Girls is it gross or you don't feel good, if your guy wants to cum in your mouth and you to swallow it?

My gf says that's degrading to her and gross, and that's one of my fantasies what harm will my cum do to her, why she isn't ok with it, i tried to convince her but she still she says she will give thought to it, what to do, i love her a lot.
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  • First off, if you're diet is rubbish then your cum will taste disgusting... Really disgusting. Eat healthy and it will taste just fine. Secondly, she sees it as degrading because that is exactly how it's shown in p*rn, as an act of dominace over the woman and is usually quite degrading looking to the average women who sees it. Have you tried your own cum? Is it gross and bitter and disgusting? If you wouldn't even taste it yourself then why would she be persuaded to? The more she comes to understand that you love and more importantly, respect her, then she'll be more inclined to comply... and want to comply.

    • Thanks for your wonderful comment i rated you most helpful

  • At the end of the day it is her choice, even though I find no problem with swallowing. Try eating more sweet food like pineapples, it gives it a sweetier flavour, ad trust me you're more likely to convince her that way. However you shouldn't force her to do anything she doesn't want.

    • No i will never force heri respect her and my love for heris notjustfor sex its a deep emotional connection

  • I don't mind swallowing it, the taste doesn't bother me and I don't think it is degrading. But your gf isn't going to like everything, nobody does.

    • Yes i also said just swallow it you dont have to get its taste but she says no

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  • 1 loved it. 1 hated it at first. The key was how it made her feel to both girls. One felt desirable and powerful. The other felt used and degraded. Turned out she had bad experience in past. Loved her through it and built confidence took years. Almost there. How much do you love this girl? You may have to explain how important it is for you? And try to reach a compromise. Sex is about love and respect. Have some real conversations. Good luck. There is no magic bullet here. It's about her need for trust, respect, and security. Get that and lots of other things will fall into place...

    • Thanks for your comment, she also saysshe finds it degrading where i have no feelings as such and as much i love her i respect her also.

    • Exactly right, listen to @Xcommunicated , he's absolutely right. Find that compromise and provide her with love and reassurance. It'll take time as everything does, but if your willing to put in the effort, then you'll get what you want

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  • I just swallow and get it over with because if your like "eww omg that's gross!" It's obviously a huge turn off for dudes so yeah👍😀

    • Thats such a nice thinking you too so carr of your guys pleasure

    • Haha😂 thanks I guess😀

    • My pleasurw you are most welcome honey

  • yuk... i'd never do that to a girl

    • Ok whats wrong in putting cum in hermouth if she agrees for it?

    • i can't do that i'd feel like a molester

  • I know some girls hate it, but I swallowed it, when I was with my ex.

    • Thats what i say just swallow it

  • i think your grl hates the taste.. i hated the taste as well, so i tried with hershey chocolate syrup once.. it was ok-ish... could give it a try..:P

    • Yes she says thats gross and degrading

  • I swallow even at the end of a handjob but in the end It's her choice not yours.

    • Agree with you

  • Probably bc don't tastes that good sometimes it's like a sour taste and I like to blow but not shallow it probably in my face and that's it