerve-bundles. Feeling full, due to length, is not as significant to me (or pleasurable) as direct stimulation and pressure, on my errogenous zones. To me, the former is like an idea of pleasure, while the latter is actual pleasure, that brings about a physiological reaction. That, I prefer.

[Red_Dragon]

It does a lot more for you, but for others it doesn't. Besides that a big guy can have length and girth. I don't know but it would seem like most big guys do have a lot of both. Well not exactly. The vagina itself can love to fill full. That can bring biological pleasure. It may not be that way for you but for some it is.

[Mgoods]

You're right, different strokes for different folks. My opinion is not absolute, I'm going on the general consensus of the women I've discussed this with. I don't dispute they can have both, I just mean girth matters more to me, than length. And to be honest, I would imagine being with someone who was overly lengthy, with a large girth would be a bit like giving birth, in reverse, on repeat :/ Lol, my vagina is not a separate, autonomous being.

[Red_Dragon]

Haaaaa.

[Red_Dragon]

Penis size does matter. The medical people & girls may lie to you but it matters. Biologically girls want a big penis.

[cavmanier]

I think most prefer average. I'm not sure what you consider big.

[Red_Dragon]

Most girls like average to big. Biologically their bodies like big. Huge? Probably not. Big? Yes.

[Red_Dragon]

Really they want big but they'll settle for average.

[cavmanier]

Not all want cervix bumping

[Red_Dragon]

I didn't say anything about cervix bumping.

[cavmanier]

It's fairly inevitable

[Red_Dragon]

No it's not. It depends on how far the vagina stretches length wise and how actually long the guy is. That varies from girl to girl and from guy to guy.

[Red_Dragon]

And if you do bump it some girls like it to touch some.

[cavmanier]

Yes but this is why MOST don't want a really long guy. If you're really big there are obviously certain girls seeking this though.

[Red_Dragon]

Most want a long guy with girth. I didn't say they want a huge guy.

[ixi10]

A small penis does not feel good but it's not a deal breaker

[1932ct]

sure it matters so does knowing how to use it

[Oddhonesty]

I'm use to 5-7in. so That's preference. Smaller I haven't tried and bigger ones are intimidating. I really prefer a medium thickness size probably doesn't matter much if it's kinda thick

[DodgersGM]

Yes, penis size matters to varying degrees to the vast majority of women. And no, it's not one of those things that dudes need to be massively self conscious over.

[CutestMommyEver]

It matters, but the right girl will love u anyway throughout your flaws.

[Original-nameNmbr1]

Course it matters, just like most guys prefer tighter vaginas.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

No penis size doesn't matter it's all myth average penis size is 4.5-5 inches length
i laugh when people say oh mine is this big, i hate to tell them it's the blood flow
that's giving it that appearance of size etc.

[Red_Dragon]

I know what your trying to say, but it does matter.

[AndyWes]

Yes, it matters for women. Most women don't have numb pussies or dull minds, lol.

[Red_Dragon]

LOL!!

[MyUsernameRules]

As long as you're not small, girls don't care much for it.

[heather970]

Yes it matters to me😳
It's really really matter 🙌😳
I'm not into small penis 😕

[Red_Dragon]

It matters to every girl. They are lying if they say it's not a factor.

[heather970]

I don't know about the others we're not the same 🌼💞

[Red_Dragon]

Biologically y'all are. Y'all have the same part between y'all's legs.

[heather970]

😕😕😕😕😕😕

[Red_Dragon]

I can't see it. All I see is a bunch of boxes with oif 615 in them.

[heather970]

Why? 😒

[Red_Dragon]

I don't know the emoticons aren't working or something. I can see the first three in your original opinion, but not the last ones.

[heather970]

Uh 😔 I doesn't matter :)

[Red_Dragon]

LOL!!!

[heather970]

I forget to say that i love big sizes 😂🌼

[Red_Dragon]

Uh huh. I knew you did.

[heather970]

How :O?

[Red_Dragon]

Because most girls do. You just admit it. Plus I think you've said it before.

[heather970]

Oh You're right 🙌🌼

[Red_Dragon]

Caught ya. 👮

[heather970]

Oh my god 😱 What?😱 I didn't do anything 😭

[Red_Dragon]

XD It's because I knew you had said you like bigger ones before.

[heather970]

It wasn't me :D 😂😂

[Red_Dragon]

Don't lie to me!!! LOL!!

[heather970]

Ok it's me 🌼😂 Don't tell anyone it's a secret 😉💖

[Red_Dragon]

Ok 👌 buddy. 😉 I prommise.

[heather970]

🌼😃 good 😃🌼

[SugarandSpicee]

6 is good enough. The vagina is 6 inches deep so you gotta be at least 6

[Red_Dragon]

Some vaginas are up to 9 inches deep.

[SugarandSpicee]

9 inches unaroused? That's freakin nasty

[Red_Dragon]

No aroused. I mean aroused. That's why if a guy is big foreplay is more important biologically because he has to make sure her vagina is aroused and gets the deepest it can get.

[SugarandSpicee]

Ohh ok Yea that makes sense then, 9 inch normal vag would be crazy lool

[NovemberJoseph]

It does matter. Girls lie when they say they don't care. They want a big dick, but wouldn't mind an average one. NO girl wants a small dick unless they're a super tight virgin.

[pseudomagic]

Dude you need to stop thinking you have a small penis and start thinking they have an overly large vagina.

[Red_Dragon]

If it makes him feel better that's a good way to look at it.

[pseudomagic]

Nope. If guys can have various sized penises then females can have various sized vaginas. I'm all about equal rights. Stigmas exist because you allow them to.

[pseudomagic]

It's not a way to look at something but an answer to the equation...

[Red_Dragon]

I'm about equal rights too. Bigger penises still biologically please females better. Now some girls maybe have to have a smaller guy for w/e reason by typically a bigger penis is going to do better.

[Red_Dragon]

Then question was does it matter and yes it does.

[Red_Dragon]

*The

[pseudomagic]

It's relative my friend. Dude if all you want to hear during sex is "ouch" or "too deep" then go get surgery. dont let the fraction of females here speak on the behalf of all women. If you find a chick and she says she's satisfied then leave it at that. or justvdont ask the chick you're with as you might get your feelings hurt.

[Red_Dragon]

I didn't say huge dicks. I said big ones. Even then some girls can handle huge ones and it doesn't hurt them. Some girls psychologically like that it has to capability to go "too deep". I'm going by my own observations. I know the girls on here can be shallow. Some on here care a lot about height when it RL I find they don't. Any girl I'm with more than likely will like mine.

[Rissie8239]

I like it when its like 7-8.5 thats perfect. But I've done bigger and smaller so I don't think it matters too much.

[genericname85]

it doesn´t matter as much as other things. as long as you are about average, its fine.