Why is their a trend for white women to lust after black men now?

[Anonymous]

What bothers me is the alarming and sudden spike in the "intensity" of desire white women are beginning to develop for black men. I think it has to do with multicultural advertising. If you show enough black men as powerful and white men as weak in the media, people will begin to act out what they see. Many times when you see white couples in public, they are very casual and quite calm. But when it comes to white woman black man couple, the girl is all over him, grabbing his croch in public. Or one time I was at the gym and I saw this white woman pretty much tell this black guy "you can have whatever you want," in a sexual tone for almost no reason. Just cuz they passed by and he asked to use the machine she was on. Which you would never see a white woman in the past act like that toward any guy. But now it seems since this multicultural agenda that is hell-bent on encouraging interracial relationships, and especially demeaning white men, that white women are developing a racist, and sexist, fetish for black men that needs to be recognized. Let me illustrate. If I acted out on my sexual preference for Latinas or Indian women in public at the same intensity as these white women have for black men, I would be called a misogynist, racist, not a single woman would respect me, itd be seen as sexual assault. But a white woman is pretty much encouraged to be as outspoken as she wants about her fetish for black men no matter how unapologetic. Not only that but its depicted throughout the media!! You know what it really comes down to? Its basically white women using their white privilege to exploit black men as sexual objects. They get off on the power trip that comes along with dating a black man, and has very little to do with physical attraction. How do I know this? Because relationships from different cultures follow different patterns and behaviors that are not universally seen as attractive. Therefore, this is only a fad.

[wolf-girl]

I agree with you in the subject of Multicultural propaganda and the Fact that They are "Advertising" race mixing and make it a kind of Value in the society, while I don't care about two black and white marrying each other in a natural situation, it's a choice made by them and no one has the right to avoid them or label them as anything but The problem is with the "Propaganda". this kind of propaganda is the same as White Superiority propaganda making all the whites avoid non-whites with making avoiding others a moral and value, and this one is doing the same but in the opposite way. if it all were natural, in a very natural situation the races mostly followed their Racial instincts or in cases ideal of beauty. in the end a true Anti-racist society is where there's "no" propaganda, no Motivation to any special activity between races, no special view to any sexuality or sexual activity or marriage, no right for any race to make themselves special because of their skin colour, or the lower place they had in the society years ago. a natural society that Choices are made by the individuals and families on their own ideals not on the ideals Advertised in the Media. and for this reason i know American government as a Multicultural-Racist system.

[Asker]

Thank you!!! Someone else who sees what I am talking about!!! I am so glad you posted!!! And I agree with you. It bothers me a lot because not a single woman has ever gone out of their way to make me feel sexy, or sexually objectified. But where I am from you see white women who GO after black/ethnic men, in public they way they behave around those men in recent years not only disgusts me but makes me feel ashamed. Like even my white guy friends who are very handsome do not get that type of attention I have seen white women give to black/ethnic men and its because people DO act out what they see and what has been normalized. Its seen as normal to deduce "exotic" races to sexual objects, and really its just testament to a white female's white privilege (as used by scholars to describe white males sexual dominance over ethnic women in the past) which it may still be taboo, but at least they can act on it without being labeled a sexist or racist as if it were a white guy

[MaskedSanity]

I lost it at "white women using their white privilege to exploit black men as sexual objects".

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[cavmanier]

Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha! MJ! Pimpin :p I just imagine that's his facial expression after he hears that white women want him lol

[Asker]

If you think that white women dont have privilege, then you need to educate yourself on privilege. Why is it that when in the past, people have referred to media where white men used their white privilege to exploit ethnic women as sex objects, but then when they depict the flipside in the media you find it so hard to believe? Its apparent, and many white men see it but dont know how to explain what they see in the media. Its called multicultural media, and ad agencies have set this agenda

[MaskedSanity]

So if I were to meet a black guy and we mutually decide to date, it's not because we like each other as people. It's because I decided to exercise my master race privilege. Gotcha.

[Asker]

Obviously, individual circumstances always blur the lines a bit. But overall, yes. When we talk about societal trends, we have to make generalizations, and we can agree that white women have a much easier time than black women at securing a relationship with a black man, and its socioeconomically motivated, via white privilege. Chris Rock even said, "If a white girl goes to a black club she KNOWS she will leave with a black man that night." But not a black woman. ANd you're telling me that has to do with individuals who happen to meet and date? Nah, there's more to it (white privilege) and the fact that feminists and people who study gender archetypes in media have used movies like Pocahontas and other movies, tv shows, commercials in the past as white men using their white privilege to exploit ethnic women as sex objects. But why are white women exempt from that?

[Asker]

Well if youve ever read the article by OKCupid, about how online dating is all about white privilege, then my claim to white women exploiting black men by white privilege holds up. When Asian women are the most preferred race among females, its just an observation, they go "Huh... is that so" but then when it shows that white men are most favored in online dating its all cuz of "white male privilege!!"

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Oh wow, you really spent a lot of time thinking about this..

[Asker]

Yes, I have taken a lot of courses in Gender Studies in which one of the classes we spent a lot of time talking about interracial relationships and hollywood depictions of racial fetishes.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

that actually sounds kinda interesting

[Asker]

Exactly, I am not one of the "angry white males" out there complaining. I am educated enough to articulate the trend that is written in policies of media and advertising agencies to encourage interracial relationships and multicultural people at the expense of white men. Because thats whats PC now days

[pr3ttybr0wn]

But why would they want to hurt white men? You guys are at the top of society's food chain. White guys run the media so why would the media put negative things out there about white men

[Asker]

White men do not run the media. Jewish men run the media. And now the demographics of this country have shifted. Where the minorities total more buying power than white men when combined. Add that to a multicultural media agenda, and you have an "anti white male" media campaign, because it is politically correct to demean a white man, because then its safer and unlikely to be labeled a racist or a sexist. And empowering minorities (which includes all women, even white women, which there are more women than men) will produce more economic growth for the market that exploits multicultural media and ads. My stance is not hateful, what I like to say is "Two wrongs dont make a right."

[DIRT-KING]

People tend to like things that are different. Its perfectly normal for two people of different races to find each other attractive and be excited to try something new. It has been this way since the beginning and has nothing to do with government propaganda or media influence.

[cavmanier]

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[Izzy2102]

Is that a thing now? I mean outside of p*rn?
I couldn't say I agree with any observations

[Asker]

Its not just in p*rn. Its in commercials, movies, mtv, and the target audience is the generation that is now between the ages of 10-24. In my neighborhood, when you see teenagers outside playing its usually white boys by themselves, and black boys hanging out with white girls.

[lumos]

This question gave me a headache...

[Chris011]

Lmao

[CommieDearest]

Why do you care? As for your other claims, can you cite those?

[Asker]

What claims do you want me to cite?

[MissConfused93]

Oh my god. Jump off a bridge.

[Asker]

Hey, I have been far more intellectual than most of the white men who post these types of comments. I've studied this subject through college courses and "multicultural media" is a documented agenda that is written in policies of advertising and entertainment agencies.

[ironwoman]

women can do whatever they want tbh, its not a fetish it's a preference.

[precious99]

I guess black guys are hot like that

[Mark-Ego-Almencion]

haha, this post called PnP style.
POLITICS AND PROPAGANDA.

Very bad, you're motives is not seeking for help but secrectly trying to influence people. High 5 for the effort though.

[Ravens5]

I think it started when there was still slavery in America. A white woman having sex with a black man was frowned apon, and I guess that feeling of doing something you shouldn't (no pun intended :) ) turns them on.

[Asker]

Right, everyone knows that. But 2 wrongs dont make a right. The past is the past, and exploiting history and racist attitudes to make money is unethical and offensive to everyone.

[Faraaah]

You seriously need to step out of whatever enclosed town you live in.

[Asker]

I actually live in one of the most populated cities in the US

[AllUsCityGirls]

why does it it honestly matter?

[Asker]

It matters because it shows how powerful the media and entertainment industries are at influencing how people behave, think, and feel. It can mold our attitudes collectively and herd us like sheep without even being aware of it. I want more people to be aware and conscious of trends like this, because its not the first time propaganda has been used to push an agenda (ahem, Nazi Germany) and I think its disgusting and racist to sexualize a person because of their race. Its demeaning and offensive to everyone

[AllUsCityGirls]

That's an opinion , and its yours... if that's what you believe preach...

[Asker]

Lol its not an opinion. Governments and corporations have been using the media to influence behavior all the time. I mean come on, its as simple as different networks that support Democrats and Republicans. there's 2 sides to every story, but when its documented and written and voted on and acted on, such as ad agency policies and laws like affirmative action? Its fact

[AllUsCityGirls]

Okay,,,, lol

[AllUsCityGirls]

Goodnight :)

[Anonymous]

Dating a black man is not a power trip for me. It's degrading.

Not all women think alike. Stop generalizing.

[Asker]

when we are talking about policies of huge ad agencies that have a global audience its hard not to generalize

[Opinion Owner]

Please be specific and post a link to the ad/ads.

[Asker]

I have to be a level 3 to post links. YouTube "Colored is better" Especially this one "Racist Italian Car Commercial. mp4" "The greatest condom commercial ever" "Staples Dell Ink Crazy Commercial" "DJ Hero 2 - Mix 2gether"

[Opinion Owner]

You would probably be a level 3 by now if you hadn't had your account deleted or ignored from posting too much of this idiocy. I remember now your posts, especially after having gone through your profile where every question or opinion is about how useless white men are and how white women lust after black men.. Do yourself and everyone on GAG a favor and go get a couple of counseling sessions before posting again. You obviously have a mental problem.

[Asker]

What shocks me is how apparent this is in society, which is supported by a multicultural agenda. Set by advertising agencies. With a global audience. I've given examples of commercials, and yet you still are denying that this trend exists. Also, I just made this account today and I've never had an account or posted anything on this site before today. But stay tuned for the next question because it will blow your mind. Confidence from a Buddhist perspective, is confidence really all that attractive? NO, ill explain why

[Opinion Owner]

Your speech and writing patterns give you away. Besides this posting www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1052100-women-how-attracted-are-you-to-white-men
is almost an exact duplicate of what was posted not too long ago under another account.

Seriously, get some counseling.

[Asker]

Counseling has nothing to do with this lol. When a feminist goes and writes about policies and the media that oppresses women (especially black women) do you tell her to get counseling? She probably does need counseling but for a completely different reason than you're projecting on me. Why won't you accept that these policies exist specifically to exploit people's fear and humiliation and getting rich off of it?

[Opinion Owner]

Whatever floats your boat, dude... just don't bother me anymore with your fantasies and problems.

[Asker]

You saying that is probably a good sign that I've gotten through to you somewhat. Farewell, I hope that you can keep your eyes open more to how race and gender are depicted in the media, and how they influence people

[Opinion Owner]

You haven't gotten nowhere. I just don't care about your crap.

[Opinion Owner]

*anywhere

[swagswagswag]

Dating a black man is degrading? How so.

[Asker]

Remember, I am talking about the "cultural narrative" but not compatible individuals

[Anonymous]

I don't agree, and I don't buy your argument. You're blowing things out of proportion to justify your feelings of resentment.

[Asker]

Wrong. Like I said, its not the fact that there are those couples out there. Its the intensity at which some women go after black men, and its also the multicultural media establishment that has this specific agenda. Watch commercials, and anytime they make a man look stupid that guy is going to be white. Any time the depict a man as sexy, he is usually ethnic. Like I said this is documented policy in ad agencies, this is from the top down and goes far greater than individual resentment. I have done the research and taken college coursework in which we examined this subject.

[Opinion Owner]

I work for a huge international ad firm and I assure you there is NO policy in our company that promotes what you are saying! I'd like you to post your so called research that proves your theory. I'm guessing though you'll have some excuse of why you can't or you won't reply because your argument is more a personal vendetta against some negative encounter you've experienced.

[Asker]

Before I post my sources, I would like you to post your experience working for an ad firm with regard to multiculturalism.

[Opinion Owner]

7 years with DDB Needham, multicultural focus groups... your source please? ;)

[Asker]

So what did you guys talk about? And when you decided to put up billboard a billboard of a black man standing behind a white woman with the caption, "OMG! INSIDER!" what do you think was their purpose for having such a suggestive advertisment?

[Asker]

I am going to look for my sources, its been a while since I took the course. Just give me time and Ill find you good ones.

[Asker]

Okay, you work for a huge international ad firm. So I would like to know certain things you discuss when deciding who to put in your ads. For example, I am big on pilates. I know mostly white women and upper class white men do pilates. I've spent $1000s on machine and equipment, training and classes. Yet, every pilates ad I see features a white woman with a black man. Or a black guy among all white women. I will bet you that there are far more white men spending money on pilates than black men. So what the hell is going on? Whats the purpose? Is it cuz they want to attract more women, and they assume black men are the most sexualized and attractive man to women? Or what?

[Anonymous]

Black men have been heavily fetishized by white for a very long time. This is nothing new.

[Asker]

Whats new is the system wide agenda set by ad agencies that are encouraging interracial dating, particularly the white female and black male relationship. They justify this by referring to the historical context, but 2 wrongs dont make a right I say

[Anonymous]

it's the media