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Straight men that are into Receiving Anal? Woman into pegging?

So a week or so ago my friends with benefits asked if i had any sex toys and i pulled out my box of goodies XD lol and he asked me if I've ever used a dildo on a man, i said no and gave him a weird look and he handed me one of mine and guided my hand and had me use it on him. Honestly i felt weird but i enjoyed his satisfaction... Today he told me himself a new toy (i didn't know he had one before) and sent me a pic and its huge and asked me if he bought a strap on would i use it on him. He said he had a hard on walking home with it and was so excited to use it when he got home... so he uses it alone. he's told me he's 100% straight and would kill a man if he tried to touch him but i feel like i gotta ask, Do straight men like it as much as him? Is this normal? And girls have you had a partner like this and how did you feel about it? Im kinda on the fence, slightly grossed out yet intrigued.
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  • Anal pleasure for a man can be ten time that of penile pleasure. however a mans sexuality is not linked to this. sexuality is only affected by personal attraction to one or more of the sexes. so if he says he is not gay, and gets really, really excited by you (a woman) using a toy to pleasure him anally. Then he is attracted to women and he has found one that not only likes him, but will also do the things he likes. And that is truly rare in any relationship. he took a big risk letting you know his "dark side" so-to-speak. So I say don't worry so much and maybe share your "Dark side" with him. you may be pleasantly surprised.

  • Ummmm that doesn't seem normal at all. There is a nerve bundle there but I really have never heard of guys that do that. Does he masturbate the normal way too? He could be extreeeemly kinky but... to be honest if he enjoys something that is shaped like a penis up his butt and would like you to pretend you basically have one... I have a hard time believing he would mind a real one up there. Have you had normal sex with him? I don't think there are many guys that have ever wanted or tried to use a dildo up their ass. On a side note... I'd clean the hell out of the one he used...

    • Yeah he masturbates normally too. He says im the second woman he's allowed to do this and has told about liking it to. And yeah weve had a lot of normal sex lol and i did but i just can't use it now, i feel like its tainted and told him he owes me a new one XD

    • Good choice lol. The second woman did not introduce him to this either hmmmmm... Honestly I'm getting the feeling he's got some denial in also enjoying men, or that he's had some sort of experience with men before. That's not something most men just decide they want to try out. I think there has to be some sort of... openness if you catch my drift. He could just have an uncommon interest, I guess you have to try and find out.

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  • My fiancé loves to have his prostate stimulated during sex or during a bj or hj. Its a huge turn on to me to see him in that state of euphoria. I don't use a strap-on on him. He had never had anyone do that to him before me and honestly every guy I've done it to loved it and had an eyes-rolling-back in their head orgasm. My fiancé said guys who refuse to try prostate stimulation because they think it's "gay" don't know what they are missing. I don't start out by sticking a dildo up a guys ass, i just use one finger. So guys don't knock it til you try it. ;-)

    • Very well said.. I have tried it, and a dildo, and I agree a million %

  • Sure he can be straight and like anal play. When my husband has his prostate stimulated by a toy he has intense orgasms. We use a vibe on him during sex or a blow job and I have even fucked him a few times with a strapon. I was unsure at first but seeing him have multiple orgasms when I'm fucking him with a strapon is pretty hot. Not something we do every time but it's fun for something different.

    • Did you give it a go?

    • Give it a go yet?

    • Yeah XD sorry my reply is so late haha it was pretty intense

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  • Try it with him if you choose, but he's bi or gay. I'm straight and wouldn't want a dildo shoved up my ass by a guy or a girl.

    • I just can't see a COMPLETELY straight man liking it as much as him, he's more enthusiastic about that then being inside of me. I dont want nothing up my ass but he hasn't even asked!! XD

    • You'll know when a guy wants to shove his dick up your ass believe me. But, your man liking dildos in his ass is weird. And if he gets turned on by it more than sex with you then something's wrong. Dump his sorry ass (before you fill it with a dildo :) ).

  • What the hell is pegging?

  • I think he might be Bi, No straight man would ever want it up the butt.

    • I've read that some really do cuz the prostate gland, it makes you cum like crazy but I don't know

  • nasty nasty nasty

  • I don't want it in the butt.

    • Me niether!!!

  • Most guys actually do like it, but very fee will admit it. A girl using a vibe ba k there feels really good. The pegging thing is more of a something different role reversal thing. The fact that he even brought it up means he is really comfortable with you. Although most of the guys on here will say different, it is not really odd and is not gay.

  • My girl turned me on to it, and i like it. I have never cum so hard and long as when she is giving it to me

  • When your in a long term healthy relationship, people want to try new things and eventually they experiment with all kinds of stuff. I always thought it was weird and a no go... Until I tried it a few times. But it doesn't make you gay or make you want a real one up your ass. It just feels good. Nothing wrong with a bit of variety! Just find some balls to tell him what you really want to try, after that I bet he would do it

  • That would be too much for my tight ass. A tongue or finger is all I could like and or put up with. It does increase my pleasure though.

  • I have recently experimented with a vibe for the first time, it is pleasurable , the orgasm is good but different, and the amount of cum is easily 2-3 times the normal amount in my experience, I see nothing wrong with it

  • I Love Anal, Nothing Turns Me On More When A Woman Fingers My Asshole, Uses A Dildo Or Strap On To Penetrate My Hole. All Your Nerve Endings End At Your Asshole, So The Pleasure When Done Right, Is Indescribable!

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