I get turned on when guys stare at me, Why?

[Anonymous]

I was in the pool and saw some guys staring at me, then another one staring straight to my face everytime i swim, another one staring at me again while im chilling... why were they staring like that, not only my body also locking eyes with me. why i got turned on, first guys were not even pretty as for me, but after i was like... what the hell is wrong with me. Im Not horny now or anything similar, i'm confused about myself today xD

[Red_Arrow]

I find it hard to believe you are over 25 and do not understand this. Not being snide, just not understanding how you don't understand this.

Guys will stare at girls they find attractive. That may be facially attractive, sexually attractive, all over attractive, whatever. When you see them stare at you, something inside knows that they are interested in you (even if your brain doesn't seem to get it). Knowing they are interested in you, if they are appealing then you will start to get aroused. Regardless of whether yo think you want sex now, when this happened you got horny, like you said. Regardless of whether you think you are horny now, when you get turned on, you are horny.

I don't know when you have had sex or how often, etc. But if you are not against sexual contact, then you should probably follow up when you get aroused. Smile at a guy that is staring that you find appealing. See what happens.

Gals your age are at their sexual peak and you sound like you are doing nothing now. I think your body is telling you that you need to get laid. Listen to your body.

[Asker]

Im here to ask things i wouldn't ask to my friends so chill, my libido is really late and im clueless about simple things about sex and guys, dont judge me :)

[rUinSAYAN]

don't chill this guy is completely right I think

[Asker]

Do guys stare always if they want smth from girl?

[Red_Arrow]

You said you were turned on then said you are not horny now. If you do mean "now" then of course you are not horny now. The event has passed. But you were horny then. If you are saying that you were turned on then but were not horny, I don't understand since they are the same. We do not mind answering your questions, even if it seems they are about "simple things". Everybody has to start somewhere. But you can tell by the conversations on here, that even teen girls understand the attraction of guys staring and the gal getting horny, so it is hard to understand a woman your age not being caught up to that. Not judging, just hard to get on board with. I will do my best to not make you uncomfortable. If it will help, you can count me as one you can message and I will answer anything I can and not embarrass you. Do you understand the attraction thing and your appreciation of their interest and how it aroused you? If anything needs clarification, ask.

[Red_Arrow]

Just got your last entry. No, some guys will stare, some might want to stare but do not want to make the gal uncomfortable. Some may stare just to enjoy the looks without wanting to go for something more. But many will stare because they have an interest in more. Perhaps sex, perhaps just conversation. A smile from you would make them more comfortable talking to you. Not all will, but some will.

[Asker]

Yes thanks. what if guy keeps staring the lasr 3 years? without really approaching. is he doing. it for joy or he has intensions but smth holding him back

[Red_Arrow]

No way I can tell is intentions, but it is obvious he is interested in looking at you. You must be quite nice looking. Just smile when you see him looking, and he should get up the nerve to approach you (or he is just into staring).

[Asker]

Im reserved many think im stuck up. probably this. but the guy is concident with other girls he's cocky but not with me, with me sometimes he looks intimidated but just can't help it and stares, makes eye contact and stands near by so i can see him. things like that, during all these years.

[Red_Arrow]

Strikes me as strange. If I found a girl that interesting I would not be staring for years. I would approach her and talk with her. My interest of years would override any fears about her being stuck up. Maybe you should go talk to him. Even if you are reserved, after years of him staring you should approach him and find out if it is good staring or strange staring.

[trentbent]

Just smoke some weed before you go to the pool, you won't even notice them. Or maybe it'll make you paranoid. Or maybe you should go to a different pool. Or maybe you should go around and interview them about why they do that and then tell them after the interview actually it turns you on and what do they think about that?

[basketballchick]

you probably get turned on because when a guy stares at you it makes you feel cherished in some way i know that if a guy looks at me i tend to feel as if they think im attractive therefore its a turn on to think that guys think that, if that makes any sense at all.

[Anonymous]

I guess knowing someone's attracted to you is a turn-on. But for me, that's only if I'm attracted to them too.. so if you weren't, I don't know what to tell you haha

[Asker]

But it was the first time i saw them:/ so you think when we see someone is attracted to us we geg t turned on? that's weird

[Opinion Owner]

Again, for me it's only if I also find them attractive. So yeah if a cute guy is giving me attention, I would get excited because even though you're strangers, there's that potential for something happening between you.

[irishelen]

maybe they find you hot, who knows... we all get turned on when guys have eye contact ;-)

[averagemehlookingguy]

model looking guys have eye contact you mean

[Asker]

Why model looking guys? thn you mean in guy's case model looking girls am i right?

[UPENDRA123]

You may not be horny but you can turn horny. The boys are indicating you that they are pretty interested in you. They want to HAVE... . and your body also needs thats why you are getting turned on.

[Asker]

Wait wait they need to have what? i dont get how my body can get horny

[UPENDRA123]

Ifeel you understand what i meant so no need to answer your first query. As far as second query is concerned i would definitely like to answer. Sometime we see a food and our tounge is filled with water. It is not greed but it is our assumption how tasty that food would be. Similar case is with body. We are attracted towards the thing we want.

[Asker]

So like you mean they want me or? like im sexually attractive to them?

[UPENDRA123]

Absolutely correct. they are interested in you not for love but for sex with you.

[Asker]

Interesting and how do you know if they jf they want sex or smth more seripus? you as a guy what signs should girl notice?

[UPENDRA123]

As a psycology expert i will tell you. 1---they saw you near swimming pool... normally gyus come there to satify their eyes and penis if possible... 2----If an unknown guy or guys stare at you home ir near it , it means they are keeping an eye on you and the intention is stealing including sex. 3----If guys stare you at or near bar it means they are coward , they want to have sex but when you are too much drunk so that u may not retaliate.

[Asker]

Thanks, and the guy who stares and lock eyes is the one from a faculty and does on regular basis during couple of years?

[UPENDRA123]

I dont think there is any problem in enjoying eyesex as it dose not harm anybody. Rest all is on you that what you decide... swim well

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Same thing happened to me with a girl turned me on and made me extremely horny

[Skilled1]

How complex can this be?

[Nuns_in_Heat]

Hmmm, interesting. And here I thought staring makes most girls just say in their head "Dam, you want to take a picture or something?"

[johnmsk]

when is the last time you had got physical with a guy, had sex?
Maybe your body is craving for such an interaction and so staring - which means the guys find you really attractive - turn you on. You subconsciously is thinking i can get sexual fulfilment which you so much need from these guys.

[Asker]

But i dont feel horny, i dont want sex right now. thats why its confusing you know

[Anonymous]

Your inner slut wants to come out

[Asker]

Ew. . bye

[straightguy01]

spare your name calling for your mom...

[Asker]

What is the point coming here to insult me?

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way when me and a girl make eye contact. If it's intense then i would definitely get turned on. This one time me and this girl looked at each other for like a good 2-5 seconds while she walked away and i totally got turned on. I mean she had like this serious face and i know i did too. I wanted to f*ck hee right there and then.

[Asker]

She with seripus face? how come it turned you on?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know why. I guess it was the eye contact?

[Asker]

Eye contact makes you horny?

[Opinion Owner]

When us two stare at each other it makes me feel like there's a connection so i that's how i can get turned on by it.

[Anonymous]

I get turned on when guys stare at me,
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