Does sex with the same person ever get... boring?

Say you've been with someone for a long period of time and yes you have slept together a number of times. Does sexual intercourse ever just lose its magic and you find yourself longing for something new or someone new? What do you do about that feeling if you do ever get it? I find my self asking this just because I'm quite obviously wondering if sex can become boring over time and what can you do to spice it up and bring the magic back?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I suppose it can. Not definitely though, a lot factors into it. First and foremost, how good is the sex in question? If I'm getting it the way I want, I don't think it would get old. If your S. O. is someone with a lot of "don'ts" that don't coincide with your own preferences, there's a higher likelihood. Sexual chemistry is very important to a relationship. If you're unwilling to do things that your partner wants to do, that will get old after a while and leave them unfulfilled. That's the kind of thing that gets old. If you have a good sexual relationship and it's getting old, it might be the person itself that's gotten old to you and is probably indicative of bigger problems in the relationship.

  • It can. When you are comfortable with each other, you tend to take the other person for granted and make it a wham-bam-thank you-ma'am all the time instead of the rarity.

    Both parties have to make an effort to make a change and do something different. Watching p*rn together, light bondage, and role playing, are all things couples do to try and make it different. If nothing else, take it slow and make an effort to take a good hour for sex. It should not take less than a episode of Dr. Who on Netflix.

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  • I've been with my friends with benefits for something like 3 years. It did get boring after about a year, after a while we split up for a bit, then got back together last year. Since then the sex has continued to be amazing. I think the keys are this:

    - Keep the rest of the relationship healthy
    - Don't stop flirting with each other
    - Keep communication open
    - Always be willing to try new things
    - Mix it up with different types of sex

  • I have this thing where I can't have sex with the same guy more than once. Okay, twice, if he's really good, but that's it. I hope I get over this soon.. I do want to get married and settle down someday!

    • I'm really hoping this comment was a bad joke because unless your using a whole bunch of protection you will most likely get an std from that shit and I feel like you have commitment issues. Should deal with that...

    • Don't worry! A lot of people go through that. It starts to pass as you figure out what you want. Once you know what you're looking for, and find people who fit that criteria, you'll be more inclined to stick around.

  • I've been with my SO for 7-8 months and its the only time I've been with someone where the sex has just gotten more and more amazing. Usually I think it does become routine.

    • That's amazing to hear! I hope things keep going uphill for you two. In your opinion if thing ever became routine what would you do to get out of the routine and spicy things up?

    • I'd definitely want to bring back the passion ;)

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  • I personally feel if the frequency is too high (like 5 times a week, etc) that it can. But other than that, I think it should be just fine. The reason I feel this way is because it gets very predictable and turns into an indulgence and you won't appreciate the moments anymore. This also depends on if you two have good chemistry or not. Many partners really don't do well together.

    But I am sure there are many couples who go at it like 2-3 days a day even and still seem to keep going.

  • The key is finding those things to keep it fresh. Giving a lot to keep your partner interested, that goes for both parties.
    I prefer long term. Getting to know someone so intimate and in no way others know. Learning each other so you two know perfectly how to please each other.
    It gets boring sometimes, at least as boring as sex can be, lol. It just reminds you its time to spice it up.

  • Sex does get boring. "Rejuvination" is based on mentality instead of actuality.

  • Umm... not really. I've been with my SO for seven years and we've not had a problem of it being boring. There have been times where we'd go like a week or two without sex but that's about it. It's never boring

  • Yap mostly for guys. It gets bored at a quicker rate. Dats what guys tend to cheat more. They wanna experience as much poosy as possible before settling down wif a wifey.

    • That really sucks man...

    • Do you believe that it is possible to find someone that just doesn't get boring and makes you feel like that's the only chick you want to be banging? What would she have to do to get someone like you tied down?

    • U can't really force sumone to luv only u and u. Also its a reason why they maturbate to pawno :3 Genuine guys who aren't cheaterz are perrty hard to find actually. Its based on luck if ur lucky but im not saying 70% will juz brk up. Im saying from my perspective view and how im as a man think but im not one of these jerks. Dont get meh wrong =P

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  • I had a fuck buddy for over 8 years -- and I kid you not, the sex was NEVER boring, it never got old, and was always good. No matter how many times she came or how much or how little time we had, we always enjoyed it and each other. She loved heels, so did I. Anytime she bought a new pair, or I bought her a new pair, we would "break them in".

  • NO but lf they not good in bed yes

  • Yes it does. Introduce some toys or outfits into it