I'm flat chested, my boyfriend of 1year usually dates big breasted women. He likes titty-fucking but hasn't asked me. Should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

I have very small breasts, I'm an A cup. He's very kinky in bed, but he's never asked to titty-fuck me. I know it's because I'm so flat chested, but he's said that my breast size is fine by him. All his ex girlfriends were chunky women with very large breasts, usually C cups and larger. I'm very skinny, with very small breasts. He watches titty fucking p*rn, but he's never asked me to do this. I've told him I want a boob job because I hate how small they are, but he's told me that he likes my breasts the way they are and would prefer if I didn't. I even sometimes insist on keeping my top on during sex because I hate how small they are, but he always insists that he still likes them and wants to see them. I'm just worried that my small chest is unpleasing to him because all his ex girlfriends were large breasted women, and he watches titty fucking p*rn. He still sucks and caresses on my tiny tits, but I'm worried he "misses" titty fucking large breasts. Should I even suggest him to try, even though I have such small breasts? Thanks in advance for reading this and anyone who has advice. If any fellow small breasted women, or guys with small breasted girlfriends, have tried titty sex, please feel free to share those experiences! Thanks :)

[Viperkiss]

He says he likes your chest so that would indicate he likes your chest. His ex's had big boobs but they are ex's. he is with you. And he likes you. As for titty fukn' -it's just one thing that can be done in bed. He won't suddenly run because it may not happen. He likes you and wants to be with you -big tits or not.
I personally prefer women with smaller tits but the gal I'm with has big tits. I like her a lot, so whatever tits she has is fine with me. There are so many other things I like about her I couldn't care a less what her tits are like.
He may also change his likes and find he likes your small chest.
Sounds like you have a good guy there who likes you for who you are and doesn't want you to modify yourself. I wouldn't worry about him missing titty fukn, it's just one possible thing to do in the bedroom. As for the p*rn we all have things that turn us on, but it is unnessary it have all of them. I'm sure having sex with him on a giant pile of money may turn you on, (or something else) but isn't necessary to have a great sex life. Don't worry about your boobs so much- he clearly likes them. Sounds like the hang up is more with you than him.

[Asker]

He is great and says that my breast size doesn't matter, but I can't help but feel inadequate when ALL his ex's had huge boobs! Literally, the smallest size (besides me) was a C cup. All of them were D or double D and even F size breasts, and then there's me. An A cup. Even before I met him, I always wanted a boob job, I just hate how small they are. I told him but he says he likes them as they are and would much rather prefer me not to. But he likes to watch titty sex p*rn, and he said that he used to do it with his ex's. I feel like I'm not completely satisfying him because my breasts are too small for him to do that. And I hate money, so that wouldn't turn me on at all. He pretty much does everything to satisfy me, but no matter what I do, I will never be able to fully satisfy him (unless I gain a ton of weight, but I have a fast metabolism so that's nearly impossible, or get a boob job- which he tries to talk me out of).

[Viperkiss]

You worry too much. He likes you for who you are. You will satisfy him plenty if you are a little adventurous in bed. He's with you -not them. So he can't titty bang you (maybe). Big deal. He doesn't seem worried about it so why are you? It's like worrying about your dog getting run over when the nearist road is miles away. Let it go and have fun with him in other ways. Don't like money eh? Send me yours; problem solved lol. All my ex's were blond. My gal now is brunett. I like the difference. Still like blonds, but love my sexy brunette. ;) Stop worrying.

[Anonymous]

@"I even sometimes insist on keeping my top on during sex because I hate how small they are"

That's the worst thing you can do :(

Trust me, he loves your boobs and is more than happy with them. He might also even be happy to be with a skinnier girl... the way you describe his ex-gf's, those very large breasts are usually only on overweight women. I went through a similar progression i. e. first two gf's were on the overweight side and yes titty-fcking was nice and all but by and large, I now far prefer the smaller women with smaller breasts now.. don't miss tittyfucking and wouldn't go back. If he's not asking you, stop obsessing over it and just relax and have fun in bed, that's what it's about.

[Opinion Owner]

One thing I can tell you for sure: He won't say it, but he probably dislikes you keeping your top on during sex far more than he misses tittyfucking (if he does at all). So you're obsessing about trying to keep him happy, and in order to keep him happy, you're doing something that will definitely not help make him happy (hide and cover yourself).

[Asker]

He's told me before that he hates me keeping my top on. He says that I'm being ridiculous and too self conscious. But it's just that every girl he's been with had large breasts. And he watches titty sex p*rn. I feel bad that I'm not satisfying his every desire, because he satisfies me completely. He even licks my butthole (I mentioned he was very kinky). But no matter what I do, I will never be able to fulfill all his fantasies because of my flat chest (unless I gain a lot of weight, but unfortunately I have a fast metabolism and it's near impossible for me to gain weight or if I get a boob job- which he talks me out of).

[Opinion Owner]

Why do you think you have such a low self-esteem? It seems so extreme that I find it hard to believe it's only because of this issue. Most people I know with such self-esteem issues have usually been told by someone earlier in their life that they're unattractive in some way (e. g. parents, siblings, or bullied at school). Guys are honest to goodness not that fussed about breast size, and we always love our gf's breasts. Even flat-chested women can be really sexy.

[Opinion Owner]

When you won't take your top off, you are in a way "shutting him out" from being close and intimate with you and connecting with you with a sense of shared trust and closeness. You should realize this insecurity is some issue in yourself, not him - I think he loves you and accepts you completely (and you might be surprised that he even likes you more than the chubbier women he was with before). Have you told him that him watching big-breasted p*rn is feeding your insecurity? Maybe he hasn't even thought about it that way... when I watch p*rn it's not at all because I want to do the thing I'm watching... I just grab any old random thing to look at without even thinking about it.

[Asker]

If his ex girlfriends were smaller chested, I'd understand. But the smallest he has had (besides me) was a C cup! The rest were D cup, Double Ds, F, Gs extremely large breasts. And then there's me. The flat A cup. I feel extremely inadequate because they are so small compared to what he usually goes for. If his ex's were As or even Bs, or even at the largest C cups, I wouldn't feel as bad. But they were all Double Ds, large breasted women. Keeping my shirt helps me feel comfortable and less worried about my body during sex. But it makes him uncomfortable. He also loves having the lights on, which I hate.

[Asker]

He watches all sorts of p*rn, anal, bjs, titty fucking. We try almost all of it, but the only thing I can't do is titty sex. It just sucks that he does everything to satisfy my every desire, but I cannot satisfy all of his sexual fantasies.

[Opinion Owner]

He wants to see you because he loves your body. Presuming you're exclusive, you should realize that when you don't let him see you naked, you're *effectively* telling him that he can't see any woman naked at all, not even you (I mean, on those particular days when you do that). Think about that from his perspective.. it's very unhealthy for a relationship. Also, part of what is enjoyable about sex is that sense that the other person loves and trusts you enough that you will let them see you and be close to you - you are removing and ignoring an important emotional component of sex by obsessing about something that - I promise you - is not even bothering him at all. I wish I could make you understand this. You need to dig into your own past to see why you are so insecure - I bet $1000 that it is not anything to do with his ex-girlfriends breast size. I've had girlfriends of every breast size in existence, and none of them focused this obsessively and fixatedly on that.

[Opinion Owner]

If he didn't love your body, he wouldn't want to see you - the very *fact* that he wants to see you tells you he likes it. And the biggest reason right now for him to be watching p*rn is that currently, because you're covering up and keeping the lights, p*rn is probably sometimes his only hope of seeing a breast.

[Opinion Owner]

Breast size is just one tiny component of the whole package of having sex and having a gf. It's really a small, minor, non-issue.

[Opinion Owner]

@"If his ex girlfriends were smaller chested, I'd understand." What makes you so sure he even picked his previous girlfriends based on chest size? Honestly, this is so rare in men it's nearly unheard of - it's very unlikely - very few men choose women based on breast size, and even the small percentage who consider it important usually take the whole package into consideration. If he wanted to be with a big-chested woman, he would be with one. He wants to be with you.

[Asker]

I do take my top off now. But now he wants the lights on, which I am extremely uncomfortable with. We do that as well. But I tell him I want a bag over my face, I don't want him to see me orgasming. Women look weird when we orgasm. I usually put a pillow over my face and chest when we are having sex because I don't want him looking at my small breasts or face. Again, this bothers him because he insists on looking at me during sex. I like to look at him when he ejaculates though, the face of satisfaction he makes turns me on. But I don't like him to watch me as I'm squirting or orgasming because I look creepy. Also, I don't like him to look at my body, mainly my chest, because there's nothing to look at. I'm flat. Looking at something that isn't there, my flat chest, makes no sense to me and makes me insecure.

[Opinion Owner]

@"Looking at something that isn't there, my flat chest" You have nipples right? And a chest, with skin? The skin is beautiful, nipples are beautiful.. and it's no just about the physical breasts, it's the sense of closeness to being near something that is so personal to her, and that she is letting you into that - there is an emotional component there that has nothing to do with size. @"I like to look at him when he ejaculates though, the face of satisfaction he makes turns me on" That's how he sees you though - he will be turned on by seeing you come. To you, yourself seems creepy sure, but he would probably also find it creepy to watch himself ejaculate, this works both ways.

[Asker]

And you said you've been with women of all sizes. He hasn't. Literally all the girls were busty women. The skinniest women he had was thinner than me, but she was a C cup. He didn't date her though, they were just friends with benefits. His ex right before me was a Double D cup. All his girlfriends were D cups and larger, and yes they were overweight women. His friend with benefit was the skinniest, but still a C cup (but because she was skinny, they looked huge like D cups). I'm his smallest breast size. A cup. If he had like made a gradual descend being with D, then C, then B cup, it'd make more sense to me. Lol I'm sorry I know I'm obsessing, but I can't help but feel like I don't stack up compared to the women he has been with. And then not only that, but he can't even enjoy titty sex ever again if we do end up together forever (we've been together for over a year now).

[Opinion Owner]

@"And you said you've been with women of all sizes" My first girlfriend was really big-chested though. I don't know the numbering but at least double-D (she actually wanted to have them reduced). So there was always a progression from big breasts toward smaller breasts.. but it honestly was never something I even thought about much. There are thousands of factors that make up a woman. I love the breasts of whoever I'm with equally. I haven't had titty sex in over a decade and I'm perfectly happy if I never have it again.. if he's really hung up on titty sex then he needs to get his priorities straight.

[Asker]

Lol yea, you had a progression from large to small breasts. But he hasn't. He went from D to A cups. When he even introduced me to his friends, they even looked at my chest like "wtf? his women are usually busty." He never brings up titty sex, I ask him though. But when I asked him, he said yes he did it with ALL the girls he was with before. And in my head I thought, why not me though? I know my breasts are too small for that, but he never even attempted to ask me. I just feel like they all would always be able to give him something that I never will. And that makes me feel extremely insecure at times. Like I don't know if he misses titty fucking large breasted women? He watches the p*rn, which makes me feel that maybe he does.

[Opinion Owner]

Hm, I don't know, if I had to guess I would guess that he might miss it 'a little bit', but probably not as much as you think (it's anyway not nearly as nice as real sex or BJs), and I doubt it's really like an issue in his mind. Maybe you should tell him the titty-sex-porn thing is worrying you.. maybe he can just do without that type of p*rn, if he sees how it affects you... and well, if it really is this big issue in his mind, well then perhaps there is a problem here that needs to be dealt with. I suspect it's more overblown in your mind. But obviously the p*rn is not helping. I've seen women who were literally flat-chested who were really sexy and beautiful and feminine... her sexiness has more to do with how a women carries herself somehow, than size. Just thinking out loud, I wonder if there are also positions you could try where you can press and rub him against your nipples and breasts, he might find that a turn-on, as a next best option to full-on titty sex.

[Opinion Owner]

Hm, I think if my wife was watching p*rn of really well-built guys, or guys with huge dicks, I think I might also start feeling insecure, TBH.

[Asker]

We do that, where I rub my nipples on his chest after he sucks them. He tells me he likes to hug me during sex to feel my erect nipples on him. But I still feel bad that I can never be able to do everything he likes sexually. Especially considering he's done it will ALL of his ex's. Like there's something they all will always have and be able to offer him that I won't. He hasn't really watched p*rn recently because of my concern, but I feel bad that he's willing to stop watching it just because it makes me feel insecure. So I tell him to go ahead and enjoy it, I don't blame him for wanting to look at actual breasts and not just my flat chest all the time.

[Opinion Owner]

That sounds hot... I'm sure he'd find that satisfying. No one woman is 'everything' (sexually or otherwise), and I'm sure there's a lot you offer him that the other girlfriends didn't. Women differ from one another in so many hundreds of little 'detailed' ways, it sounds cheesy to say but they're almost incomparable. I honestly think you don't need to be worried about this... it sounds like you really do try please him too and that also goes a long way, he sounds lucky to have you... if it is something to be worried about, i. e. if it is bothering him that much, then he isn't the right kind of boyfriend anyway (in the long run). I hope you can learn to relax a bit more and just try 'let go' .. sex should just be fun, not a stress.

[Opinion Owner]

I'll admit there have been times where I briefly thought things like 'I wish this girl did X or Y like so-and-so used to do' ... I suppose that's natural... but usually only very brief thoughts, and never a strong preference or like it really actually bothered me. And the older I get, the more I just appreciate basics, like just that we're in good health etc. .. a few missing positions from our sexual repertoire are the least of my worries.

[Asker]

Thanks, you've been a big help lol I know I'll still feel completely insecure, and it bugs the hell out of him when I am. But at least I kinda see that he probably isn't as fixated on my concerns as I think. I still feel bad. He does everything to please me, and I just want to be the woman who fulfills his every need, sexual or not. I still feel bad that other women can offer him something that I never will be able to. That's what makes me so insecure. There are other women out there who can please him every sexual way possible, and I will never be able to measure to that. No matter how good my bjs, anal, or vagina is, some other girl has all this to offer PLUS big tits for him to have titty sex. :/

[moistycakes]

Don't be so insecure, confidence is sexy! You can suggest he tries, but with small breasts I can't imagine it would work too well. You can please him in COUNTLESS other ways :D He obviously likes you and thinks you're sexually attractive if he's sticking around. Say you dated guys in the past all withl circumcised penises and you're now dating a guy who has a foreskin, no big deal right?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I have small chest, you could say and yeah, dated guys who went for bigger ones in their past. So what? Never tried titty fucking even though I think it may be possible. I've got other qualities I can apply in the bedroom. A good booty is what many guys want, so be proud of yourself and use your qualities.

[still_waiting]

If he says he likes them, don't worry about it.
He said he'd prefer your natural breasts over fake ones, so clearly he's not that worried about it.

[Adenn]

I love small chested women, your bf is a very lucky guy, I am sorry you are not happy with them. I enjoy watching titty fucking p*rn but I am perfectly happy not being able to do it. I would much rather have a smaller chested woman than one who is bigger so that I could occasionally get a good titty fucking in...

[Asker]

But he likes big breasted women, so he isn't lucky to have me. ALL of his ex's were usually D cup or Double D cups. And then there's me with A cups. And he loves titty sex, but I feel inadequate because he won't be able to do that with me (unless I get a boob job, which he tries to talk me out of). I just extremely inadequate because he's usually with large breasted women and now he's with me and my flat chest.

[Adenn]

Just because you are flat chested doesn't mean he wants you to change. I would never ask my woman to get her cup size changed. I would do everything possible to let her know I was happy with her regardless of her cup size. It is like I said earlier, there is more to a woman than her breasts. My wife is a C cup but I would never ask her to change them. I like her for who she is. He obviously likes you for who you are or he wouldn't be with you.

[Asker]

C cup is a nice size though lol Why would she wanna change that? He said he would prefer that I don't get a boob job, but like I said, I've always wanted bigger breasts. I feel like nature cheated me out of looking like a woman. A cups are too small, I don't understand how guys could be attracted to them. May as well look down at your chest lol

[Adenn]

I really like A cup personally. I am sorry you feel cheated. Ultimately it is up to you what you do with your body but you should be proud of what you were given. If you decide to change them, that is your choice, not anyone elses. I hope you can find what makes you happy.

[Asker]

May I ask why you like them? How can anyone rather have a small chested woman over a big chested woman? This makes no sense to me. You can do so much more with big breasts than small breasts, like titty sex for one.

[Adenn]

That is a great question. Small breasts are just something I prefer. Big breasts, anything above a C or D (depending on the woman) are just gross to me. I tell my wife all the time "the only thing big breasts are good for is for fucking". The way I figure it, anything more than a handful (or mouthful) is wasted anyway. I can't really explain why I like small breasts over large breasts it is just the way I am. They are simply more attractive to me than bigger breasts. I would love to be with a woman with a A cup.

[Asker]

But why? That makes no sense. And like you said, big breasts are good for fucking. More than a handful or mouthful isn't a waste, if they have a lot of cleavage, you can rub your dick in there. So I figure the more places a guy can shove his dick in or on, the better no? Haha, maybe I'm just being more perverted than guys. I'm not saying small breasts are ugly, well kinda. Because there are plenty of sexy women with small breasts. Like Keira Knightly or Emma Watson. But if they had larger breasts, they would be sexier.

[Adenn]

No, I don't think you are more perverted than guys, well maybe some. And WAY more perverted than most women, your guy is a lucky guy. I can rub my penis on breasts no matter the size, big or small or anywhere in between. Yeah I can't enjoy the cleavage with small breasts but honestly, to me, it isn't a big deal, maybe that is because I have never experienced it, but like I said though big boobs are a turn off for me. I also disagree, I love both Keira and Emma the way they are, I don't think I would like them as much if they had a bigger chest. I liked Kate Hudson way better before she got her boob job.

[Asker]

Well You haven't had titty sex, he has. With ALL of his ex gfs. Except me cuz I'm so flat chested. He watches the titty sex p*rn, so I'm sure he misses doing that. He also said that yes he enjoyed it. And you mentioned that you love small chested women. He supposedly doesn't care, but ALL his exes had big tits! All of them. His ex right before me was a D cup. So to go from a D to A cup, it makes no sense how he can be attracted to me. So it sucks that there's always gonna be something that I could satisfy him if I had bigger boobs. I can't wait to get implants. And I mean if Keira or Emma were naturally more busty, not if they decided to get a boob job. But if they were born with C cups and not their A cups, than they would be so much more sexier. Small breasts are really ugly to me and I cannot understand how anyone would be attracted to them.

[Adenn]

The way you feel about small breasts is how I feel about big breasts. Like I have said before, maybe not on this thread, but there is way more to a woman than her breasts. Guys like any size the woman they are attracted to has, regardless of how big or small they are. They may miss doing one thing with them that can't due because of size but the woman and her personality and other looks more than make up for it.

[Asker]

But it makes more sense to be attracted to large breasts. You can use them as pillows, you can do the titty sex that I'm sure my bf misses alot. Under boob is really sexy. They're sexy to look at and play with I'm sure. Small boobs, you may as well look at a man's chest or your own chest. The only "advantage" is that they will not sag. That's it. But perky C or D cups are always more arousing to look at than perky A cups.

[TonyV]

Well asker i can asure you that i find all breasts attractive, if anything i tend to be less attracted once they get up to the realm of double d. I find all sorts of different women attractive for different reasons. I promise he loves them, he says he wants to see them and he likes them in his mouth. Im convinced he is telling you the truth when he says he feels you're beinh too self concsious. I'm sure you can make a tit fuck work, whats worst that happens his dick rubs your hand a little to as you press them together? No way he'd have a problem with that. You 2 are adventurous right? Have you ever heard of thight fucking, try that it has to be kinda similiar its dick rubbing skin. Main take away dont worry about how he feels about your breast i know he likes them, and i wish you would not bet yourself up over rhis issue, and never comare yourself to others exspecially ex's. They're ex's for a reason, they messed up something inportant enough that even theyre huge, way beyond average breasts couldnt make up for.

[TonyV]

False, not always, there is no always right way to be attractive! I personally feel anything more than a hand full is a waist. Dont shrug off being perky, perky is super hot, saggy is not a good look so being a perky A is hot! I have a female friend who is self concious about her butt, she feels its too small. I think her butt is just about perfect and yes it is slightly on the smaller side. Im gonna tell you what i tell her, shape is more inportant than size! Perky is great, its really hot when a girl takes off her bra and her breast dont move much. Perky boobs are awesome, so im sure your boobs are awesome!

[DodgersGM]

Simply put, if he didn't like you and wasn't attracted to you, then he wouldn't be with you.

Also, consider this: those same chunkier ex GF's might very well look at you and be self-conscious about the way that THEY look ("I was too big for him, he obviously likes more petite girls and that's why he dumped me, etc.").

The point I'm making is that a person who is looking for faults will undoubtedly find them, even where they probably don't exist, and you're not alone in that. So my advice would be to not worry about it so much, and remind yourself that he's with you because he wants YOU, and because he's attracted to YOU.

[bubbakong2006]

Well he can still play with them and cum on your tits

[Wise4myage]

He likes you for who you are, and that includes your boobs. So please stop wearing a top when you have sex, and yes, do ask him. I dated a girl who had really small boobs, and I titty fucker her. How often are you naked or at least topless? I suggest you do that more often, look at yourself in the mirror and be proud of your body.

[Stevefiveo]

It sounds like he really loves you and that you really love him. It sounds like you can totally please him sexually except for titty fucking. Maybe let him have a free pass every once in a while with one of your big titted friends. For his birthday or something. Good luck.

[Dallsimo]

My current girlfriend has smaller breast then any other women i've dated before! But i found out that its easier and wayyyyy better to chest fuck small tits! All i do is find something to pressure the tits against the chest, and together (ex : some good old electric tape) She doesn't need to hold her tits or anything! And I can chest fuck her harder then i've ever done to big ugly saggy tits! ;)

[StickStickity13]

He's not blind is he? If it was such a concern then he wouldn't date you

[Tellme]

I think you needn’t worry. Small boobs are very attractive! Just relax and see how things go with him…

[Hotboy_booblover]

No let him try something different this time

[Redrider300]

Hey
Let see a picture of yourself.

[Asker]

Picture a 12 year old boy haha. That's what I look like, the chest at least

[Redrider300]

A boy lol you have nice nipples I have dates a few girls that are flat chested and had only nipples. I didn't mine it all

[Anonymous]

I think A cups will be to small for a proper titty fuck. Maybe just stick to sex, and blow jobs.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, you are definitely too small for titty sex. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

I am sure he wishes they were bigger, but I am sure there are lots of other things he likes about you.

[Anonymous]

Should get a boob job...

Why do you think men complain so much about dick size. Both sexes are "size conscious"... get over it