Boyfriend gets a little too aggressive when I give him head?

My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship so anytime I see him I try to make it worth while. I always give him head but he gets a little over excited and either thrusts all the way towards the back of my throat or pushes my head down once I've already got most of him in my mouth. I'm assuming he thinks it's sexy or "domineering" but it's really border line annoying for me? I love giving him head because I want him to feel wanted and pleased but if he keeps pushing my head down (giving head or not) I'll probably not give him head as much just to avoid this problem.. which I don't want to do! HELP!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think if you just pull his hand away from your head he'll get the message. But in general, guys don't want you to suck their cock for their own benefit - they want you to want to suck their cock because you want to suck cock. The 'aggressive' attitude simply puts these intentions to the test.

    • I believe that. Guys usually try to see how far I can put it down my throat and even when I can't (I try though) the gagging turns them on so much they just keep doing it. Lol. I enjoy it though.

  • Just talk to him about it but not in bed or the bedroom. Focus on the behavior and not on him. If you would, tell him you'll start working on getting deeper and ultimately deep throat him. That should back him off and I'm guessing you'll enjoy getting more and more skilled.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He's in the zone. Tell him that you don't like when he does that and to be gentle or you'll stop.

  • Tell him... don't do the head push nobody LIKES THE HEAD PUSH...

    • Thank you!! You're just cuddling and all of a sudden your head gets pushed downwards like... what the hell dude... lol

    • Hahaha 😂😂😂😂

  • tell him to stop it. if he tries again, bite the fucker.

    • Hahah bite the fucker

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  • You must talk to him. I can tell you he will back of if he thinks your going to stop. I bet because you keep doing and so does he , he thinks you like it. He may be trying to get you to deep throat him.

  • Bite down. HARD. He'll stop.

    • Lol she's trying to get the guy to calm down not castrate him

    • Just saying. It could work.

    • LMAO! ouch and yes he would stop! lol

  • haha happens to me too, if the bj is good i just zone out and start fuking her face haha

    i apologize on behalf of us horny guys

  • I learned a long time ago, that you shouldn't thrust or push a woman’s head down on your cock. Ever since that, getting a blowjob has been a great deal more enjoyable. Let her do her thing, and appreciate it!