How was your FIRST TIME (the time that you loose your virginity)?

So share your story about your first time having sex. Mine, I don't understand why some people can say "My first time was amazing we had good sex" etc etc because my first time was painful! Like real painful all I can feel physically is pain, no pleasure. We have to battle for almost an hour to get his penis into my vagina, and after that it hurts like hell. Emotionally, I'm happy that I lost it to him, but physically it hurts so bad and my vagina would hurt on and off after a few days. So how was your first time? Did it hurt like hell or good? Thanks.
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  • I was 25. It was my birthday. I'd been seeing my boyfriend for about a year. I didn't start out intending to have sex, but I must admit that I had thought about it. I had wanted him for a while, but I was raised to wait for marriage. Still, on this particular day my desire for him was especially strong.

    My boyfriend said he had a very special birthday present for me, so we went to his house. There he carried out a well executed seduction. I was more than a bit reluctant, but I was in love with him, so eventually his gentle persistence won me over. He was kind, sweet, romantic, gentle, and persistent and respectful of my feelings and eventually my resistance fell away. I couldn't resist anymore.

    He had mentioned to me a few times that he had an urge to make love to me, but that he respected my feelings enough not to pursue it. I had felt the urge too, but I had always managed not to succumb to it. Somehow, this day felt different, though I didn't realize why.

    He started to make small, subtle advances and I barely noticed. Or maybe I didn't want to notice. The wet kisses passed unnoticed. He mentioned again that he had been thinking a lot about making love to me lately. Gradually, the advances got more direct and forward.

    Somewhere along the line, I started to say no and it came out OK. That's when I knew it was time. I was surprised, but I knew I was ready, due to his persistence. So I gave in. I was scared, nervous, uncomfortable, but exhilarated, happy, excited, and curious. I actually found myself looking forward to it. I was overwhelmed by the sheer pleasure and the romantic moment.

    I sent him out of the room, then I stripped my way up the stairs, leaving a boot at the foot of the stairs, another boot a couple of steps up, my dress a couple of steps after that, my pantyhose a step up from there, my bra at the top of the stairs, and my panties hanging on the doorknob of the bedroom.

    I waited completely naked on the bed, wrapped in a sheet. He quickly stripped down to his undies and climbed on the bed next to me. I was tingling. After a little foreplay, I took his underpants off. Then we curled up and gave each other oral simultaneously. We did that for about half an hour.

    Then I rolled over on my back and he went inside. We had intercourse for quite a long time. He was very good, and he told me he enjoyed it too. I had two or three orga and he came too. It was excellent! He was very good! It was passionate and romantic, about as good as a girl's f

Most Helpful Guys

  • It was awesome. People always say it’s weird or awkward. I might be the only person to have an amazing sexy time loosing my virginity.
    I was at a wedding 3 years ago and this hot blonde girl in a sexy blue dress was dancing all night on the dance floor and we danced together a few times but I was definitely checking her out from a distance. She looked great about my height skinny but not too skinny a firm sexy butt and nice small little boobs. Maybe B cups. So anyway I was the only sober person at this wedding and she was drunk and the party was winding down. She came up to me as everyone cleared the dance floor and said I had some nice moves. I was surprised because I didn’t think she took any notice to me. She said I was really cute and she liked how I looked in my suit and boots. She straight up asked if I wanted to have sex with her. I said yes and we walked back to her apartment two blocks away. My heart was pounding I was so excited in every way. I was a little nervous about being lame In the sack so I made a point of getting to her bed first so she’d be on top. Logic being if the sex wasn’t satisfying it wasn’t because of me.
    She climbs on to the bed and we kiss and make out for a few minutes. And she was a really good kisser. There was a little bit of foreplay but then she mounts me. This was such an awesome moment. Two things hit me. The first was holy crap this is awesome then the sense of, “Oh My God This Is It”. She unzips her sexy dress and takes her panties off. Then she says in the sexiest tone “are you ready for some incredible sex”. She makes deep and kinda fast thrusts. Oh my god it felt amazing she was really good. It was over pretty fast. I think I only lasted like 20 seconds and at first I was intentionally embarrassed but she giggled in a sexy way and was flattered saying she loved how I thought I she was that sexy to finish so quick. She kissed me again and we made out a lot after that. I was up again in no time.
    Round two was a lot better it started the same but was for a lot longer. 7 minutes. The best part was this woman just would not stop she kept going. Every time one of us finished she’d start all over again making out foreplay then her riding me. We literally had sex 9 times that night.
    After that me and her became really close friends. We’d hook up for casual sex some times. And yeah we talk all the time. She was the best I’ve ever had. But I’m not gonna tell her that.

  • My wife and I lost it to each other. I am also happy it was with her, but the actual experience isn't something I would want to repeat. It was awkward, clumsy, dry, quick, un coordinated and so on. I had a hard time staying hard, fumbled with the condom. It hurt for her too. It wasn't this magical mind blowing, Earth shattering moment that some idiots seems to preach about. It was special and all that, but physically it really didn't get good until about two months later after lots of practice and getting use to each other.

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  • My first time is the best thing about my first time haha. I fumbled around, hit the spot. Took about three thrust and since I never masturbated before having sex I didn't know the sensation. I was literally seizing on top of her got off of her and buried my head the pillow hoping not to see her looking up at me in disappointment or laughter. It was both our first time and she was cool about it but it wasn't awesome or mind-blowing.

  • I was 14 years and she was 17yrs old. We had known each other for a couple years. I thought she was the most beautiful girl ever and had a major crush on her. She had a boyfriend so I didn’t ever expect anything to happen between us. That summer her boyfriend went to boot camp and things between them fell apart. I stayed the weekend at a friends house because their Mom was out of town so we planned to have a party. Everyone was pretty drunk and things got a little crazy with guys fighting and things. Misty asked me if I wanted to go for a walk until things calmed down. I don’t know how it exactly started but a half mile down the road we end up laying in the grass of the neighbors long driveway and the next thing I know I was on top of her and we were going at it. Being my first time it didn’t last long but over the summer we went at it like rabbits. Any time we could be alone we had sex. That fall she went to college and that was pretty much the end of our relationship. I am in my 50’s now and I still am in love with her. Or at least the memory of her.

  • My first time was good. I did a Mytake called Virgin Guy Advice that also has my whole virginity story in it.

  • My first time was bad.

  • I was 15 and we dated for (5-6 month) we had so much sex build up... we did everything except sex. When we did it was a lot of foreplay... and she just got on top and it was over fast lol... but the foreplay I made sure she finished at least

  • I was 19. My younger sister had a new friend who was 16. Both of us were virgins. She would come over after school to see my sister and would end up in my room making out. She let me do anything I wanted to do and so I started eating her pussy. But my mom would be home from work soon so I was afraid to go any further. We did that a few times over the next few days. On Friday night she had a sleepover with my sister. Around 11 pm she came to my bedroom. We got undressed and I got on top and pushed. There was no foreplay and she was not wet. She was so tight and I was so excited that I started to cum immediately. Once I started cumming I was able to slide inside her. I was all the way inside her when I finished cumming. It was the most intense orgasm I have ever had. We stayed like that for a while and then she got up and got dressed. I gave her a big hug and she thanked me. She never made a sound and there was no blood. The sex got better after that but we were only together for a few months. I've often thought that if I could go back in time I would take more time with her and make her first time more special than it was.

  • I thought enjoyed my first time! I was 9. Playing with the neighbor girl, 9. Her older sister, 12, came in and asked if we'd like to play house. Older sister had us kiss, hug, strip naked, and finally guided us to sex. I thought I had peed in the girl (orgasm feels similar to holding your pee). But it was enjoyable.

  • My first time was over before i was all the way in lol

  • My first time was not amazing and we had bad sex. I'd feel guilty if it had been her first time too but it obviously was not.

  • My first time was in a suv I stole. I was in one seat with my girl (who was on her period) and my buddy was in another row of the suv with his girl. I felt like it was an odd way to lose it. Stolen vehicle my girl on her period my buddy and his girl going at it. Not how you imagine it happening.