Guys, how to give a good blow job/hand job?

[cupcakeluv20]

i love giving my boyfriend head but i feel like im not that good at it since im new to oral sex and dont have much experience, i dont know what guys like and what feels good for guys so i dont know how fast i should go and what to do with my tongue and how long i should do it and all that stuff. Yes, i could just ask my boyfriend what he likes but i want to see if i can get some tips from you guys first that i can use on him before i ask. also im new to giving handjobs and would really appreciate tips and tricks for giving good hand jobs. i dont know what feels good for guys and it would be awesome to get some insight from you to try on my boyfriend.

[stevie123]

Every guy likes a little something different, so tailor your action to what he likes.
HJ=stroke it , don't yank on it. Use plenty of spit or lube. Rub your hand around the head then stroke him. Use two hands if needed. keep a wipe handy for cleanup. Listen to him moan or gasp, it will tell you when you got it right. Keep your hand moving the whole time, even when he is cumming.
BJ=More complicated. Again, keep it wet. Lick around the head a few times then glide your mouth over his cock. You can either suck it like you were sucking your thumb, or bob up and down on it, pacing yourself.
when you are going on the upstroke, suck on it. Keep moving. You can hold the base of his cock and move your hand along with your mouth bob up and down. Hold his balls with your other hand, GENTLY. No tugging, just holding or
light squeezing. Caress them. I like it when my girl licks up and down my shaft a few times then dives on my dick. When he cums, it feels good when the balls are held or gently squeezed. Keep sucking when he cums, you don't have to keep bobbing, but some tongue on the underside feels fantastic. You can swallow, or wait until he finishes throbbing and then spit as lady like as possible. It is good that you enjoy head, it makes it so much more pleasurable for both partners. Hope he returns the favor.

[joshuataylor92]

A handjob is a handjob there's really just no way to give a good handjob haha just grip it but not to hard and jerk it fast paced. For head though its all about movement. As your moving your head up and down rotate your head side to side. use your tongue on the head of his cock. And it always helps if you grip the bottom of his shaft and jerk it as you give head. It's all about rhythm. If you can get in the perfect rhythm orgasm is inevitable

[randomocity]

blow job uses mouth

handjob uses hand
As long as you remember these simple rules your bf will always think it feels amazing.

[Sex_Panther]

Stick your tongue out and let it slide on the underside of the penis while sucking as if creating a suction. The spend is relative to how quick you want him to react, the facter you move the fact it's over, and it will produce amazing sensations every time but also end the activity quickly. I don't know if you use your hands or not.

[Lilwill2420]

The sloppier the better. Don't be afraid to just let spit get everywhere. Twirl your tongue around his head a little but not the whole time. Try different speeds. As for hand jobs make sure to keep it slippery, use lube or your own spit. If it gets too dry it hurts

[Anonymous]

for hand job I reccomend watching him masturbate and than trying to do the same on him. also good communication between you and him will help you understand what he enjoys.