Ladies, does size matter and what is the perfect penis?

Ok over and over again I here size does not matter by woman. Then they do studies on the perfect size and they have found that the penis that is 8 inches long and 6 inches wide which is large and is widely found ideal by most women which happens to be the same size as a the the most commonly bought dildos that are shaped like a man's johnson this has me confused is this truly the ideal size and does size matter.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I've never been in a relationship, because I'm insecure about my size, its holding me back, even tho its just under 6inch, I still think mine is small and won't satisfy a potential partner, and I'm only 19, I want to be able to feel comfortable with my size and just accepted for it, cause if I had a strong connection with someone, their insecurities would mean nothing because they'd be mine and never feel like they won't ever be loved for the way they are. And size shouldn't affect your relationship if you are in love with that person if they where like you soulmate at heart for who they are and not what they look like to much. I just want to find the right one I want to be with.

  • You have 3 options

    1.) you can accept your penis for what it is. A penis. Realize that no matter what you do you are not going to change it that much. So why bother worrying about it

    2.) you can endure costly and dangerous penis enlargement surgery. Which is the most effective form of penis enlargement. But you will be at higher risk for a bent penis which I can assure you is not the "ideal" penis.

    3.) you can cry all you want about how small your penis is but no matter what it ain't changing.

    So be happy and proud of your manhood and just be glad that it works and functions properly.

Most Helpful Girls

  • What studies say this? My wrist is barely 6 inches around. I definitely don't want to be with a guy whose penis is thicker than my wrist. You couldn't even get that in your mouth... not fun for either party...

    A lot of women will like 8 inches, but also, a lot won't. That sounds monstrous to me and it would scare me. It is unnecessarily long. He would hit the cervix a lot, and that shit hurts.

    You really just described a water bottle. I don't need a water bottle inside of me no thanks.

    Girls say it does matter because when it comes to sex, you don't need a big dick, and when you love someone, you DEFINITELY don't need them to be a certain size

    • Did he actually describe a water bottle 😂 you got me dying of laughter

  • When we think of penis, we don't first think of size. We are in the moment of love & lust. Thats what we feel most. I suppose why us women would buy the big 8" is for the curiosity, the experience not because every man who's not got an 8" is unsatisfying. Sure some have preferences maybe but just like you guys, do you think before you're about to have sex how big out vagina is?

    Both small and big have disadvantages, advantages so no their is no perfect penis size. We appreciate what we have :)

  • When it comes to LOVE, size does not matter. A woman who is in love with you will take what you have with a smile.
    When it comes to FUCKING (no feelings attached) size does matter a great deal. There is no perfect penis size - it depends on the woman and what is willing/able to accommodate. Also, as long as you are able to use what you have right, that is what makes all the difference.

    • I'd never want to fall in love with a woman who didn't physically enjoy sex with me as much as previous guys because she preferred a bigger dick. If you really love a guy and want him to be happy, but prefer bigger (or smaller) than what nature gave him, let him be free to find a girl who prefers what he has rather than saddling him with a possible lifetime of feeling inadequate.

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  • Average... normal... irrelevant. Health, hygiene, mutual respect and attraction are the keys for great sex and a pleasurable experience for both partners. As a man, I know the importance of my penile health so I make sure to use a penis health creme so that I'm damn certain my penis is getting the vitamins and amino acids (even shea butter!) that it deserves. I use Man1 Man Oil and find it online. Good luck y'all.

  • Men think and care more about penis than women do. You guys put too much pressure on yourselves. And an 8×6 dildo? Wtf.. no, no, no. Lol

  • Well, As long a you can hit that g-spot, I think that's all the matters.

    Thank god I'm happy I'm born with abnormal genes not of the stereotypical asian. I'm quite proud of my size. 6" is average for a male but large for an asian.

  • The perfect penis is always the penis that gets inside.

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    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BK3SXjJ5Zog
    • I like how he assumes Evolution is true.

  • It does matter, but only if it’s micro or ginormous. Average or normal is perfect. For me specifically I’ve only been with one guy that happens to be big and so I’m not sure how I’d feel if I got with someone smaller but might be fine

  • I mean 6.5 inches works for me and most girls have said it’s a good size way better than 8 inches or 4 inches

  • Yes...

  • personally i dont understand when people say size doesn't matter. I get that if you're in love, a small dick won't make much difference but it realistically it makes a huge difference during sex. I've not had good sex with anyone under 6 inches personally - this is only from experience. I might have just had a few awful experiences which have coincided. But yes, in general, it does matter. It won't be as deep and therefore not as stimulating: just facts.

  • I dont know about women but i definetly dont want an 8 inch. Im fine with 6.

  • You know that "ideal penis chart" that claims the ideal is 8x6 is pure bullshit that the dude just made up, right?

  • Yes it does and being too large can be a problem as well I am too large for 75 percent of women

  • Size doesn’t matter

  • I'm sorry guys, I'm not going to sugar-coat this like other woman and be honest, this isn't just my opinion, many other's too.


    Generally size does matter. Not too small but not too big. If you have a small penis then too bad, and if you have a big penis than good for you and if you have a damn 9 or over inch penis than good luck finding a sword swallower. To be honest, men can try to retaliate by saying stuff about woman but the only difference is that woman can actually get plastic surgery and change it and enhance but men can't.

    sorry :)

  • Nope it doesn't matter

  • Nope. I honestly would prefer a nice, average penis. Anything larger than 6in is going to bump my cervix and be painful. I would way rather have a guy with a 4in penis who knows what to do, than an 8in monster.

    • And how is 6.3 for you?

  • Maybe if he's very small or very big (ouch), but otherwise not really. There's no perfect penis. I'm more concerned about the type of guy who's attached to it tbh. Penis size ranks pretty low in terms of my priorities.