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Girls: What is your honest opinion on really large penises?

A bunch of questions all come up every single day about how someone doesn't think their penis is large enough. And every single day there are a bunch of people who continue to think that unless they have a p*rnstar sized penis, they are inadequate. It has come to a point where I think a lot of men have equated penis length with how good you are in bed. So please, once and for all just give your honest opinion on how you would react, feel, or what your experiences are with very large penises. To set a bar here, the exact size in question will be the most commonly bragged size on the internet - 8 inches long and thick (20.5cm to our friends across the lake) And guys, please no "this is on here all the time" because what's on here all the time is "Is my average sized penis going to please the average sized vagina".
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And just to be clear, "who it's attached to" is a copout. In all likelihood I think that women's opinions on penis size are similar to men's opinions on breast size: Everyone arbitrarily assumes that the general thought is "bigger is better"
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  • I've been with two guys: one with an average sized penis, one with an above average sized penis.

    Overall, sex felt great with both of them, but my ex with the larger penis felt better. He was pretty thick, so it was satisfying sex. However, we could only do a few positions because of his penis size. Doggy wasn't going to happen because he couldn't fit. I'm not into anal, but if I was, then I could imagine that it'd be excruciating with him. Ouch. Worst of all, I couldn't suck him off the way I wanted to. I love giving head, it's my specialty. Unfortunately, I don't have a huge mouth so blowing him was difficult. He also had a huge ego to match his over-sized dick. He would always whip it out and whirl it around. Total douche, right? He thought he was a sex god, but all we ever did was boring missionary. Some God, huh? lol

    My ex with the average size penis was fun. We tried a lot of different positions. He got a lot of blowjobs. He wasn't obsessed with his "macho dick." I'd take average over super sized any day.

    • So just on physical feeling alone the larger penis felt better, but the other guy was the more attentive lover? Do you think that your stance on average over super sized would change if the better lover had the large penis instead?

    • Hmm.. Probably not. What I was trying to say is that sex with a larger penis can sometimes be limiting. Sometimes it hurt. We could only do a few positions. I hated giving him blowjobs :(. Don't get me wrong, when the mood was right, sex with the larger penis was good. There's just a lot more cons to having a large penis than there are for having an average one.

    • And to answer your question about the attentive lover.. I'm thinking that my ex with the larger penis probably relied on the fact that his D was soo big that he didn't have to do much to get me off. So wrong. My ex with the average penis was more willing to "do work" so to speak. :P

  • Im afraid of large penis' cuz they tend to make sex painful and not at all pleasurable like its supposed to be. On the other hand being too small sucks too. And a penis is only too small if the guy has a hard time doing it doggy style. If I had to throw out an approx. measurement of the perfect sized penis, I'd say at least 5" erect. Anything longer than 6" starts looking like a scary ride (if ya ask me). Also, its not all about length as girth is just as important. A perfectly proportioned penis will measure the same number of inches around as it does in length. So you guys who like to brag about having a 9" penis can save it because nothing looks worse than a long pencil dick! Length gets no bragging rights unless its got the girth to match (so pull on it all ya want- it ain't gonna help! lol) Keeping in mind anything too big will only be seen as a vagina torturing device... OUCH!

    • Actually, in proportions the average penis is longer than it is thick. The average penis length is 5.7 inches long, and the average circumference is 4.8 inches around, that is a ratio of 1:1.2 in terms of length to circumference, and even that changes the larger the penis gets. In fact, a girth of 7 inches is about as rare as a length of 10 inches, so the length is supposed to be larger than the girth.

    • Oh... well my answer wasn't to provide factual data but offer my opinion which 4.8 girth on a 5.7 penis is close enough. ;) I was simply going by the looks of my thumb and index finger... and tape measure of course. Trust me, Im not expert on this kinda thing (like you men are! lolol)

    • Yeah, sometimes I'm not sure if it's a good thing that I know all these penis facts. Going off of the size that I listed in the question (8") the proportional girth to go with it would be between 5.5" and 6", but you are right even with a girth that far above the norm the proportions start to look off. Did you know that a girth of 7" around is just as rare as a penis that is 10 inches long? (and that's about a one in a million chance). It's part of the reason why a lot of people call bullshit whenever a girl says her boyfriend is 10", in fact, the average woman misjudges the size of her man's member by 2-3 inches.

  • It all depends on the vagina I suppose. I myself prefer average size around 5-7 inches and I'm all sweet. There's a certain point where instead of being pleasurable it just hurts, whether from stretching, hitting too far into the vagina or a combination of both very large penises are not my best friends. Like I said I prefer the average mark. With a big willy comes big responsibilities, you have to know her limits and control how hard, fast, deep etc.. that you go which for the larger men I've been with has been an issue and I've been a little sore for a day or so.

  • I have only been with one person but from my experience with him he is a little too big because sometimes it hurts and feels uncomfortable. The thickness of it is what I enjoy more than the actual size anyways. I would rather it be thicker than bigger because I could get more pleasure that way.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm exactly 6.5 inches long and 1.5 inches wide I've been told I was the perfect size before but you're right you do feel a little inadequate when you see that 10 inch swanger on screen. But I guess the same goes for girls when they see a girl star with huge natural boobs when most guys really wouldn't want breasts that big

  • Only women with large vaginas prefer guys with large dicks. It really is that simple.

    So yeah, size matters but on both sides of the equation.

    • Well that's just not true, that's be like saying only guys with giant hands like girls with giant breasts.

    • That may well be the worst analogy I have ever heard. Makes no sense at all. A penis goes inside a vagina, which is very different. If you read through the female responses here you'll see pretty quickly that big dicks hurt most women, at least until they get stretched out enough to not feel pain all the time. Of course, then they are ruined for normal sized dicks.

    • You do know that muscles stretch over time and re-tighten after periods of extended disuse.

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  • I really really prefer average or small. My guy is big and hurts LOTS. Looks hotter, but hurt a REAL lot.

  • No personal experience myself - but my friend's boyfriend apparently had a really big d**k and she kind of secretly complained to me that it was too big and hurt sometimes, so...

  • I only care about how it feels - generally bigger feels better UNTIL that precise size where it's too big and just hurts. pain is bad.

    • So you believe that 8 is the limit and after that it's considered too big?

    • well it would probably depend on the girl, but 8 sounds like a good guess

  • Honestly, I prefer around 6. I don't mind and actually like one that is a little thicker. But the longer ones tend to hit against my cervix and that is very uncomfortable and not pleasureable to me.

    • Do you know around what thickness you prefer? Cause the average is 4.8 inches around, do you mean like 5.25 by a little thicker, or closer to the "toilet paper roll test" which would be close to 6" around?

    • I have never measured the thickness of any guy's penis that I have been with. LOL, I just went to see what size a toilet paper roll is. That looks pretty nice! I would like that.

    • i know I'm kinda thick but not realllyyyy thick. I just tried this toilet role thing and it just fit but it is really hard getting it inside... i think i most girth just trying to get it in lol

  • I prefer it smaller. This way you can hit it all in

    • You can still get it all in at the size I listed, it just takes more time.

    • I had a really big D once and its just really uncomfortable when its all in

  • I don't like big dicks... they hurt.

  • i like mines average not too big

    • But when is it too big?

  • With a little practice, it won't be wasted on 80% of women.
    For the rest, just don't go full depth.

    • It's not really a problem of going full depth, two of my previous girlfriends have simply said "It's not happening'' and never even tried.

    • Most women will run toward you, instead of running away. I think you were just unlucky with 2.

  • Penis size does help biologically with sexual pleasure. I mean there's no argument there. Also, how do you know every guy on here that says he's big isn't? You haven't seen it so you wouldn't know. No guy has a 8 inch girth.

    Bigger breasts aren't better. They have nothing to do with sexual organs.

    All in all most females don't mind a average sized penis so guys with those don't have to worry.

  • It's great until the guy goes in too much and it just starts to hurt. I've had sex with three guys and all different sizes and the largest penis was the best!

    • Really? Was it just length, or was the girth also a factor?

    • Probably the length of it

    • Do you think it was purely the size that made it the best?

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  • I've had no problem with average or above average

  • Sex sucks, when its toooo big.

    • And when do you think it's toooo big?

  • I wouldn't want a big penis in me. An average one is enough for my little kitty.

    • Unfortunate.

    • Hahaha

  • no way. avoid them.

  • Big D is a sometimes food. I much prefer average size for the every day. And honestly, I'd probably... not date someone who was too big :S... which is probably harsh.

    Up to 8 inches in length and probably 6 or so round for me is ideal. Some women love bigger too though.

    • Would that size that you said be something where you would still be willing to date the guy?

    • yeah, definitely.

    • Well that's good, a lot of the other answers have been saying that they wouldn't consider that.

  • Too sore for anal sex, that's for sure! Ouch!!!

    • But besides anal is everything else ok?

    • Amazing :)

    • We squeeze kids outta there, come on man, you dilate when horny aswell, it's all good ;)

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  • Large feels better than average, much better.

  • Two kinds of girls want big dicks: ignorant size queens into painful sex or girls with a vajajay the size of Titanic.

  • I would choose an average guy over a big one, and a slightly small one over a huge one.

    Like a super thick 8 inch dick is not attractive to me. Its scary. It will hurt. And I don't want to be loose as hell... but more importantly, I can't comfortably get enough in my mouth. That would suck. Lol no pun intended

    • If somehow I knew a guy I liked had like a nine inch dick I would keep a distance, seriously.

  • If we were to date depending on how large you are oral is as far as it gets vaginal and anal is out of the question...

    • So what would it be if it were the "internet standard" 8 inches?

    • Oh 8 that's fine it just made the deadline I prefer average/slightly above average. 5.5 to 8

    • And for thickness? Is the "toilet paper roll test" pushing the deadline too?

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