Girls, how can you tell if you have a tight pussy? (Without being told from your partner)?

Okay, so, awkward question, but the title says it all. How can you tell if your vagina is tight or not without being told by your partner? I read somewhere that you can do "the finger test," where if you can fit two fingers, you're average, three fingers, you're loose, and one, you're (really) tight. Is that true? I can fit two fingers kind of, it hurts a bit, but I'm also a virgin and it could partially be my finger nails' fault for the pain. The reason I'm asking is because I'm terrified of not feeling good to the guy I'll eventually lose my virginity to (whomever he may be), and idk, I guess by having an idea of what I might feel like just mentally prepares me for what reaction to expect? I can't really explain it. I just want to know if I'm tight or not ^^;
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  • Tbh when you're a virgin you're automatically tight because your vagina hasn't loosened enough for comfortable sex. Tightness only comes into play when you've had sex before and your worried if it's still tight. Trust me it's gonna feel good for him but fair warning it's gonna hurt for you trust me I know. Make sure you first time your partner understands how sensitive and delicate that part of your body is.

  • Tampons are a good way to test. But if you want to tighten it, KBo93 is correct. You know how when you really have to pee, but you need to hold it, and you can kinda feel a muscle up in there flex? Well, that's the one ;)

  • If you are a virgin you are. most like. gonna be tight as there's. never been anything stretching it.

  • Study your kegal muscles & how they work. That's all I can say.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You're a virgin so believe me ur not gonna be a problem for him at all. You shouldn't have to worry for at least a couple years. Unless u sleep with a bunch of huge dudes a lot

  • Some pussy can be very tight and very wet. Which is a turn on. I'm sure whoever is lucky enough to be inside of you is very pleased

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  • I would love to get your pussy!

  • i don't really think there is a way

  • Lol I can't even get one finger comfortably in. Whomever I lose my virginity to will put me in a wheelchair. But girl, you're good. I don't think a vagina can be naturally loose if you're a virgin.

  • sweet person, that test was made up by bad perverted guys, when you find your special someone that will not matter to him unless he is a shallow jerk

  • If you can't fit your whole fist in it, you are tight

  • Don't worry about it. You can always squeeze your muscles to add a bit more to him ;). My guy loves that esp at random intervals. Sex hurts the first time for people who are really tight… :(

  • hahah sounds like it

    • Sounds like what? O. o

    • like you're tight lol and you're a virgin, so you're tighter right now anyways

    • Oh, okay I get you now lol. ... Maybe I'm just having Mean Girls flashbacks, but isn't it possible to naturally have a loose vagina? Or one that's "wide set" even if you're a virgin?

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