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Is it good or bad when he pushes your head down during a bj?

I was giving my boyfriend a bj for the first time the other day. He seemed to be enjoying it. Then he started pushing my head down. Not rough or mean, but gently pushing it down further. I didn't mind, I thought it was kind of hot! I am wondering if he was pushing it down because he was just getting really into it, or because I wasn't doing a good job. Guys, why do you push a girls head down? All thoughts are appreciated!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • i do it for a number of reasons. If i suspect she is getting tired, I do it to encourage her to keep going. If I'm getting close to cumming, I do it to ensure it is deep in her mouth when it happens. If it's my first time with her, I do it to test my boundaries - to see how rough and deep she'll let me go (no one has let me go balls deep for more than a fraction of a second, though - and even that I had to kind-of surprise her).

  • It's sort of instinctive. I do it to get it in deeper, to show her how much I appreciate the job she's doing and to make her gag because it feels so good when her throat spasms on my cock.

Most Helpful Girls

  • That's happened to me before but he was too rough. My current boyfriend told me he used to do it for his ex so she could deep throat better. I'm sure you're fine

  • Its good you didn't mind him doing it and its enthusiasm. :)

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  • I guess you're a great girlfriend
    If he does it, he likes what you're doing, and wants it badder
    He can't get enough so a deep throat (of course) can get a greater sensation
    Good luck and wish you two the best!

  • He's beginning the fantasy part of it all. If he's not an uber jerk to you outside the bedroom, then he's getting into character.

  • IT's very good. We push it down because we're into it, and to get deeper in your mouth.

  • During oral sex, I'll push a girls head down if I'm really enjoying her oral efforts to continue the incredible feeling I'm experiencing from her. Sounds like you moved to the head of the class!

  • That means you did a great!! It felt soo good, he wanted to be deeper in your mouth! It also gives him more control! Overall all it means he's really into it

  • He was really getting into it. If a guy tries to go deeper either by thrusting or pushing your head down, you're doing a good job

  • simple answer, if you like it, it´s good, if you hate it, it´s bad and you have to tell him.

    i think it´s kind of douchy to do it but if it even turns you on, it´s fine then. it doesn´t mean you are bad, guys generally like to "go deeper" maybe it would be even hotter for him, if you did it on your own.

  • He shouldn't have to touch you at all.

  • I hate it but I never suck dick. Now pussy? MHM push push baby

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1V3XSHr_Yg

  • It should be considered hot. It just helps me feel in more control.

  • It means he's getting into it and wants you to go deeper

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