Guys would you be happy if the girl you were seeing wanted to have sex everyday? would you think she's probably kind of slutty?

[Anonymous]

i am horny all the time so i like having sex everyday. my boyfriend is happy but it makes me feel so gross. i shouldn't want to have sex this often. i feel so dirty and slutty! i know it's only with one person but i'm literally disgusted with myself! is this normal? and guys, what would you think if your girl wanted to have sex everyday?

[NotHisEnemy]

"I feel so gross... Is this normal?"

Okay, I would say no, it's not normal, but it's very common. Society teaches us to be ashamed of ourselves and our bodies and our desires and sexualities, especially if we're female. It is unhealthy to feel disgusting about your (possibly) high sex drive. You should take more pride in yourself and respect yourself more. Pride and respect have nothing to do with sex, by the way. If it's a problem for you, you could just try masturbating every day and then having sex as an occasional supplement to that (like once a weeks or something if you like).

And for the record, I'm a girl, but I voted on the poll that I wouldn't think it's slutty and I would totally be okay with it if my girlfriend wanted to have sex everyday. Also, I'm the same way with the high sex drive and will normally get pretty horny multiple times a day. It happens and it's completely natural.

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Firstly it's not unusual, especially early in a relationship.
Secondly, it can cause issues in a relatonship. Both in terms of 'not tonight dear' friction, and cheating-paranoia.
Thirdly, as long as both partners are emotionally mature about it, he undrstands she has high desires but she isn't going to cheat, she understands that his drive is a little lower so doesn't harrang him and instead encorages him, it should work out fine... expect some friction if your sex drive suddenly plummets after a few years of relationship, but his remains steady (as is often the case).

[AustinMan]

I didn't vote. I love women who want sex one of more times each day. As for the slut quotient, there's a slut in every girl and if she wants to cum out and play with me, I'm just grateful as long as she's ready to be treated like the little tart she is: dominated prepared to submit.

[MrOracle]

It's totally normal to me, and has NOTHING to do with being slutty. Horny and slutty are no where near the same thing.

[Sithis]

They're in fact very close. If your gf wanted to fuck everyday and you weren't up to the task. What do you think she would do?

[MrOracle]

That's never been an issue for me... LOL.

[islands7]

An enthusiastic playmate/sexmate is fun, not slutty DUH

[Dhrvy1996]

Its not unusual... she just needs more.. good luck.

[NormaTavish]

I have sex everyday and I'm not a slut..

[wanttolicku]

For your age, its not at all unusual. Be safe and enjoy yourself.

[vet31bSoldier]

nothing wrong with good sex with your significant other...

[Sithis]

If your gf wanted to fuck everyday and you weren't up to the task. What do you think she would do?

That is what the Asker's question came from. Consider it.

[Aust_Siannodel]

I don't think so, because i would want to have sex every day as well, lol. Sex feels good, and you can't help what your libido does.

[Theteckspert]

No don't worry! The average girl wants to have sex 4-6 times a week, if you feel uncomfortable about it then just ask your boyfriend but I'm sure he isn't complaining :)

Good luck
Theteckspert

[James19]

Good point