My boyfriend wants us to role play, he keeps fantasizing about getting raped by a woman, is that normal?

[Anonymous]

Girls, what should I do... have you ever experienced something like that with some of your former or present boyfriends? If I accept his proposal, how should I act, I've never been in a role play like that before?

[OregonHippieUU]

I'm not a girl, but I think the most important answer to your question lies with you, "Is this something you actually WANT TO DO?" Clearly, my being a guy makes things considerably different, but I would NEVER engage in a rape fantasy with a girlfriend, and I would even go so far as to encourage my girlfriend to undergo psychological counseling if she felt sexual excitement and arousal over getting raped. If this is something YOU actually want to do, then by all means go forward, but only because you want to, not because he's asking you to do it. Even if it were just a fantasy, I don't think I would ever be able to live with myself after engaging in "fantasy rape" with someone. How do you think you are going to feel about yourself after having "fantasy raped" someone. I assume you know that about 80 percent of rapes occur between current or former friends, coworkers, romantic partners, and spouses.

[Asker]

Actually, he wants to role play scenario where I would rape him...

[Anonymous]

Just do a peeping tom scenario, or maybe "catch him" with your panties. Pretend to get mad and call him names, tie him up or tie him to the bed. shout "is this what you want?" sit on his face, with full weight, grind into it too. Come up every so often so he has air and you can insult him. Ride him cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, make up some story about how you've been "wanting to get fucked" for so long. If he cums don't stop carry straight on, if he can manage it slap/insult him. This is is a classic p*rno script tbh

If you can work in a couple of scratches or love bites do so. Just use this as a chance to do whatever the hell you want really.

[Asker]

Great, thanks for the advice :)

[dancerbabe96]

Don't worry about it just do what you like be rough. Get ropes or handcuffs tie him up to a chair be rough slap him if he likes that. Give him a lap dance make him watch you do whatever. Every time he wants to finish you don't let him for a while. I'm trying my best I prefer it the other way around. But yeah just be in charge and really confident

[Asker]

Thanks :)

[theshewolf]

well its normal... he wants to be dominated... my friend once asked her boyfriend to pretend he was a robber breaking into the house and found no jewelry or something like that and then i guess he was like " bitch your gonna give me something.. and she was like " omg like what? etc... but yeah you get the point

[Asker]

I see, so what kind of scenario should I play with him, any good ideas?

[Anonymous]

Your question reminds me of this: rt.com/.../

[Asker]

Wow, cool, that seems to be like an interesting suggestion for a role play, right?:D

[Opinion Owner]

Well, go for it if you feel comfy. I'd even say that you should buy a hairbrush with a hella thick handle.

[Asker]

Why, what should I do with hairbrush?

[Opinion Owner]

Brush your hair?

[Asker]

Yeah, but I already have a hairbrush, what's that have to do with role playing?

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure if trolling or just naive...

[Asker]

I said that I have never been in such type of role play, so I really dont have idea...

[Opinion Owner]

Just brush your hair, woman.

[Asker]

Ok, I will... what should I do after brushing?

[Opinion Owner]

Brush it again and again and again...

[Asker]

And then what, after I finish all the brushing?

[Opinion Owner]

Start the brushing all over again.

[Asker]

That's not very helpful - What's the point?

[Opinion Owner]

Your hair's gonna be awesome.

[Asker]

I know, LOL, but that's not role playing :P

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm... buy a massive dildo and shove it into your bf's arse.

[Asker]

No way, he doesn't like anal sex.

[dancerbabe96]

Won't that be weird and gosh this made me laugh so much! Don't over think it be rough and do whatever you like don't do what he wants because that would be sex that's been approved in a way not rape

[Asker]

I see your point, but there is no pleasure for me if I just hurt him with dildo.

[dancerbabe96]

This kind of things require you to step out side your comfort a lot sometimes! But rape is never pleasure! And it always hurts I presume. I know how you feel because I did do things I was not really comfortable but if he is having fun and liking it then you will start to enjoy it too

[Asker]

I know, but this is just role playing ravishment, sexual fantasy, not a real thing. What were your experiences, have you ever played with some guy such "games"?

[William_Kendrick]

if you accept, that means you gotta be rough, mean, and demand he have sex with you and initiate everything. beyond that, i have no clue because i've never wanted to do such a thing, but i doubt i wouldn't be turned on by it, if it was the woman i love, i'd love it i'm sure.

[Asker]

Thank you

[tricegibbs]

Rape the man

[Asker]

Ok, I will, damn... have any good ideas for the role play scenario?

[tricegibbs]

Play like your a dean and he has to stay in school Your a doctor he dosent has insurance Your a robbery

[Asker]

Cool, thank you :)

[tricegibbs]

Be aggresive not to aggresive sexy aggresive get a costume stay in act dont laugh make sure ur dominat dnt touch his ass be ready for him to nut fast... dont listen to hin dont do anything he say hold him dwn and suck his dick then stop as soon as he's about to nut play with his spots as a tease but never let him touch u you will be on. top the whole time

[Asker]

Great, I like to be on top :)

[tricegibbs]

Great 😃 so it shall work will for you dont stop after he nut because he will get a first one fast

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I like to find girl whose into role playing/ dominating i mean if he likes it than do it

[campylobacterjejuni]

Sounds good. Tie him down and fuck him in the asshole with a giant strap on dildo until he passes out and you might just cure him of his twisted fantasies of rape.

[Asker]

No way, he doesn't like anal sex.

[campylobacterjejuni]

Yes... that's why it's rape. Because he doesn't like it, because it's brutal and without consent. That's the whole point.

[no_bs]

hahahahaha

[Asker]

I see, but I wouldn't feel any pleasure if I just "poke him with dildo" :P

[Dragan]

For submissive guys is normal. For me that is not normal. becouse I'm dominant.

[Asker]

Do you know any of such submissive guys, what do they like to play, what kind of scenario?

[dev765]

Just go ahead and rape him already.

[Asker]

LOL, Ok, so, do you have any interesting ideas about the scenario for the role play?

[dev765]

Yes you should attack him right after he gets out of the shower :)

[Asker]

Cool, good idea ;))

[no_bs]

yeah, slap him right as he walks out and pull his ear until he falls over, straddle him, take off his towel while you hold his neck in a fake choke, ride the fuck outta him

[Asker]

Great, thanks ;)

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend also had that fantasy, so we did it several times, and it was great, just go for it ;)))

[Anonymous]

your boyfriend secretly wants to be a sissy

[Asker]

Why would he want that?

[Anonymous]

Just get that strap on and pound his a**
That's the only way to properly rape him.

[Asker]

I think there are much better ways...

[Anonymous]

Yes, yes it is. If you don't want to, then you don't want to. But maybe you should give it a try? :)

[Asker]

Ok, I guess... I will... so, do you have any good ideas for the role play?

[Anonymous]

It's normal, I have such fantasies as well, I like dominant girls :)