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When you are horny, do you tend to do stupid/risky things you normally wouldn't do?

being horny affects my mind in a pretty bad way. when the lust takes over I get that "I don't care about anything" feeling and I'm willing to take much higher risks. two examples: 1. I'm single and I regularly have one night stands. some people might think that it's slutty but I really don't care. but it's important to use protection and if you ask me now I'll tell you that I'm only willing to do bareback if I trust the guy A LOT (e. g. close friend since childhood) or if he got tested. in reality, if we've already started and I'm horny and the guy asks to do it without condom for whatever reason (don't have one, he only likes without, etc.) then the chance that I'll agree is pretty high. it happened way too often and I always feel very bad until I get my test results but I don't learn from it. 2. I'm into breathplay and with that I don't mean some light choking. I do it with my friends with benefits and we take it to the limit. it's a very easy way for me to get my orgasm. the risk is manageable as long as there is an other person with you (in my case he even has a medical education) but it's something you never should do alone. but if I'm horny I don't care, I take the risk and do it myself. I don't go as far as with a partner but it's still somewhat dangerous. there are a couple of other things, not all as dangerous as those two but all together I'd say that I've got a problem, lol. but am I the only one? ever had a queasy conscience after your orgasm because of what you have done? tell me, don't let me feel like I'm the only idiot on this planet doing stupid things when horny x_x
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  • I'm 19., m. N i m totally i kind of a guy that would do anything to when i am horny... There are these two times when i was really into tje trapped situation due to my this behavior of doing anything when horny...

    1. When i was 17 i used to stay at my parents apartment. They used to sleep inside their room whereas i used to sleep outside... I would watch porn every night and end up when big session of masturbation. Once i was watching porn i i got soo high that i thought of doing something new.. I was mindless at the time,. I just took my keys n left my apartment and i went to terress of our building, i strted watching porn there, then i got totally horny, my dick actually got so hard like rock and also this cool at ur brushing through my shaved dick which looked very big... Then i got so high that i stripped down everything n kept it on the terres wall, which was foolishness, i continued watching porn.. Suddenly there was a sudden wind which drove away my clothes... And i realized that I was totally naked with only my phone... Then i made some guts to rush towards my apartment somehow and begun... Suddenly i saw my friend's hot sister who was very very hot and attractive she was 21 at the time, (I've already been masturbating thinking of her).. I was really thrilled to realise that i was totally naked i front of the hottest girl. I know... Then she strted laughing and she helped me get to my apartment, which was embarrassing for me.. But i really enjoyed it very much... She could just not take her eyes off my dick... Lol... Desperate hot chick... Lol...

    2. second incident happen to me was when i was traveling in the public transport bus. I was standing in the crowded bus and there i saw a hot lady of around 23.. She came in the bus... I just struggled to get close to her... N finally i did.. She was in the white tight top which could not hold back her boobs... They were huge and in shape... Aftr some time i could see her sweating n i could also see her pink bra very closely which couldnt cover her boobs... Lol... I was totally horby... I got very hard... Finally the crowd was reduced n i got the last seat but she was still seating in front. Then i git some weird idea. I juat cheaked whether anyone could see me n then i unzipped my pants n let my dick outside. It really felt like heaven... I was actually flashing in the public which was so fascinating. I also ended up masturbating... First time evr i sprayed so much white juice. Hope you guys liked it.

  • I think most people make less rational decisions when they are in a state of arousal, maybe not a chemical imbalance, but reason goes away when we have needs that need to be met. I have made several poor decisions and have been fortunate every time, but suffered some sleepless nights along the way.

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  • yes I have had the queesy conscience before and I understand the state of mind you get in while you are horny... and this may be strange, but that is the reason I look for long term relationships and have been in one (offf and on) for the past ten years. My bf (baby daddy) wanted to swing and I agreed for many reasons you already describe (wishful thinking maybe), but I rejected most of his fantasies because I am afraid of getting into a certain state of mind that I can not return from.
    Recently, we have broken up for about 4 months (back together now), I found that light choking is a turn on... so I went back to my ex... because I felt safer and felt that if I went any further otherwise I may love it too much. Since my bf isn't willing to explore all my kink I have become quite frustrated but my ability to abstain and show reserve works a great deal in my favor.
    Ironically his name is Tony (bf)

    • yes being in a long term relationship would probably be the best. I might do a lot of stupid things but I don't cheat so that would help me a lot. having someone who shares the same kinky ideas but helps you keeping it safe would be great. thanks for you answer. oh and Tony is the name of my brother (r. i. p.) ;)

    • I'm sorry... :/

    • no don't worry you did nothing wrong ;)

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  • No, I text men I don't give a fuck about and say some dirty stuff. It's really awkward once it's over and I don't contact them again for awhile. They get easily attached.

  • Getting back with my ex.. I think that is the stupidest thing to do..

    • well, at least you can fix that one easy if you regret it :)

    • not if they moved on :(

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  • yea it happens if you generally are horny alot... but the key is to not give in too it lol its super hard... its like a chasity belt in your mind while your body just wants to fuck and release lol thats why we or people tend to do stupid stuff

    • that's my problem... not giving in. it's really hard for me. I know that it's bad and regret it later but I still do it. if it's nothing where you put yourself or other people in danger then it's not that bad but after I unprotected sex with a stranger I get a lot of sleepless nights until I get the final test results and I know that there is a serious risk of catching something nasty if I continue like that :s

    • lol yea i understand that. but thats bad if your doind strangers just to get some dick... hopefully and thankfully u dont catch anything and u can find the right "dick" that fits u.. this is a pretty true and hard to deal with question... talk to me about it more in messages

  • Yeah sometime when I'm really horny I do hookup/one Night stand
    Cyber/video sex , I always do some D/s play

    That I regret doing later

    • That hot. We should chat some time. If you have Skype or kik

    • Thanks. I don't think there is much to worry about as long as you keep it safe :) Just be careful with video/webcams, people can record the stream and share it on the internet

    • I've had risky bareback sex with women I don't anything about regarding their sexual history during ONS. I've been very fortunate though to have never caught an STI/STD either 😉

  • No I don’t do stupid things. I don’t care where I am when I get horny! I will masturbate anywhere & everywhere I can as long I don’t get caught! Though just the thought of getting caught gets me way horny!! I have masturbated in many places you name it I have probably masturbated there!!!

  • i just masturbate LOL

  • Yes, but like you I really regret it and get scared and make sure I get tested.

  • Yeah I am horny all the time and it has made me do stupid stuff in search of some peace of mind from the hornys!

  • Once during high school I was so horny during my 1 hr bus ride home I started to jack off smh. Windows everywhere anyone could see. Luckily I was one of the last people on the bus so I didn't get caught.

  • Yeah that's what being horny is all about. handjob during classes, motorcycle rides and fucking in the restroom... Is all a part of it!

  • I have never done stupid things because I am horny

  • Yes I tend to risk sex without a condom when I'm horny too. Even before I was on the pill, I chanced it quite bit, relying on guys to pull out. I always worried about it later, but in the moment I wasn't thinking about about a spurting penis.

    • I've had risky bareback sex with women I don't anything about regarding their sexual history during ONS. I've been very fortunate though to have never caught an STI/STD either 😉

    • It's irresponsible for sure but sometimes you give in to your desires, pull out, and hope for the best later :)

    • I've given into my unprotected sexual desires quite a few times over the years and haven't learnt from my risky ways and hoped for the best where I've been very lucky! The temptation of going bareback over using protection usually wins 😉

  • yes you take high risk to catch sexual STD'S i don't care if the guys been
    tested 200 times he's not telling you who is sleeping with on the side
    I don't care if you knew the guy for 30 years it makes no difference
    there is always that 1% chance out 100 you could catch something
    guess what you could be that 1% so you really need think this over.

  • Just masturbate and if you are still horny masturbate again. No matter how many times you have sex, if is not with some one you love you will bever feel satisfye. Quality is better that quantity

    • don't worry, I know the difference between sex with and without love ;) I masturbate a lot but its something you can only do at home

  • Yes I do risky stuff too when horny

    For example right now I'm stroking it looking at your profile pic and pretending I'm one of the guys you do bareback with. I've never done breath play but it sounds hot right now :)

    The risky part is that I'm telling you all that. ;)

    • not that risky since I can't do much against it and as you can probably guess from my question, I'm not that innocent little girl who only does vanilla sex after marriage and thinks that masturbating is bad ;) we will never meet in real life so this doesn't really affects me -> I don't care. do whatever you think is right.

  • No you're not the only one. I am the same but when I'm not horny anymore I tend to think back of what I did and feel guilty for some reason.

  • Yes but not as wild as that
    I'll phone gals when I'm drinking
    I'll leave sex paraphernalia out, forget to put it away
    Have sex but forget to lock doors

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