Strange to approach my friend about no strings attached blow jobs?

[Anonymous]

Alright, long story short: I'd like to give my guy friend a blow job. Longer version: I am almost 30 years old and I haven't had any sexual relationships in a while. I'm also not very interested in dating and I never really have been. However, recently blow jobs have been playing a major part in my sexual fantasies. I have a close guy friend who I've known for about two years. I know that he is not interested in me sexually, and I'm completely fine with that. We are pretty close and we comfortably discuss sex on a regular basis. Basically, I'd like to offer him a friendly blow job. I'm not worried about being labeled a "slut" because I'm an adult and I know that slut shaming is bullshit. The only thing I'm worried about is making him feel uncomfortable. I'm sure we'll be slightly tipsy when the topic arises, but I'm still a bit nervous about it. I know that I'll be fine if he says yes or no, I just don't want him to avoid me after. I consider him a life long friend. Should I control my impulses or throw caution to the wind?

[sockz]

Maybe test the waters by approaching the subject in very broad and hypothetical way first; this way you can easily back out of with "omg I wasn't serious!" if the reaction isn't one you were expecting. If you go through with it, make sure you keep the atmosphere happy and lighthearted. Be able to laugh about any awkward moments if they arise.

If you're concerned that maybe this would affect your friendship, then maybe approach a different friend; one who you can still trust, but isn't as close.

Aside from these considerations, yeah I think you should act on these fantasies! The only way you're gonna make those dreams come true is by taking the first step.

Good luck!

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't personally take the risk with a friend, it might be hard afterwards if he turns down the offer. I would rather find someone new to give blog jobs to. Probably online, since that is the easiest way to find "no strings attached" company. I don't mean that the new guy needs to be some random one night stand... but just someone new. A new friend. Someone who wouldn't judge like an old friend might.

[Realistic07]

Honestly as long as I'm not with anyone and haven't made plans to be with anyone it would be okay with me. the real way to approach him with this is to make your friendship clear before you state anything about a blow job. make sure he understands that you want to keep him as a friend but you would like to preform oral on him. also be prepared for the question of if its just oral and also be prepared for him to ask if you want anything in return like oral or fingering or anything. beyond that you shouldn't feel nervous like you said your an adult so just do your thing and i wish you luck in your sexual exploits.

[madhatters4]

i think you should consider controlling your issues for two reasons
1) you said he's not interested in you sexually
2) you are worried about weirding him out or potentially ruining the friendship or something

now I think most guys would probably accept a free nsa bj, and I think a friend offering would be very tempting but for me at least I would probably say no because a) I'm not attracted to them sexually and b) and most important I don't want things to be awkward

[summiter]

Does the guy have a current gf? Is he sexually active? Anyway if he is single, I don't know how he could turn down a blowjob! I wish I were him!

[zeer12]

You should go for it! Start being a little flirty when you're alone with him and tell him what you want.

[jmmmfi]

I don't see how any guy could turn that down

[Anonymous]

Some guys are really lucky : (