So, my new guy and I get pretty hot and heavy and touch each while making out, but whenever I go to touch his penis (over AND under the clothes) he kind of pushes my hands away. I thought I was just imagining things at first, but now I'm sure of it. We've gone so far as oral and that has gone very well, but I'm confused. Even leading up to a BJ the other day I was kissing his neck and reaching to touch it but he stopped me and said "I want your mouth to be the first thing that touches it". I obviously touched it with my hands later during the BJ and that was fine, but what's with the initial resistance to touching during making out or touching it before my mouth goes onto it? It's not like I ever hurt him before with my hands... What does this mean?