Embarrassing to be a 19 year old virgin?

So this very unattractive guy that i know, i mean he is very appealing, sat next to me on the bus one day. We went to school together, but we dont talk on our free time. So he basically told me its embarrassing/awkward that im still a virgin! And im was like wtf? And he said he was willing to help with it etc,, and that was just desicusting. The only reason he isn't a virgin is because his parents literally paid the girls family to marry him. I feel very bad for the girl, and now she is married and has a child with him, But that doesn't stop him form hitting on other girls and having sex with them. Being a virgin has never bothered me before he told me that he thought it was embarrassing that i was a virgin. Im fully aware that most of the people i'm surrounded with aren't virgins, and i think i have 1 friend that still a virgin. But is it something that people talk about, and is it embarrassing to be one?
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For me its embarrassing and offended that HE said that to me... he is so unattractive, and stupid (he actually is)... he makes me mad lol
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  • Nothing wrong with being a 19 year old virgin :) I know both men and women in their 20's who haven't had sex.

    Have you read 50 shades of grey? Whether you have or haven't we all know it's p*rn book for women. The woman in the book is called Ana who meets a rich, handsome millionaire called Christian who was a complete sex freak! It's enticing. He wanted Ana to become his sub and when she came out that she was a virgin, he was shocked... she's 22.
    So don't fret :) I lost mine at 18. I don't actually regret it but I still wish I waited.

  • He's bullying you into having sex with him. DON'T DO IT! What he's doing is immoral.
    I'm a virgin and 19. I have friends who are 20-24 and they are virgins. It's not that big of a deal, don't be embarrassed by it.
    And please don't have sex with him because he told you, you must do so to be normal.

    • Sorry, but for you to actually tell me to not have sex with him offends me, even when i know you dont know what he looks like lol Like i said he is very unattractive, and i wouldn't touch him even if he was the last man on earth! Thats one of the reason i got so offended about i all, had it been anyone else i dont think i would think about it so much I have had many chances of getting laid, but i have chosen not to do it, because i want to to it with someone that i'm not in a relationship with And im not embarrassed about it, im just curious what people in general think about the issue :)

    • I want to do it with some one im in a relationship with*

    • It's really not my concern if I offended you or not. This question has been asked more than enough, a simple search on whatever search engine you want to use (including searching the question on GAG) and you'd find out that everyone thinks it's normal.

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  • This guy is hitting on you girl... he thinks he can embarrass you into having sex with him... clearly your a hell of a lot smarter than he is... and I feel sorry for his wife too... if he says this to you again tell him that he can stick his offer where the sun don't shine. That should shit him up :):)

    • I know he wants me, but he can keep dreaming! and i will tell him that ;)

    • Okay

  • I'm still a virgin just like you, and I'm a little older than you, sex is something you should do when you want, not when some idiot tells you to do it

Most Helpful Guys

  • I was a virgin till my late twenties. Most of the girls I talked to would bash me for it. Most guys that knew were cool with it. And some girls I knew, once they found out, want to take it from me and would pursue me. The one girl I dated for awhile, and thought she liked me, after we decided to be intimate cause I thought she was the one, the first words afterward, she said "you were easy". Things went down hill after that. I say keep it till you're ready and screw people (pun intended).

    • Wow, that must have sucked :( im can honestly say i im ready, but im kinda lacking the guy/boyfriend... so i guess i have to hold on to in for a while longer : )

  • soooooooo... you just made this post to bitch about some asshole

    cool thanks..

    • you're welcome :)

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  • My reaction, too is wtf. Why do people even ask this question? They should be embarassed!

    • are you refering to me... or? lol

    • Ignore him dear.

    • The dufus that asks the question should be ashamed and embarassed.

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  • pretend that you're not being virgin is a shame and too old-fashioned

  • I'm not xD

  • How do people even know this about you? Do you walk around with a VIRGIN sign around your neck? It's nobody's business whether you are or aren't a virgin. How does this guy even know that?

    • When i think about it i have no idea... : s When i went to school with him i was very shy, and didn't talk to any guys at all, expect maybe to that were my friends... im guessing my friends told him? or he was just gussing... haha, i dont know

  • Who care's what he says, live your own life. Wait until you find the right person. People actually appreciate others that are virgins.

  • I am 20 in 3 days and still a virgin. I have an athletic body type and girls give me good ratings on looks.

  • Just ignore creeps that come on like that. They prey on weak minded, insecure girls to get what they want.

    • i am... normally i won't mind people asking me question why im a virgin etc, but when HE did it, it made ME feel embarrassed and angry almost

  • it's okay to be virgin. i'm still virgin. it's just that you haven't found someone right

  • no, u juz conserve ur "crown" for ur future husband or wife~^^ #staystrongbuddy

  • Thats his way of manpalating you to have sex with him he is a liar and is trying to manipulate you, there is nothing wrong with respecting your self and being a virgin at 19 actually its very nobel