Why does my boyfriend get horny/erect very easily?

My boyfriend is 14 and he gets really horny/erect by very common things we do like hugging, kissing him on the cheek, holding hands, or putting his arm around me. We've been doing things like that for about 7 months, I know he masturbates daily, and I know since he's a teenager he is very hormonal just like I am, but I think he should be use to it by now. Can anyone explain why he gets so horny/erect that easy?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Because he's a normal, 14-year-old boy.

    Girls don't really realize what it's like, but guys hit puberty around 12-13 (typically), and the testosterone starts flowing, and suddenly he is constantly horny and can't control the monster in his jeans, which seems to have a mind of it's own (and a one-track mind at that). As guys get older, their urges and drive doesn't change, but their CONTROL over themselves improves a lot, and these kinds of things aren't such an issue. At 14, he's still learning control.

    There have been a number of threads here over the years from women who, for various reasons, have been put on small doses of testosterone by their doctors, and almost universally, they report being ultra-horny and wanting to hump every guy they see, along with inanimate objects too! And they all say the same thing: I had NO IDEA just how intense things can be, and have a totally different understanding of why guys act the way they do. Testosterone is THAT powerful.

  • A lot of guys do. It's partly because we're visual, at to that the physical contact and yeah, it's going to happen. And in your case, he's 14 so already really horny likely. I've never not been next to my girlfriend and not got horny... at least at some point and we don't even have to be doing anything sexual.

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's probably just him going through puberty. Once he's gone through that and gotten older it should be easier to control, but right now I think he's at that age where he can't help it.

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  • Hormones. When I was that age, I got erections all the time. In the morning when I woke up, in the shower when the water ran across my cock, in the classroom when I clacked my knees together because I needed to pee, etc., etc. I could masturbate three times in a row and still get frequent erections afterward.

  • HAHA sorry... I remember when I was 14, I used to get erections in the middle of class for no reason whatsoever.
    Boys up until the age of 18 get aroused by a light breeze... so don't stress. Watch the song "jizz in my pants"

  • Because he's 14

  • You don't get used to being horny. If a girl excites you, you get horny.
    Just be glad that he finds you sexy.

  • Because that is how sexual arousal works. You should be glad that you turn him on like that. Make sure you make him wear a condom later.

  • His hormones are raging he is age 14 that's why he gets turned on and horny
    he is attracted to you that's why he does that around you , guys can't help or
    stop the penis from getting hard it happens all due to hormones and yes he
    has to masturbate to relieve all the horny feelings all normal.

  • Because he's a 14 yo boy: " I know since he's a teenager he is very hormonal just like I am"

    And no, it doesn't get over that fast.

  • Because a young body is designed to.

  • its really normal for him. cuz he is 14 just.

  • im 17 and i have the same problem

  • Because he's a healthy male.

    Subsides a bit when you get older, but not by all that much. I'm close to 40 and still get like that a lot round my wife even from things like hugging or kissing. And either masturbate or have sex basically daily.

  • Because he is 14!!!

    When he is older, he will have a bit more control.

    • Control of his hands, yes. A penis doesn't obey.

    • Haha. Well yes, you know what I mean.