Intimate romantic sex with a fwb?

[jjbaby]

I dated my ex boyfriend for about 2 years (each other's first everything) and we broke up about 2 years ago... 3 or so months ago, we went out drinking and agreed to be fwb/f@ck buddies... Which we have done ever since fairly regularly. I haven't been with anyone since him & I'm assuming he has sexually but I dont actually know. I'm not still in love with him btw. Anyway during our casual relationship it has always been purely sexual, fast, fun & non intimate. He would kiss me to start the foreplay but that would stop fairly quickly. Anyway it had been 6 weeks since we last saw each other (really busy) and he asked me to come over this morning. Usually I have to initiate it but today when he saw me, he straight up couldn't keep his hands off me. (He is generally always very careful about the way he touches me/kisses me so to not get the wrong idea) but today he kissed me and felt me in a way that he's hasn't since we broke up. At first i didn't think anything of it... But once we got to the actual sex, it was extremely close (body to body/face to face) and slow and very intimate (sweet slow kisses and neck kisses).. Romantic even.. Mind you he didn't even kiss me during sex while we were together... And he has always been very careful during this situation not to give me the wrong idea. I guess I just wanted to get a guys opinion about this, seeing as he doesn't usually act like this.. Is it just a fluke? Is this something I should be worried about? (Also I should clarify... He broke up with me because he wasn't sure about his feelings for me anymore and because he was supposed to leave for the army the next year (he didn't get in)... He hasn't had a girlfriend since me/ I haven't had a boyfriend since him... And he has got into the army now and is leaving in jan/feb next year.) Thoughts?

[DontCryBeHappy]

in my personal experience, ex's are the worst friends with benefits. I could write entire paragraphs about why this is a bad idea but then I will be here for hours. I will just say that from what you posted, it sounds as if you are living in the past and or are afraid of being intimate with someone new. I believe it would be best for you to move on with your life and look for new potential suitors for yourself.

[slackercruster]

Sounds like love. Ask him if his feelings have changed? Or he maybe was trained with some other gal? Don't know?

What do you want from him Love or FWB?

Personally, I only love one way... thoroughly, so I can't relate to his method of partial loving. If a gal is good enuf for sex, she is good enuf for lovin. Sure some may get a little extra special treatment, but most would get the same thing.

[Dessertfox]

Once you crossed over to emotion town then friends with benefits is irrelevant.

[Chronick]

I wouldn't think much of it