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I am a bitch because I had sex with my boyfriend on our last date and then broke up the next day?

First of all in the last two weeks he had become controlling and manipulative. Accused me of things and turned things around on me. I was considering breaking up already. I saw him one last time we saw a movie and had sex. Let me mention he is super selfish in bed and never tries to finger or go down on me. I knew I wasn't feeling safe and comfortable with him anymore. He said I was acting distant for a few weeks and I was because he was changing in a very bad way. And after that last night we had sex and i felt emotionally repulsed by him during the act. I pretended to enjoy it and I did consent to sex but I really wasn't feeling happy after! And then after sex he accused me of texting guys on my phone when I was not. I told him to take me home to my house and knew that the next day I would dump him. And the next day I spoke to my female friend, gathered courage, and dumped him. He told me I am mean for having sex and then breaking up the next day. Puh lease whenever we had sex I felt like a toy that he masturbates in! And he never even tried to please me during sex. Only he got pleasure. Why is it so awful that I had sex the night before we broke up? Having sex that last time made me realize it's over no doubts. And he sure got off then accused me of cheating on him. He should be thankful if anything. My friends thought he was an emotionally abusive douche.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well first of all please dont call yourself a bitch as it doesn't look nice and secondly at some point your wrong as why u Americans always loose your virginity with your boyfriends. Is there a rule in America to have sex before marriage? I just dont get it. If u want to be in serious relationship then sex won't work at first. Do u know what when u feel you are doing this for your bf they feel that if she can have sex with me then she can do it with anyone. So yes sex matters in married life but u Americans loose your virginity with your boyfriends (mostly) . And America is in the top 5 countries with maximum number of divorce rates. And i feel u did right by dumping him. the main thing is guys want sex and you people give them the whole opportunities and i have heard from many people (American) that indian men are not good and they use girls for sex. Its because almost all girls of i, dia dont prefer to have sex before marriage and its u that give them opportunity to do this with yourself

    • This has nothing to do with my question

    • Actually if you read your "question" properly. What was your question then? . Were u asking why u broke up with him? Or was it something else

  • You did nothing wrong save staying with him so long. Tell him to grow up and take an interest in his woman's pleasure if he wants to keep a gf.

Most Helpful Girls

  • He sounds like he's being a whiny asshole. If he hadn't been like "omg you're texting" it would be a little different. But no. He's trying to get to you. Ignore it.

    • He said who is texting you so late. Aren't you gonna read your phone. It was my female friend textig me

    • Often if someone is like that its three reasons: a. They are insecure. They are like omg, are they cheating on me, there shouldn't be secrets in a relationship. or b. They are doing it themselves and they want to pinpoint it on you and blow it up. Make you feel guilty and then when you find out about their habit, they fire it onto you or c. You're seeking comfort and they want to know which friend it is that's finding out all your dirty laundry. Which friend does he need to avoid sort of thing. There shouldn't be secrets in relationships no, but a secure one shouldn't need EVERYTHING questioned. You don't grill your partner on if they did a number 1 or 2 in the toilet, so why should you grill them over every detail, you know? Personally I think it's mostly c. But maybe that's me, go with your gut.

  • He's just trying to guilt trip you. Don't mind him or his mind games.

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  • If you knew you were going to break up with him the next day before you had sex with him it would make you a horrible person. but if you didn't and it was kind of the thing that pushed you over the cliff, then there is no issue

    • I was considering it but wasn't a hundred percent sure yet

    • Once we had sex in the middle all I was thinking is "that's it buddy, enjoy this fuck and I'll play along because it's the last sex you'll be getting from me." I knew i hated his guts and he was a selfish jerk and I had to end it.

  • no you're ok

  • yeah im with you

  • Not awful at all. He's trying to guilt and shame you because he feels hurt. It seems clear he deserves far worse, he should be thanking you for pleasuring him one last time with sex for god's sake. Dump him from your mind and move on, you deserve better.

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