What age did you lose your virginity? Any regrets?

What age did you lose your virginity? Do you regret anything about that experience? I am a virgin and am thinking about having sex with my boyfriend who had let me know he really really wants to do it and I want to as well but I'm afraid that once I lose it, it's gone. He thinks I'm putting being a virgin on a pedestal and for him sex is a rush. In fact on our first date, it almost happened but I said I wasn't ready and he was respectful and just finished himself off. I don't think I'm putting being a virgin on a pedestal but it is important to me and will not just give it to any guy, he has to be special. I am 22 by the way and I do have a sex drive but also a sane mind. So what was your experience like?
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  • Well i was 10 she was 15 do i regret it no. It was a beautiful moment and I don't regret having lost it because i lost it to someone at the time that i cared for deeply and she cared for me. Honestly it comes down to one question do you care for him enough to want him to be your first because odds are you will have others latter in life. Remember its about finding someone you care for or love and knowing that they care for you or love you because the memory is something you'll hold on to no matter what. Its about having that memory of something special so if you feel that your comfortable with him being that person then go for it just remember it's your choice and your body.

    • 10? Could you even get it up at that age?

    • yes I could i had hit puberty that same year and i had already known her as my neighbor growing up so it was kind of bound to happen.

  • I was 15, and it was to the smooth vocal stylings of R. Kelly. Yes, i lost it to Bump N' Grind like any self-respecting 90s teenager. I think some Jodeci may have come on after, but by then i was into it and the memory is hazy, haha. No regrets, other than, at that time, i regretted that it wasn't with Jenny McCarthy. Oh man... Jenny in her prime. I wish they had reruns of Singled Out.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I feel like if you guys were close to having sex the first time, then it's hard to tell if he really genuinely wants a relationship or if he's trying to finish what was started. How long have you guys been together? It's good to be smart about sex, it saves a lot of pain if you're unsure about someone. If you feel like that's all he wants and you don't want the same thing, dump him. Not worth either of your guys' time if you're both not getting what you want.

  • I was 19 and I'm still with him, so no regrets

    How long have you been with your boyfriend? If you're so unsure about it, I think you should wait. It's not about putting virginity on a pedestal, it's about seeing sex as something intimate and important to you. And you don't want to rush into it. I waited almost half a year with my boyfriend and I don't regret waiting that long although in the last month or so I really really wanted it too.

  • Your 22 and still a virgin? God bless you lol. I was 15. My virginity was stolen from me. I didn't have a choice. I wanted to stay a virgin until marriage. I get that your body wants it but don't lose it unless your in love. Let it be special. Your first is something you'll never forget so choose wisely. Good luck !

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  • I lost it at 14 to my then boyfriend. We were each others first. I don't regret that it was with him because despite our history, it was the right thing to happen. I wouldn't have wanted my first to have been with anyone else. I DO regret how young I was.

  • I was 16 at the time. Even though it was a one time thing, I can't say I regret it.

  • I was 21. No, no regrets. It was a good experience and I'm still with him.

  • At age 20. No regrets at all. It would have been nice to lose it with my bf, but he was 2 years too late

  • 20. Or 21. I can remember.

    If living over again I would try harder to have sex sooner.

  • -_- i was 14
    she was 42

    in no way was i proud of it... it was creepy now that i think about it... and that woman was out of her mind (pretty yes) but out of her mind. Yes it played out the whole cougar thing for about a year and a half... but i didn't know any girl my own age at that time. When she left... i wasn't very good with intimate moments with other women... i just thought lets do this!!!

    doesn't bother me anymore ^_^ but i would not encourage any guy to wish for that

  • I was 18. I don't regret the age, though I do confess the girl was my second choice. I suppose if I could, I would have tried for my first choice a little harder.

  • I was 17. It was with the girl I dated at the time who was not a virgin. If I could do it over now, I wouldn't have done it with her. Id have waited

  • 22 only regret is to accept something less from a relationship because she was my female fatale

  • 17 years old. No, I don't regret it because I'd known the girl practically all of my life and had strong feeling for her.

  • I was 16. I was with somebody my age from my school in her car, with a 6 pack of beer. We drove down to the lake. I was so excited and wound up that after I went inside her I lasted about 3 seconds before I came. But I wasn't a virgin anymore, and I was glad. Never had any kind of identity crisis over not being a virgin anymore. I never put it up on a pedestal.

  • 1. I reget it being with the wrong guy.

  • Hell if I know. I was a little. kid. Horny babysitters... What do you do? Do I regret it? Not sure... I guess not, just would have been nice to know what the hell was going on, I guess.

  • I'm twenty-one years' old and still a virgin. The only thing I regret right now is acdcidently buying chocolate cookiesinstead of raisons. *face palm*

  • 16 and no regrets. And four years later I am still very much in love with the same guy. Just be safe.:)

    • That awesome

    • *thats

  • I was 14 & it was forced against my will.

  • I think doing it a bit earlier would get me a bit further in eyperience and maybe I will find my problem a bit earlier. A lot of things fail cause I keep things moving but don't try hard enough. as I tried harder I got laid in short period of time.

  • 18. None.

  • 19. I've got no regrets.

  • I was 25. No regrets. I'm well beyond that.

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