Should I feel flattered by his boner?

A guy and I have been flirting for years and there is obviously some chemistry and sexual tension there. The first time we finally kissed he was hard. Like completely hard. Should I be flattered or was he most likely just thinking of fking me.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's pretty normal, especially if it's the first kiss, for the guy to have that sort of physical reaction. Something not all girls realize is that the boner is on an almost total disconnect from the conscious brain--it doesn't listen to what we tell it, just what our senses tell it. And his senses were telling it that you're a gorgeous gal. :D

    • He was my first kiss so I was pretty shocked at how hard he was. Never felt a boner before hahaha. And to have one pressed against me was kind of surprising haha.

  • If he's attracted to you, chances are he's already thought of having sex with you. i would say he most likely thought of it while you kissed and he got his boner. I think you should be flattered cause it means he thinks you are very attractive

    • Yeah apparently he has. And he has dreamt of us having sex several times before

Most Helpful Girls

  • listen hun. knowing that ur sexuality has an effect on a mans bodily functions is pretty awesome haha. i feel so evil but when it happens, i receive this great sense of power:P
    so yes, b flattered. who cares what he's thinking? u caused it;)

  • I think you should start worrying if he doesn't think of fucking you. You should be flattered of course. You like him too so it wasn't creepy random guy's boner, it was your guy's boner.

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  • You need to understand that a guy can get an erection from romantic feelings that aren't necessarily sexual. And then add the fact that you guys were kissing, it's no surprise he got hard. It just happens; it's not something he controls.

  • Be flattered that he finds u physically arousing. :)

  • He was absolutely very excited by you. Absolutely he was thinking about fucking you so , yes you should be flattered and yes he was thinking about fucking you. I think you should be flattered no matter what. Then again I used to get a hard on at that age if a girl stood real close to me. But she had to be half decent.

  • A guy can get hard for many reasons. Hell I can get hard just walking through the grocery store lol. With that said, he could've been hard for any reason. More than likely the reason was you turned him on by making out. A hot make out session can make a guy hard without having to think about fucking.

  • contrary to the popular opinion, the brain of a guy is not in his penis.
    kissing is exciting and arousing and if arousal occurs, the guy gets hard :D it´s allmost mechanic and has nothing to do with "only thinking about fucking". you should feel flattered and i don´t think there is something wrong about thinking of having sex with anybody...

  • I think you should feel flattered! Basically his body is telling you that you turn him on.

    P. S. Most heterosexual men, at any given time are usually thinking about sex. It's how we are made.

  • Is he hot? Then yes.

  • he probably wants to fuck you
    that's what normal guys want
    they just wanna fuck every bitchy gurl they see

    oh shit*

    • You are a smart girl. :)

    • But it was still irrelevant :)